#harassed

[p-redux]

I know I am preaching to the choir on this blog, but when I read other blogs I just have to wonder...has Sam EVER dated anyone they liked and didn't immediately start to attack, harass, talk about her looks, judge, and just trash talk the woman and Sam?

Sadly, Anon, no. EVERY woman Sam has ever dated, whether briefly or long-term, has been harassed, bullied, and criticized by certain factions of the fandom. But that's because it's NOT about the woman; it's about Sam, and it's about those "fans." I repeat, it's not about the woman.

The ones who behave badly to any woman in Sam's life fall into these categories: 1. The few remaining delusional SamCait shippers who have held onto the ship for 11 years and the new shippers who get fooled by money grabbing groups like SIS Brazil. 2. Ex-shippers who have never forgiven Sam for not actually being the captain of their SamCait ship like they thought. They hate him for this "betrayal." 3. Sam haters, who are usually shipper sympathizers or secretly shippers. 4. The truly mentally ill who have diagnosable psychosis and believe Sam is their boyfriend and any woman he dates is an interloper. 4. And a minority of Sam Onlys, who fantasize about being with Sam, and of course, his girlfriends get in the way of that fantasy.

Those of us who don't fall into any of the above categories see REALITY and are HAPPY for boyfriend Sam.

So, the woman Sam is dating could be: gorgeous, intelligent, kind, funny, talented, loved by family, friends and the groups I mentioned above would STILL hate her because it doesn't matter WHO she is, it's NOT about her. It's about what they project onto Sam. It's about THEM.

And, hey, people are entitled to their opinions and their feelings, and it would be semi okay if that's where it stopped. But, as we've seen for 11 years, that's NOT where it stops.

It's the SAME playbook every time Sam dates someone: the haters stalk her social media and EVERYONE in her life, they create fake accounts to leave hate comments and DM her hate comments, including death threats. They then do the same to her family, friends, employers. They make up false rumors about her and spread them to places like the celebrity gossip site DeuxMoi, they leave comments on Sam's social media, send him and her hate letters and suspicious packages. If they find out where she lives and/or works, they physically go there to harass her. Did I mention they send death threats? I'm not joking.

This is all well documented throughout the years. And some of Sam's girlfriends have posted about it publicly. Sam himself has pleaded directly for the haters to stop. To no avail. Their behavior is pathological, and some of them are dangerous, quite literally.

Hopefully, once Outlander ends and some time passes, the haters will move on. But, I'm not holding my breath...

You may ask, how does a Sam girlfriend deal with the harassment that comes with dating him? I'll quote what one of my Mackenzie Mauzy sources told me when I asked her how Mackenzie, Sam's ex-girlfriend (they dated from 2016-2018) dealt with the fandom bullies. The source said something along the lines of, "She ignores the nonsense and focuses on how ridiculously happy she is with Sam." Simple as that. 🤷‍♀️

I mean...👇 😍

[the-transgenda-agenda]

wait i hadnt finished the page. okay bud sorry but it's weird you have like 5 different antitransmasculinity terms, don't call *any* of them controversial, but do describe tma as controversial lol. either one concept is or they all are, because they're all controversial in the same realm of discourse.

i am seeing what folks mean by history revision that could do with transfeminist editing, it does feel a little historically inaccurate and transmasc-biased, particularly when you include so *many* antitransmasculinity terms (and such obscure ones! with no mention of their recency, frequency of use, or controversy!)

The "controversy" is just a handful of people on Tumblr claiming that trans men talking about their experiences mysteriously harms trans women.

More transmasc terms have been included as opposed to transfem terms because transmasculine people are often pressured into creating more and more terms after being told that other terms are somehow offensive.

I have included the terms transmisogyny, transfemmephobia, and anti-transfemininity. I'm not aware of any other terms in that same vein. Please let me know if there are any more I should add.

"Tma/tme" as a concept is so inherently flawed that its difficult to define. I've already removed it. While trans men are generally erased from the media, trans women are so heavily demonized that anyone who doesn't look cisgender in day to day society gets assumed to be a trans women by bigots who don't care one way or another. Trying to say that certain people are or aren't affected by transmisogyny based on identity doesn't make a lot of sense. Obviously, trans women are the primary targets of transmisogyny, but bigotry and oppression is not something that is going to strictly adhere to whether or not you're genuinely the intended target.

Its less common (due to far less people even knowing what the basic concept of a trans man is vs a trans woman) but there are people who aren't trans men who get assumed to be trans men in a negative manner.

I shouldn't have tried to include these online discourse terms. It's also notable that in these 2 asks you have sent criticizing my definition of the term (fair, I don't like them at all and it showed in how they were described) you haven't really offered a "more accurate" explanation of them.

Terms transmasculine people have created to define various forms of oppression are generally very easily defined while being heavily misinterpreted.

I agree that more terms could reference how frequently they are generally used, though this will take some time to do.

[thatpollguy]

Have you ever trolled anyone online?

Yes, I troll people all the time

Yes, I've trolled people a few times

Yes, I've trolled someone once just for a laugh

No, I've never trolled anyone, but I would like to at some point

No, I've never trolled anyone and I would never do that

Voting ended onNov 17, 2025

[j-august]

The slightly harassed expression and deprecating smile so typical of the child of an over-forceful parent had robbed him of authority.

Margery Allingham, The China Governess

[sparklerzii]

people are trying to cancel chappell roan just because she canceled a show BECAUSE of her mental health??

someone said "well, this is very unprofessional of her!!!" stfu.

[aspenartzz]

IMPORTANT PLEASE READ‼️‼️

So, you might have seen my friend @er-0z post about this, if you havent, ill put basically the same thing here. but i wanted to make a post on this as well so it reaches more people.

Please Share, or Reblog me and Pip’s posts so that more people will be aware of what is going on, as it is a big deal, and has put a lot of pressure on us.

exposing sum ppl !!

Hello my name is pipster, but i also go by rivers, eros, or pawz. I am a victim of online harassment My friend, aspen/en, is also a victim

[totally-not-peter-parker]

I am being bullied in my own home