you can't run from reality.

Bea𓂃Naomi : She her. 🪉

[softrings]

Fiction/ship critical, Kink critical/anti, Anti-pornography, Anti-contact, Paraphilia critical, Consang critical Anti-religion/critical Microlabel critical, Anti-mspec gay/lesbian, Anti-pansexual, butch/femme critical Anti-trans/transID, transsexual critical/positive, transmedicalist "Intersex" critical/"DSD" positive Queer critical, Neopronoun critical Anti-drag Anti-radqueer Transabled informed (BIID) Anti-endo, anti-tulpa,sysmedicalist Alterhuman critical Unorthaid-critical/informed Anti-self dx Diet informed, Fat critical Anti-mass AI

[majchic]

[majchic]

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[gendercriticalbutch]

one of the funniest copes i’ve often seen for “AGP being a myth” is TIMs trying to argue that biological females feel it too. and then they just describe like…women feeling confident about their appearances when wearing a cute outfit. like idk who told them that feeling pretty and confident = arousal. that “euphoria boner” you described in detail after putting on a pair of underwear you stole from your mom/sister/girlfriend is just a you thing bro

[pillarsalt]

[capricorn-season]

[noblackwomannocry]

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[moved-to-empresscaress]

I hate the entire concept of rehabilitating a rapist. Rapists aren't ill. Raping is not a symptom. It is a misogynistic hate crime. Stop letting violent men pathologize themselves out of consequences. They're not the ones suffering from what they've done.

[majchic]

[unfamiliar-ghostly-system]

As someone who is an ex-radqueer, I'd like to say that you can't believe in radqueer ideology unless you are in a really dark place mentally.

It's a community formed around warped views on consent and relationships, stereotypes about disabled people and people of colour, and harmful views on self perception and identity.

The tags is a collection of people talking about harmful and toxic relationships, how they hate themselves and want to be hurt, and once in a while the idolification of awful people! But in all seriousness, it's the most depressing fucking place and when you're "in it" you can't even realise that.

And unfortunately a lot of these people are minors or young adults.

[u-eat-people-ur-a-people-eater]

I remember TRAs would tell me all the time no children were getting mastectomies done for "gender-affirming" care and then I actually looked into it and realized they were lying. 13 fold increase in procedures on girls from 2013 to 2020 and it only got more popular after that.

The favorite response when corrected is to point out only 2 regretted it (only 65% even had follow-up to regret it in the first place) and that neither got "reversals". The fact that these people think you can "reverse" mastectomies tells me that they think the only role breasts play is sex object.

Ten girls who were sent to surgery at the age of 12!!!

[botchulism]

Upon combing through available Epstein files I can say that nothing was particularly unique to the detached, cabalistic pedophile group that most people believe in. Epstein and Maxwell weren’t snatching children off the streets, never to be heard from again, and chained up and ritualistically murdered by people in robes. The way he obtained his victims was no different than how sex trafficking functions all around the globe. They were lured in by the promise of quick easy money while in school if you did “this really easy thing”. His victims lead seemingly normal lives outside of it. Besides his immense power and wealth, the depositions make him out to sound like he could be any guy.

And he really is no different than the middle aged teacher busted for soliciting an underage student, or the European man who travels abroad for sex tourism, or the study abroad student who visits a German brothel where the women barely understand the language, or the guy who regularly visits massage parlors (which is the most common form of sex trafficking), or a man with CSAM on his computer, or the 30 year old man with a teenage girlfriend. You could pass any of these men on the street on a random Tuesday. There aren’t any hidden clues devilishly planted around the celebrity sphere that point towards a secret underground adrenochrome harvesting farm. It’s much more likely that your neighbor Joe Schmo has more in common with Epstein than he wants to admit.

We need to stop believing that pedophilia and sex trafficking are unique evils encapsulated in a bubble that lies outside of society. It is society.

[gendercriticalbutch]

the way TRAs will insist minors should be able to medically transition and puberty blockers are harmless even after there was a whole ass reality show documenting the way a young man (jazz jennings) was groomed and abused his entire life by his parents, showed all the ways early transition fucked up his mental health and destroyed any possibility of him having a normal healthy sex life in adulthood, and described in intimate detail a horrific genital surgery he had before age 18 that caused him immense trauma due to how incredibly botched it was as a DIRECT RESULT of him being put on puberty blockers as an adolescent…it boggles my goddamn mind.

it just shows how far from reality this entire movement is and how little they value the truth. they don’t give 2 shits about “protecting trans kids.” honestly how jazz’s story didn’t automatically peak everyone is beyond me.

