Greek gods are NOT bad parents
I came back from a long silence just to rant about this, because i saw a video on Instagram from a Greek Mythology Blog and i'm so tired with this...
"The fathers are terrible in greek myths", it said the video, all of them but Ares, who is the only good dad because he saved his daughter. Don't misunderstand me, i love Ares so much, and the myth of Alcippe reflects how he cares alot for his children, not as DC or Percy Jackson shows... But he is not the only good dad in myths. I'm so tired of how the males of greek mythology are viewed as the worst thing in the Universe. Gods aren't bad parents. Zeus is not the worst dad. I'm ask myself if those "myths lovers" influencers actually read the myths, because Zeus is not how they paint him (an evil king and terrible father). What about Sarpedon? People know him and how Zeus was distressed about his fate in Troy and asked Death and Sleep to takes his corpse from the battlefield? How he deeply cared for their children and stopped them before a fight (he stopped Dionysus and Perseus, Apollo and Herakles, even Ares y Athena), how he comforted Artemis in the Iliad when she was defeated by Hera.
Of course he is a king, he sometimes has to put the order before his children... When he punished Apollo for killing the Cyclops (in revenge for his son's death, Apollo is another father who cares for his children), was not because "he is a bad dad and want to punish his son just for that". Apollo commited a terrible crime and Zeus had to put the justice first... Why instead of judge him we not explore his struggle and feelings between being a king and being a father?
I think Percy Jackson is the one who made popular the idea of greek gods being bad parents, but when you dig deeper into the myths, you found that is not true. Of course they couldn't be 24/7 for his children, is logic, they're GODS, but that doesn't mean they don't care about them, or help them, or mourns their deaths. The hating towards male gods and heroes is annoying and i can't take it anymore... They're good parents
Sorry if i made some mistakes, i'm stil learning english. I just wanted to rant about this because i hate the "terrible fathers" false trop.