#green flags

[proseify]

"How was ur day?" "How are u?" "I missed you today" "Call me when you get home" "I'm proud of you"

[emptysoulsx]

I'm not a green flag, i'm a fuc*ing green forest.

[ratbugs]

not sure if there’s really any other more attractive, endearing, or green flag trait in this world than someone who loves wasps and talks to them like they’d talk to their pet cat

do not ever let me catch you cooing at a wauce or i might just fall in love with you

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Green Flags in Friendships: Autism Edition

Neurodivergent Lou

[des-vanecido]

Quiero resolver las cosas, ¿podemos hablar?

[oncce-againn]

i don’t have any red flags. i have a white flag. i give up

[sadgirlnamedmaria]

HC Preferences: Resident Evil Boys x Green Flag, Red Flag, Black Flag

(PART I)

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Meaning Of Each Flag:

💚 Green Flags: Emotionally mature, good communication, treats you right, safe to love.

♥️ Red Flags: Toxic but charming, emotional damage possible, but you might risk it anyway.

🖤 Black Flags: You’ll end up in therapy, the ER, or a villain arc. Stay away… unless that’s your thing.

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♂️ Male Characters:

Leon S. Kennedy

Chris Redfield

Albert Wesker

Carlos Oliveira

Piers Nivans

Jake Muller

Jack Krauser

Luis Sera

HUNK

Karl Heisenberg

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💚 GREEN FLAGS (Certified Boyfriend Material)

Carlos Oliveira

Loyal. Flirty but not disrespectful.

Would die for you and also make you laugh daily.

Brings snacks, compliments your hair, and checks if you’ve eaten.

Greenest of green.

Chris Redfield

Protective to a fault. Tries so hard to do the right thing.

Might overwork himself, but he’s trying to build a future.

Will ask if you’re okay three times and pack you lunch.

A gym bro with a soft heart.

Piers Nivans

Shy, sweet, emotionally available.

Will absolutely put you first, every single time.

Cries if you’re mad at him.

The type to hold your hand under the table at dinner.

♥️ RED FLAGS

(Hot but Concerning)

Leon S. Kennedy

Brooding, distant, drinks too much.

Will ghost you for months then show up like nothing happened.

Still has a picture of Ada in his wallet.

You wanna save him. He won't let you.

Jake Muller

Cocky and emotionally unavailable, but he’ll make you laugh.

Daddy issues and a motorcycle.

Probably flirts with a waitress in front of you but says “you’re the one I come home to.”

Somehow still hot.

Luis Sera

Flirty, shady, disappears randomly.

You’re not his first… second… or probably tenth.

But when he loves, he loves.

Might vanish for days, then bring you flowers like “what’s wrong, mi amor?”

🖤 BLACK FLAGS:

RUN (unless you're into danger)

Jack Krauser

Jealous. Controlling. Probably tracks your phone.

Military trauma turned villain origin story.

Major “You're mine and no one else's” energy.

Would definitely say “no one else gets to look at you.”

Albert Wesker

Emotionless. Manipulative. 10/10 gaslighter.

Thinks love is a “distraction.”

Would test viruses on you to “make you stronger.”

Red eyes, black gloves, black soul.

Karl Heisenberg

Mad scientist. Lives in a scrap pile.

Smokes, swears, and probably hacked your phone.

Treats love like war, and you’re either a soldier or the enemy.

Fun if you want to destroy the world together.

HUNK

???????????

You’ll never know if he loves you or plans to assassinate you in your sleep.

Ghosts harder than anyone like, professionally.

Might text back after six months with “status: alive.”

[theambitiouswoman]

Green Flags in Communication 💚💬

"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."

This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.

"I don't want you to feel alone in this."

This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.

"I've been struggling with ___”

This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.

"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."

This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.

"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"

This is an example of constructive communication.

"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"

This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.

"I appreciate when you ___.”

Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.

"I didn't handle that well."

This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."

Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.

"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."

Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.

"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"

It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.

"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."

Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.

"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."

Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.

"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"

Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.

"I trust your judgment on this."

Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.

"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."

Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.

"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"

Validates the other person's feelings.

"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."

Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.

"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."

Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.