#grumpytrans

[grumpytrans]

so loving men isn't a curse. loving men isn't "unfortunate". loving men isn't a bad thing. yes, we can joke about how awful men can be, but it gets to a a point where this mentality can really hurt. it can really feed into you hating yourself for something you can't control. loving men is something special. loving yourself is just as beautiful.

[kidovna]

your art is SO COOL! i especially love how diverse your facial features are 😁

Thank you so much! I try my best ☺️

[relatable-messenger]

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[fridayiminlovemp3]

i wanna know why anyone needs clarification on your bingo like it makes sense. as it should be. y'know?

sjdjjdjdh i know😔 there was just a lot of brain rot happening in the notes and i wanted to do some damage control. i shouldn’t have to explain my prophetic visions though, like i said what i said :/

[werebutch]

hey tht post abt lesbian inclusion was great in theory but poorly executed. it's not really okay to throw other identities under the bus like that. just wanted you to know 🤷🏼‍♂️

mogai sexualities do way more harm than good, and saying that its bad to include those before including lesbians should be a no brainer ?

[nick-eyre]

nick that phineas + ferb baz post is so cursed.

That's just my regular Tuesday 

[dynamopsychism]

hey not to pry or not to be rude in any way, but what make you decide to be ex-transmed and ex-truscum? genuinely curious! ❤️

I believed for a long time that if someone didn't have consistent physical dysphoria then they couldn't be transgender. I was very upset with trans people being too gnc. I was skeptical of most nb people.

While I believed this I was a very hateful person in all aspects of my life. I wasn't happy and I was dragging my IRL trans friends down with me.

I was in a relationship with a transmed and that in a way made me want to enforce the ideology more. After that relationship ended I did a lot of self reflection. One of the things I refelected on was my truscum beliefs.

I came to the conclusion that I have no place to tell someone who they could or couldn't be. I have no place to tell someone what will make them happy. It is not up to me to tell someone not to pursue comfort when they do not necessarily recognize a discomfort.

I still believe that there is some biological aspect that makes someone trans. I still believe that gender is real and inate and not purely a social construct. I still believe that someone shouldn't transition medically unless they're absolutley sure that it will improve their life. I'm still a bit skeptical about the people who claim not to experience dysphoria nor euphoria in regards to their gender.

However, I refuse to put myself in a place that makes people afraid to be themselves and express their gender no matter how they do it.

Sorry this is so long! Feel free to ask more questions if you have them!

[krisrix]

you really had to do it to em w that shirtless baz pic........... also drawing Baz with functional muscles/more body fat because he was a rugby player for years thank you

Thank you!! Because he plays a lot of football but also doesn’t eat all that much, I wanted to strike a balance between making him strong but still lean. Glad it worked for you!