So... I have been pondering things these days and I’ve come to major realizations.
1. People will do whatever the fuck they want to do even if it hurts your feelings: As harsh as it is, is true. People will act and say as they feel is right. It won’t matter if it crushes your heart or destroys your life. Don’t take it personally though.
2. The mistake is thinking that you are different: So you met this person who used to treat people in a certain way and with you is tots different because is you right? BULLSHIT. You will never be different from anyone, because of the simple fact that people are used to treat human beings a certain way, and as special as you may be today things change and shit falls apart so you will become just another human being and get treated just like everyone else did before.
3. You never finish to get to know someone: Thought you knew and understand everything from a special one? Guess what? Another lie. You can fucking swear on your life on a person and time will change them. They will change, you will change and life will go on. Never thought a certain one would act a certain way? Surprise! It can and it will happen.
4. Fool me once it’s on you, fool me twice it´s on me: I need to say no more about this.
5. Love is not enough: You might love someone with all your heart and soul and be willing to do whatever is needed to be the special one for your special one. Sadly love is not enough, and you can put everything into someone but if they just don’t want you in their life is over.
6. If someone misses you they will reach for you, if someone wants you in your life they will look for you: Stop fooling yourself thinking for excuses for the other person. So they don’t reach out to you? They just don’t want you in their life and you just really need to get your shit together and accept this. As much as you want it you can’t become a part of a persons life if they don’t want you there.