why is getting misgendered in french so much worse than in english- like when i get misgendered in english its just another tuesday but my french teacher calls me “mademoiselle” and it makes me wanna barf

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why is getting misgendered in french so much worse than in english- like when i get misgendered in english its just another tuesday but my french teacher calls me “mademoiselle” and it makes me wanna barf
feeling sooooo s4 jon rn, end of season normal oak, even.
My grandma has picked up this habit of just shouting 'HE THEM IT' every time I gently correct her for calling me a girl or she and tbh... I'm good with it. I am good with it.
So I just thank her and move on.
So my closeted ass was at work, greeting people at the door, getting misgendered a heck ton
And this woman and her son were leaving, I wished them a good day, they said the same, and
I overheard her say something along the lines of "was that a boy? I couldn't tell"
Yes I will be riding on a euphoria high for the rest of the day
Fucking cis men and their ability to WALK HOME WITHOUT BEING FREAKED OUT THAT YOURE BEING FOLLOWED. FUCK.
went on a small hike with my friend through my neighborhood the other day. We had to jump a short fence to get there but we were just talking when a guy in like a UTV vehicle stopped and asked us “you ladies want me to keep the gate unlocked for y’all” getting misgendered like that shocked me so much there was a good couple seconds of buffer time before I even replied because it just hurt so much.
I realized It hurt more than usual because: That was the first time a stranger has ever misgendered me without them knowing of me beforehand or someone I know misgendering me first.
I was wearing a nice masc/euphoric outfit I have short hair, so maybe it was my voice, he could’ve heard me talking earlier. It just annoyed me for the rest of the day. And I couldn’t explain to my friend because I keep chickening out on coming out to her.
Luckily a stranger called me sir today so that other guy is irrelevant. and a creep. dude needed back the fuck up. we saw him like 3 other times after his first question.
Because Roger is too hard to spell
today sucks so far lmao