“Since inherited wealth increasingly began to resemble a lordship, and since, in the manner of the old honores or fiefs, it became more and more difficult for it to be divided up and placed under the authority of a woman, at first there was a tendency to exclude married daughters from sharing the inheritance by providing them with a dowry. This encouraged noble families to marry off all their daughters if they could. Moreover, this increased the importance of the dowry - which ideally consisted of personal property and, as soon as this was feasible, of money - in relation to what the husband offered. It also meant that the morning gifts given by the husband to his wife after consummation (the sponsalicium, the antefactum and the morgengabe) were succeeded by the dower.”
“The attempt to marry off all the daughters and to ensure that all sons except the eldest remained unmarried naturally meant that the supply of women tended to greatly surpass demand in what one might be tempted to call the marriage market; consequently, the likelihood of finding a better match for the young men of noble families increased. A structure of noble societies was thus reinforced in which, generally speaking, the bride came from a wealthier and more illustrious family background than her husband. This affected behaviour and attitudes, and strengthened, for example, that pride in the specific ‘nobility’ of the maternal ancestry attested in so much genealogical literature. Finally, these circumstances explain why, at marriage ceremonies during the twelfth century, the lord increasingly interceded with the parents and sometimes his decision prevailed over theirs. He felt it was his duty to supply wives for his knights, the sons of his ‘friends’, whom he had fed in his household - that unruly band which accompanied his eldest son as he went from tournament to tournament. He felt it was his duty to - and his right since his own interest was at stake- to provide the daughters of a deceased vassal with a dowry, or else to arrange marriages as he pleased, for the good of the fief, for the widows and orphans of his feudal tenants.”