#genderfluid struggles

[goofy-drawings]

I'm genderfluid and I just like really need someone to use he/him pronouns on me

I feel so uncomfortable rn I don't have or own a binder and KDHDKEHEJ AHHHH PLEASE SOMEONE CALL ME HE/HIM KDHSJSH

[n3cbr0m4nceerrr]

man sometimes i cant tell if im a really girly and cutecore lesbian or a hardcore emo transmasc

[vxmpsmotel]

when I say I want a gf I mean I want to be the bf #tranny

[mesozoicbaby]

Being genderfluid is so confusing. When you're aligned with your agab you question whether youre even trans at all. Then when you don't, for example I feel like a man rn, I'm like what if I'm a transman?! I don't want this to be an endless loop. I just wanna be who I am, but when how I see myself keeps changing it's so hard!

[jaybirdlives]

I should start posting Be More Chill posts omg. Im a YAPPER when it comes to BMC I could do anything entire video essay on it. Idc if the fandom seems to be pretty much dead 😭

[willbyerspaintings]

When you say "any pronouns" so you can't complain when someone calls you by the pronoun you lived with since birth...

[flame-izer]

Shit I have to go through as a genderfluid person in a school with kids who take the community as a joke

Soo, I'm genderfluid, right? So, I have a few.. difficulties.. at my school

• Constantly being asked if I'm trans (with bad intent) because I tell people not to call me ma'am. There is this one kid who tried to bully me about it cause I told him not to call ma'am, and he started talking shit to me best friend cause of it.

• People coming to me asking about other people being trans. This one group of kids went up to me, and this was the conversation (T is me, numbers are the kids)

1- "Hey *dead name*, you're trans, right?"

T- "Uhm, no, I'm genderfluid."

2- "What's that?"

1- "Shut up __! Anyways, you know *trans person*, right?"

T- "Yeah, why?*

1- "Well, there was this guy last year who wanted to be a girl. Do you think *trans person* is them?"

I then had to explain that no, it likely wasn't them, as the kid was ftm and the guy from last year was mtf.

• People trying to simplify my gender. I have to explain to my friends sometimes (and I don't blame them for it, as not a lot of people know about it) that no, I don't just go by any pronoun. I go by what feels the most comfortable then. One of my friends are REALLY good with making sure to ask me, but their girlfriend? Not as much, but they're learning!

• Pick. A. Side. I get told this a LOT by some really stupid kids. Kid 2 from above, one of my friends after I explained it to him, the list goes on. It's really stupid, and how am I supposed to pick a side when none of the sides feel right???

If any other genderfluid people stumble across this post, PLEASE tell me if you have to go through any of these things! I love finding my people!