[magnetictapedatastorage]

i think a lot of younger teenagers who are against sex-based sports leagues haven't really grasped the strength difference yet. it's not a comfortable thing to understand, and its very tempting to deny it as long as you can.

[dhakcjshkvjbd]

I just wish actual adults would see this and try to help them understand that it’s ok, that our worth isn’t determined by relative brute upper body strength, that women can be incredibly athletic even if we aren’t the same as males, that women’s accomplishments matter, that building strength and bone density is still very important and doable, that women’s biology comes with its own advantages, that little to none of a person’s success in modern society hinges on them being able to throw a spear harder than anyone else, that a human man will never be as strong as a gorilla, everyone’s strength is relative and everyone has a right to fair competition, not just males.

but instead a huge swath of leftists are seeing the insecurity and fear and self-loathing that burdens teenage girls, and exploiting it to convince them that anyone who talks about the reality of female/male biology is actually just calling women worthless and inferior

[blogg1sh]

It's hard to hold these beliefs when the world places so much value on physical strength and constantly undermines women for not having it. The constant violence in the world doesn't help either.

[gendercriticalbutch]

“a woman is an adult human female, and a man is an adult human male” is so much more freeing than all the gender shit?? like,, you have the definition of who you are. whatever you do with that and however you choose to express yourself is up to you. you can be as feminine or masculine as you please, it doesn’t matter. you’re still you.

the whole: “umm… uhh…i was born female but i don’t like makeup or dresses and i like kissing girls which pronouns am i supposed to use?? am i non-binary?? am i bigender?? am i a demi-boy?? do i need to start injecting myself with cross sex hormones and get a mastectomy to try to resemble a male because that’s actually who i’m meant to be??” mindset i used to have is so suffocating in retrospect like idek how the hell i lived like that

[magnetictapedatastorage]

i think a lot of younger teenagers who are against sex-based sports leagues haven't really grasped the strength difference yet. it's not a comfortable thing to understand, and its very tempting to deny it as long as you can.

[dhakcjshkvjbd]

I just wish actual adults would see this and try to help them understand that it’s ok, that our worth isn’t determined by relative brute upper body strength, that women can be incredibly athletic even if we aren’t the same as males, that women’s accomplishments matter, that building strength and bone density is still very important and doable, that women’s biology comes with its own advantages, that little to none of a person’s success in modern society hinges on them being able to throw a spear harder than anyone else, that a human man will never be as strong as a gorilla, everyone’s strength is relative and everyone has a right to fair competition, not just males.

but instead a huge swath of leftists are seeing the insecurity and fear and self-loathing that burdens teenage girls, and exploiting it to convince them that anyone who talks about the reality of female/male biology is actually just calling women worthless and inferior

[blogg1sh]

It's hard to hold these beliefs when the world places so much value on physical strength and constantly undermines women for not having it. The constant violence in the world doesn't help either.

[hyeenagurrl]

anywayyyyys if you insist on calling a pedophile/rapist transwoman ‘she’ thats you admitting you think misgendering is worse than those crimes and im against you and hope you die too

[tra-archive]

Whenever I get in an argument with a TRA about this, they always say “using trans people’s pronouns is just the respectful thing to do” (obviously paraphrasing but the word “respect” is almost always used)

I usually say “so you’re saying we should give respect to pedos and rapists?”

Then they usually block me lol

[iwanttolisten]

The way I justified this to myself was to say "well, for everyone else, using the correct pronoun isn't a matter of respect, either- it's just a thing you do." You don't think about calling a cis man "he" and a cis woman "she", so you don't think about gendering a trans person correctly. It's just a box to check here.

I am now reminded of how aggressively angry online transfeminists get when they are "degendered", even in perception. You could not casually refer to one of them as "they" without getting posts howling at you calling you a secret Nazi. Then they went after other language that wasn't constantly reassuring that you thought they were women- you couldn't call a trans woman "this person/individual", "the tumblr user", etc. You had to be going she woman woman she girl lady her woman.

The little old transfeminist in me says that people purposefully switch to gender-neutral language for MTFs when they wouldn't for a cis woman when they feel shaky on affirming their gender identity but don't want to start upset, which isn't right because you should believe a trans person is whatever gender they say they are, and it is essentially covert misgendering. And MTFs have a right to be paranoid on this because their validity is always in check, after all. Same for why they freak the fuck out at people saying "guys" and "dude".

But for some reason calling trans men "theyfabs" and constantly bludgeoning them with the idea that they're going to detransition and become radfems was fine. And of course, this line of thinking results in women being forced to call their male rapist "she" and blocking anyone who doesn't which should've always been enough to set the whole thing on fire.