#gender shit

[oh-look-a-homosexual-punk-bitch]

You can change your name, it doesn't matter how often you change it, it doesn't matter however many names you go by, if you want to, you can change it, you could change it every week, every month, every year, it doesn't matter, you can change your name, don't feel bad about it

[redwolftakesthemoon]

Ohh maybe I don't fit into gender because it's a societal norm and I don't identify with society or being a person

[xiaq]

Even my beloved, who does not at all prescribe to gender roles etc, is not immune to the socially reinforced nonsense, at times.

Today, he sent me a reel of a mother panicking about the fact that one of her children had their diaper off and there was clearly poop in several known and yet unknown places in the house and she was trying to wrangle multiple kids, including the naked poop perpetrator and was getting a little hysterical. The husband was filming this situation as if it was a joke. At one point, the mother asks for help, which he does not do, so he can keep documenting the chaos.

B sent this to me as a bit of a poop-related inside joke. But I didn’t find it very funny and I responded “oh, yeah, the divorce really came out of nowhere.” And he was like, “what do you mean? She’s laughing.” Except any woman who listened to that audio knew exactly what kind of stressed out laugh that was. It was not funny to her. She needed help. She was asking for help. She was not receiving help.

So I said, “let’s open up the comments for peer review.” The most-liked comment with 11k likes was “someone help me means YOU, bro” followed by the second-most “DUDE GO HELP HER” and third, “The divorce came out of nowhere” (great minds think alike). This went on. There are hundreds of comments, most by women, pointing out that the man was useless and his wife was literally begging for help in a gross situation while he filmed something to post on the internet for laughs.

And B was like. “Well damn. I didn’t even have an inkling this was a shitty thing but that makes sense”. And I was like, “yeah, that tone you’re hearing is a close cousin to the ‘someone is being creepy/aggressive and it’s been reinforced since childhood that I’m not permitted to scream in their face despite my discomfort so I’m going to awkwardly giggle and make it a joke and hope that someone saves me from this situation,’” and. He had no idea what I was talking about. So then it became a larger conversation about social conditioning and such. Productive! But eye opening that even a man who I’d consider a champion of non-toxic masculinity was completely oblivious to some things I thought were obvious. Or like. Regularly experienced in my youth (I have no issue directly calling out creepy dudes, now. But it took a while for me to get there).

[goofingitoffgaystyle]

GOD I LOVE JOE. Kojiro Nanjo the man that you are. Nr 1 housewife and nr 1 whore. Won nationals in yearning for your best friend 9 years in a row and “dad of the year” for the stupidest 3 dipshit teenagers to ever grace japanese soil. So buff when he kicks off a fucking cliffside the cliff starts crying for mama. Toxic masculinity is scared of HIM. Joe babes i’d say hmu but youre so intensely in love with your best friend I’d feel rude for even asking.

[adoralucifera]

Medieval fantasy lady who wields her pet vampire girl as a living weapon and rewards her with blood, praise, and lesbian sex

Call that necksploitation

[im-in-yourwalls]

HI FRIENDS!!! i have some news!!

I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I think i wanna try out they/them pronouns

I’ve been feeling pretty disconnected from she/her pronouns and I definitely don’t feel like a he/him

Idk if this is normal or not but could my moots maybe him give me some hypothetical sentences about me using these pronouns?

I’m not sure how else I’ll be able to know how i feel about them tbh

If you don’t want to do that obviously you don’t have to but i would greatly appreciate it

Also i realized it’s very hard to be opposed to something when you end up relating to it… so sorry if i confuse you guys with this post.

I spoke to someone on here recently who changed my mind about lgbtqia+. I realized that when i said i was against it, i had no real proof of it being wrong. Again, so super sorry for the confusion and rapid switching up. It’s really weird for me too 😅

Please don’t hesitate to let me know if anything i do bothers you or hurts you in any way 🙏🏻

Good day friendlings

The moots in question : @hummingkittiz @lonely-neverheardofthis-fan @ballenadesorientada @come-relapse-with-me @coffee-is-my-oxygen i think that’s it lol

Also thank you @me-myself-and-i-are for taking the time to explain to me what you think and feel and why. It has really helped me figure stuff out so thank you so so so much 🙏🏻 😊

[ghostselkie]

Honestly, if I was still questioning my gender, Nevermore would have caused so much fucking confusion

like

"I can't be trans, I get gender envy from a woman"

The woman

[drakkonyan]

Let me out this vessel