#gray aroace

[fangdafurry666]

So uhm…

This is me. Fuck romance, unless it’s my friend’s sister, but I do NOT wanna be in a relationship with her!

[akitotani]

Sometimes it feels like I’ll never find love.

I’m gray aroace, so developing romantic, and or sexual feelings, is rare and or nonexistent for me, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t desire it to some degree. I can’t find people in real life to date, mostly due to the fact that I am disabled and I don’t have a lot of money or ways to get out of the house besides going to work. 

I recently rejoined a dating app, but all that ever seems to do is add to my misery. Dating apps are a bit of a turn off, it feels like I’m shopping for a partner, but because I don’t develop feelings simply by looking at another person it’s very difficult to send even one like. Hinge keeps telling me I must send likes so they know what I like but why not just go off of the many dislikes instead?

I’m trans nonbinary, androgyne to be exact and I have a deep-ish voice for my petite frame, and I look like a feminine guy which… pretty much I am! Definitely not straight nor a woman.

So far I’ve shown that I am 99% monogamous and 1% polyamorous if it were to be a throuple situation, and that I’m 99% attracted to men with a 🍆 but I’m open to the idea of women. It’s hard due to the trauma and fear that if I date a woman that I’ll be raped or abused again. I’m hoping not.

Unfortunately, for me, all I seem to attract are lesbians and straight men. Or people younger than me. I can’t find a match… it’s very disheartening.

[yaoicortez]

i think having a pretty flag and a really fugly one keeps you humble

[eah-loving-lesbian]

Ngl, being gray-aro and gray-ace is really interesting. I understand both sides of "omg I love love!" and "I don't know how the fuck people experience romantic attraction at all."

[spritelygentleman]

does anyone else peruse porn art of your fandom for shits and giggles. not even to jack off it's just looking at it and going '👍 this is a character i like. he is getting head from another character i like'

[sailorsbeloved]

scared to tell you how I feel because I fear for how it’ll end

[queertothepoint]

Identity of the Day

Grayrose

Type: Sexuality

Definition: Grayrose, also Greyrose, Grayaroace, and Greyaroace, is a label with multiple meanings. It is used by those who feel sexual and romantic attraction very rarely, very weakly, under specific circumstances, those who are uncertain about their experience with sexual and romantic attraction, those who feel sexual and romantic attraction ambiguously, those who feel alienated from sexual and romantic attraction, those who have sexual and romantic attraction but no desire to act on it, and those who relate to some but not all aspects of asexuality and aromanticism. It is a part of the Asexual, Aromantic, and Aroace spectrums.

This is the Grayrose flag made by aroaesflags in December 2018.

This is a Gray Aroace flag made by an unknown user.

This is an alternate Gray Aroace flag made by flejefriki before or in March 2020.

[mintaikkcorpse]

Shipping is so much fun, I wish romantic attraction was real 😔