#highestwisdom

[lokeshtalks]

They say we are the average of 5 people with whom we spend the most of our time. This is true. In the age of social media, five has become 500.

Our beliefs, perceptions, and thinking is influenced the most by the people in our inner circle.

Therefore, please choose your friends wisely.

Be yourself! And you will attract the right kind of people in your life.

[lokeshtalks]

Most people in life focus on external things and achievements. They value people based upon these possessions.

But, in truth, the real things that truly matter in life are inner qualities and virtues.

Focus on inner wealth, not the outer one.

[lokeshtalks]

Our feelings of dread and shame are symptoms of a deeper underlying cause.

This cause is some unhead trauma we carry either from childhood or from previous lives.

The best way to heal this trauma is known as exposure therapy. We need to be vulnerable to expose ourselves frequently to things and situations that arouse these feelings.

The technique works like the old-fashioned ancient way of keeping a wound open to heal it faster without worrying about infection.

The more we expose ourselves to the situations which bring out these feelings, the faster we heal. The discomfort will gradually die out.

[lokeshtalks]

We are free to choose our beliefs, perspectives, and views.

If I’ve found something ethical and valuable in my life, I will continue to act on such insight.

If you seem to disagree or hold a contrary view, please keep it to your life. Would you please not force it on me.

I neither have the time nor care to convince you to change your beliefs. You are entitled to disagree, but as long as my life is concerned, I don’t care about your disagreement. And I will not let you infringe on my boundaries on the pretext of having a right to disagree. Keep your disputes to yourself. And I will keep my beliefs to myself and my tribe.

[lokeshtalks]

Having a failed relationship can lead us to the bottomless pit of depression and negative thought cycles.

We may start to feel as if there is something wrong with us. Our self-criticism can break our confidence to such an extent that we begin to question our self-worth.

But when a right soul enters our lives, we learn that we were never hard to love in the first place. The problem was somewhere else.

[lokeshtalks]

I feel suffocated in the presence of fake people. They somehow manage to make themselves unattractive by trying to be someone they are not.

Authentic people, on the other hand, are happy with who they are. They love themselves and don’t judge themselves or others.

That’s why they say authentic people are so attractive. I love their positive vibes.

Be yourself! Always.

[lokeshtalks]

Avoid jealous friends. They are your enemies, is disguise.

Remember, our enemies cannot harm us as much as those who receive our trust. They can backstab at any time.

[lokeshtalks]

Rejection is not something to grieve about. It is divine intervention to course correct us when the universe sees us moving in a wrong direction.

Always take rejection as a blessing in disguise.