#grayroace

[softrings]

Shout out to the romance/sex averse aroaces and greyroses. The ones that can only tolerate sex and romance in fiction if we try to force ourselves to believe it's not romantic/sexual in nature. The ones who only that feel aesthetic/sensory attraction for only like. 5 minutes max. Then never feel Again. The aroaces that dont want to "marry platonically". The ones that would rather live in a friendly community with their own space than Start a family. This is mostly for me but... Please, is there anyone else like me? The first few posts in the Aroace search is about.. Yearning. And shipping and attraction... I feel so alone. :(

[miniflags]

mini flags #39 f2u with or without credit!

flags in order greyroace | skye | autospec multioriented | trixillean | sapphoric pan-ish | nonconformsexual | chaoticsexual

[sea-puppy]

Wow, I can't believe the Killers wrote Just Another Girl for queer teenage girls, closeted transmascs, and people who will realize they're gray aro/ace ten years later.

They might not realize it. But they did

[baby-pink-flowers]

My headcanons for my favorite characters

[justcandace]

Feeling like ace and other microlabels suit you but you aren't dating/aren't being pursued or perceived so it feels like it doesn't matter.

Being a cis woman and in the past/typically only being romantically (or whatever) attracted to cis boys but never dating them so people assume you are straight and either picky, unlucky, or just a good Christian girl waiting for marriage so your asexual/aromantic labels aren't discussed and don't seem to matter.

Having many queer friends, always considering yourself as an ally but not wanting to taking up space in queer environments cuz you don't feel like you're queer enough.

Aro or ace deniers.

Just feeling like you're just...there. you're a rock. Nobody notices and you don't do anything.

Taking lots of stock in your platonic relationships but then feel left out because your friends all have partners or consider having one very important. (Aka they fill your needs but you don't fill theirs)

Your mom hearing you out but telling you "that's just normal" and you think that she herself and other family/friends might be aspec but such a concept is way out of her comfort zone to discuss so you just let it go.

These are little ace things I worry about.

[kristalpepsi]

OK THIS IS A RLLY GOOD SGGSTION, I JST LISTND 2 IT N IM CRYING BC IT HAS SCH A POSITVE VIBE,,,,,, HRRMRHRRR

[kristalpepsi]

HLLO if u sent me an ask abt music recs I receivd them!! i jst,,, pokes hands 2gthr,, never got 2 them yet, srry :,,^/

b while i’m here does any1 hav any aroace or aro or ace based songs/music they kno?? even if it’s not aro/ace based anyth yall vibe w???

esp if it’s tied 2 aro tht wld b,,, neat :pensve:

[kristalpepsi]

Now that you point it out, I'd like to ask how does the aro-ace/bi thing works, because the universe says "fuck you"!

NDIHDNBEDJB I FREAKIN KNEW IT smh

NENKDBDJ im kddng, b ill try 2 explain the bst i can abt how I feel/exprnc it 👀

So Uhhhhhhhh even if its my identty im not exprt mch b, 2 b mor spcfc im greyroace!!! I g tht shld explain it mor KSJSK!! We all kno that aro/ace is a spectrum, so im knda like, i RLLY big feel aroace b mor mor on the greyside

Tbh i wld love 2 hold a greyroace flag b that flag dsnt exist :,^) i thnk, or i thnk i rmmbr feelin it ddnt look Gr8, b so far thers no flag 4 that, just an aroace flag. Bc rhers no flag 4 it n every1 dsnt say greyroace, they jst say aroace, then i jst shorten it 2 aroace 2 <:^)

I was thinking abt Demi, b im not sure! 4 now i feel rlly good w greyroace! If u wnna kno how it feels like, searching gray aro n gray ace individully prtty mch explains it! U can flip it between sxl attrction or rmntc attrction b 1 website lists how it can feel 4 ppl as this: b ill like swtch the wrds bc im Both

Exprnc rmntc/sxual attrcion b not very often

Exprnc rmntc/sxl but does not desire rmntc/sxual rel8ionshps

Desire rel8ionshps which r not quite platonic n not quite rmntc/sxl

Thats me babey!!!! Im in this crazy limbo knda n its a MESS b i also KNO im not confsd- anymr @ least- abt who i am now :,^) @ frst i was confsd how i was aro ace n bi 2, b i found out abt gray-ace/aro n it clickd!!!