#inf ne

[re-fi-ne-ment]

[factsandspite]

Every time something goes different with my relationships I start assuming the worst - especially if people close to me drop out of contact. My mind jumps to wondering if their bad situation worsened. Whether I should call their local authorities to make sure they’re ok (what do they call those? welfare checks?). 

I believe this is what unhealthy extraverted intuition (Ne) looks like.

When I joke that I thought someone died after not hearing from them in a weak, I’m partially not joking.

Other times I wonder if they are mad at me because of the last argument we had. Then I ted to either apologize for the argument (I guess what seems like out of the blue to them), or get even more mad at them because I feel wronged and justified in how I reacted.