#gender problems

[vmprsm]

I need a wheel I can spin every day to tell me my gender

[wlfhrdlvr]

why is it when u go by she or he as well as they that ppl default to the binary pronoun but if u go strictly by binary pronouns and ur gnc, ppl only use they. man whatever

[viktheviking1]

A conversation between me and my boyfriend

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A screenshot of a text conversation. Text sender sends the words " A customer called me a good girl sad emoji. I prefer the days when I get no customers. Then I dont get misgendered so much."

Text reciever replies " Ew, kill them. I'm sorry honey that really sucks. "

Text sender says " Thank you I appreciate it. Im not going to kill an 81 year old man for misgendering me. He's dying anyway. Also I dont kill humans. If he was a misgendering mosquito, he'd already be dead. "

Text reciever replies " Damn, well its always an option. "

Text sender says " Noted "

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[kirikoisreal]

Being genderfluid is so weird cuz wdym one day I’ll be confident to show as a girl and wear makeup and dress girly then the next im binding with 3 bras and dressing like a boy and tying my hair back…..

Wdym I cut my hair short so I can present both genders better whatttttt

Wdym I straight up am nonbinary some days

Guys

[smuttums]

Honest pet peeve with bdsm content- why is it so hard to find genderless degradation/objectification? Like, doms say they want a "sex toy" but then refer to said sex toy as "she" like fuck that shit. You want to call someone, no, something your property, you call them "it".

Like, if you're fucking a fleshlight you're not calling it "girl", if anything you're probably calling it a cocksleeve or fuckmeat, so why emphasize the femininity of a potential (living) fuck object?

Like I can get outside of having sex if you need to refer to your partner by feminine pronouns, but unless I'm already really horny, reading something like "I want to treat a woman like a fleshlight" kinda takes me out of it. Like, it shows me you still view said partner as human. Hot take? I don't want to be reminded of my humanity during sex or masturbation. I feel like a nonhuman genderless entity. I want to be treated like an object. I'm basically begging atp, if you're going to make objectifying content, leave gender out of it bc objects don't have genders, at least not in English.

[gingerbreadgodofhyperdeath]

Tweaking out over my gender then remembering that being genderfluid is as the name suggests and I gotta stop tweaking out when how I feel changes LOL

[d3rlord3-kisser]

I will look at a boy and get gender envy, like I wanna be a boy AND a girl (and everything in between) but I don't want people to use he/him when referring to me. Does that make sense?

[icollectstars]

I hate feeling dysphoric all the time when I haven't even figured out my gender because I can't just fix the problem because I don't know what will fix it? Like how do I become who I am if idk who I want to beeeeee ugh