#idgaf really

[weetbixcuits]

Did I finish the bowl yes am I chopping more no

[mmdefectiveplayer]

Before I say what I say I have to highlight that I an NOT pointing fingers at ANY particular works in this post and I am NOT trying to be disrespectful towards any ao3 authors. Everyone has the right to have fun and write what they wanna write.

That being said, I hate it SO MUCH when people who write slash fics make one of the characters act stereotypically "feminine," and by "stereotypically feminine" I mean things like these:

• The character is suddenly weak as FUCK. He can't do shit in his own. He can't fight the other lead (even if he's canonically stronger), he is indecisive and he cries ALL THE TIME (even if in canon the character is actually kinda emotionally repressed)

• The character doesn't have any other character traits except for his sexual attraction towards the other lead (this is less about him being written as a stereotypical woman and more about the author creating a "y/n" without actually having to create a "y/n")

• He has to get raped at least once. And when it happens to him, it HAS to be some bullshit like "I couldn't stop him and I actually kinda liked it" (Don't get me wrong here. I'm not trying to say that topic like rape shouldn't be depicted in fanfiction. It's just that I personally believe that if you want to write about something as serious as rape, you better try to write about it realistically, without adding all that misogynistic stuff about victims secretly "liking" it)

• The character is treated like a woman that is surrounded by sexist dudes (they look down on him, view him as an object, do not actually respect his opinion and so on so on)

I'm all for breaking gender norms, but I feel like in this cases it's less about that and more about stripping the character of all of their actual traits and filling him with negative characteristics that are associated with women. Like if you're writing porn, then sure, it's probably not surprising that your work is filled with stuff like that, but if you're going for a character study.... yeah, no..

[toutes-les-choses]

the fact that Ilya clearly does not wear shoes in his house (we see him in house slippers) and he even takes them off at Shane’s but when Shane asks Ilya if he should take his shoes off at his house Ilya is like oh no you’re good don’t worry about it this is really chill and I’m very laid back nothing is serious at all I’m Ilya Rozanov, really chill and easy going guy just hang out for a while we can do whatever we want it’s chill don’t worry wear your shoes, why would I care ? I’m chill

[abby-strawberry-milk]

Ahem. Today is like to announce:

FOR FUCK SAKE WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE??? PEOPLE I USED TO KNOW???? Oh my fuckinggggg god it’s fucking INSANE TO ME. That somehow I’m doing better with my life??? Than most of these toxic ass morher fuckers??? 2 of em are almost 30, still calling people the R slur, and acting like they’re 5 year olds playing COD. 1 of em who’s my age grew up to be a mega dick sucking trumper who’s swallowing down that Cheeto propaganda like they need it to LIVE.

AND HERE I AM. I’M OFF MY NUT NUTS ON A EBDILE. With suicidal ideation and complete disrespect for myself where I hurt myself. AND FUCKING YET

Somehow I’m still more normal than all that. I’m still doing better than that. I’ve got a stable job, living in a great household w my roomies. 3 spectacular kitties. Living my early 20s basic adulthood life. And I’m still. More normal than all that. This shit is COMPLETELY nut nuts

[the-tomcat-disposable]

I miss the bsd fandom ngl. Ragebaiting skkers as a hobby was fun as fuck. All you needed to do was call their ship fan service yaoi slop and you'd be publicly executed on twitter by 12 different teenagers

[strangerconnection]

fuck i even got to do tomorrow shit

[teddy8311]

💆

You know you needed help when you get to the point of suicidal thoughts But you know you are strong when you just walked pass it

[brwnqueen]

I currently have 3 crushes at the same time i need to relax