#happy venting

[remadra]

Taking T shots? Sure am. And brother? Pour me another

I'm hyped I get to be a happy man instead of staying a sad girl let's fucking gooooo!!!!! I have become a guy that loves his car and says watch this before tripping and eating shit instead of a cool trick!!!!!!!!!! I like the taste of non alcoholic beer and building things in the garage!!!!!! I love power tools and movie explosions!!!!! I love getting older and happier!!!!!!! Yahoooooo!!!!!!!!

[sasarahsunshine]

With this I am gonna take you up on your option to vent in your inbox. Because this makes me so happy I need to share this and you seem the kind of person that would love this. (Correct me if I am wrong, you can also just delete this, I am so sorry if this is overstepping)

So a few weeks ago we as a friend group moved in together because some of us study now while others still go to school (I should maybe mention that we are all the same age, the furthest is 10 months apart) so it was like the perfect timing and we have been waiting on this for years.

But one of our friends is autistic and the day we got to sign the papers she stopped talking and withdrew and no matter what we did we just couldn't get through to her but we still moved her in with us.

It didn't get better for weeks and we were terrified that we pushed her too fast too soon but a week ago she started talking again (very little and mostly through repeating what we say but by now she speaks her own words again) and to eat with us before she would just be in her room and when we would try convincing her to eat with all of us, she would start getting stressed out so it was mostly just one of us eating with her in her room and she slowly initiated contact again, like touching our hands, or leaning against us while she over the last weeks would keep as much distance as possible and just crawled into bed late at night with me and then in the morning go back to flinching away.

And Friday she got the whole train and bike ride to her school + the school day done and today we finally got to talk about routines and stuff and now it just feels like we all finally are completely moved in and it's just amazing because we always wanted this but we were scared that she is not okay.

I don't know but I needed to get rid of this because nearly every body we have been talking to was like "What did you expect moving in with her??" And putting the fault on her which is not the case, maybe others can't tell but we could tell that she was trying.

(Don't get me wrong: I am happy about her now being so good and not that she was suffering all this weeks. Believe me it broke my heart and there were a lot of tears of desperation shed. But I just love that no one at any point got angry at her or let his frustration out on her. )

I hope this maybe even cheers you up too, I read that you have been some moving going on too I hope it goes great. <3

Okay, this literally made me smile so much. You guys were so supportive and loving, and even when she was non-verbal and overwhelmed, you were so patient and never got angry.

You're a wonderful friend, and she's so lucky to have you! And I'm glad you have a good routine for her now, so she can feel comfortable being herself and being around you guys again <3

Just keep being patient and asking her what she needs <3 And keep being awesome and amazing!! <333

Also I totally just happy stimmed while reading this, so enjoy this gif of Markimoo doing the same <3

(This did cheer me up, thank you <3 My brother is moving in with us again after some very not-good things, and it's just been a very stressful time. He's almost all the way in now though, and we're almost done getting rid of old things and cleaning the house, so soon it'll be okay again).

[slstarrycity]

Abel looks so good in pink. Pink sweatshirt, pink hoodie, pink skin-tight outfit. I love to imagine him wearing Cain’s jackets and clothes. They would probably be slightly big on him,,he would look so cute. And what if he wore big, round glasses once! With such messy, clumped, bed hair. He probably wears white briefs and he uses strawberry shampoo. He likes cuddles and rough sex. His favorite pillow is Cain’s chest. He loves the feeling of riding his motorcycle so fast, he loves the adrenaline and how the wind pushes through his fluffy hair. His favorite color is green and his best pet friend is Newton. His favorite ice cream flavor is butterscotch and he loves sweets so much. 

He prefers comfort over fashion but loves wearing skin-tight things every now and then, especially if it’s for Cain. His old room back on Earth is huge and spacious with half of the ceiling made of glass, perfect for stargazing. He loves stargazing. He pampers Newton and lets him roam free when he doesn’t keep Newton in his large, vegetation-filled tank to sleep at night. Abel likes to read about space and he’s very studious. Where he lacks common sense, he makes up for it in book smarts. Abel is very prideful and emotional with a deep sense of empathy. If Abel and Cain adopted kids, the blond would be very clingy and hover over them a lot, wanting to be there for them when his dad wasn’t there for him. His favorite genre of music is probably hard rock and alternative rock with a bit of indie on the side. He likes days that are partly cloudy as opposed to rainy or too bright. Abel is precious and I love him so muuuuch! 

[voxfeles]

I have spent the last three weekends with this girl and her family and my life is so fucking good ngl

[dxxstiny]

My baby and I went apartment shopping today the right way and I'm so excited. Originally it was going to be us and a roommate but our roommate backed out and honestly, I'm glad 🙄 we can still do this on our own & I want it to be just us anyway. Anywho, we looked at completely different homes today that best fit OUR needs and now we're torn between two places. Blah blah blah, we're SO excited to take that next step in life and move out of our parent's houses and in with each other 💜 the places look sooooo nice and we feel great and comfortable with either decision. This is just an amazing feeling for us rn and we can't wait for May/June 😌

[psychonastego]

AAAAAAAAAAAJKGLREHGERLH

BLRH BLUH BLEHHH

MY FP LIKED MY ART YES YES YES MY FP LIKES ITTTT OMGGG IM SO HAPPY

finally spoken up to me omgmgmg (i do understand why they were busy but still urughehrgerhgwe)

[nightzskii]

Okay, my science teacher is a good guy. He's genuinely a nice person and if you see me tearing up over it then you're correct. I am gonna cry about it at some point. You're right.

He didn't even mention me saying thank you as a last message, just simply saying "You're welcome". I don't think he knows the full extent on what his words mean to me after I explain how I'm feeling.

Thank you science teacher. 👍🏽 you're the best.

[strangernstranger]

I was really nervous about today. I was set to run a session with a child who I’ve never sat in with before who also has very violent and concerning self injurious behaviors. Today was the first day he’s never had a behavior! I’m so proud of him (and myself a little if I’m being honest.)