#interaction psa

[melamemea]

i am a forgetful role player.

     sometimes i will post inbox calls, starter calls or interaction calls and i will happily begin ... when i have muse for it, and sometimes i will lack muse, and i may forget about it all.

     that is not because of you, the other part.

     forgetfulness is something that we often frown upon, take as an insult directly towards us as a person. “but they never write to me”, “they always forget about me”, “i’m not gonna interact because they always forget” and while these things are totally valid, it must be said that forgetting things are human. not only is it human, but we should allow role players to be forgetful every now and then, simply because many, if not all, have lives outside of Tumblr that require a lot of them.

     my forgetfulness is never directed towards you as a person.

     my forgetfulness is never directed towards your creations.

     sometimes i forget because ...

i am tired.

i have a lot on my mind.

i get lost in other tasks.

i have to prioritize.

i bite over more than i can chew.

i simply forget.

     therefore it must be said, have patience. reach out. don’t just sit back and huff about how you “always seem to be forgotten”. some folks have a lot on their minds, and that needs to be allowed.

[icy-hot-chilled-peppers]

A PSA to Enji Writers

As someone who writes one of the Todoroki children, I obviously have my own headcanons for the things that they went through in their childhood. These headcanons do greatly influence the way I write Shoto, as well as his general attitude towards Enji.

(This is a personal note, but as the child of parents who were both very loving and very flawed, sometimes abusive people, writing Shoto in the way that I do can be very healing for me.)

However, all of that being said:

I will never force these headcanons onto you or your portrayal of Enji.

That’s basically godmodding, after all. I may make reference to things being rough and their realtionship not being the best, but unless we have specifically discussed beforehand what happened, I will be vague about the precise events.

I am, after all, a multiverse blog. My specific headcanons only relate to my portrayal of Shoto and (as a consequence) my portrayal of Enji. I will talk about them all the time in asks or in threads not directly involving Enji, but when writing with people who write him I will generally defer to their version of events. I will not make another person’s muse a type of abuser that they do not want to write, even in backstory.

I greatly encourage OOC communication on this point, to make sure that things line up and no-one is going to get hurt or insulted.

[melamemea]

SEXUAL SUNDAY !

     This is an open invitation for you to throw your muses at mine in a flirty, frisky, steamy or casual setting that borders into the category of NSFW. Never be scared of sending me things, I don’t bite!

[icy-hot-chilled-peppers]

PSA: I absolutely can and will do guest muses! Be that characters related to my character, teachers, or even guest appearances by characters from my other blogs!

If an RP is going in a direction where I may need to play a guest character (or even switch to them entirely for a few replies), then I’ll happily do it!

[melamemea]

     *     i like honesty. tell me when it’s enough, tell me when it’s not enough. tell me when i am too much, tell when i need to improve. be honest. i feel like honesty is a lacking factor in the role play community and that makes it somewhat difficult for me, as a role player, to do things from time to time. if i do something that isn’t okay, you should tell me. the principle goes two ways; if you do something that isn’t okay, i should be able to tell you as well without possibly straining our relation as partners. honesty. i like that shit. be honest with me. let me be honest with you. 

[btch-bastard-boi]

Regarding Trigger Tagging

Tadao is one messed up son of a bitch. Honestly, the things that he will and won’t do are only limited by the age rating of the RP.

So with that in mind, none of the general triggers listed in ‘tagged triggers’ will be tagged on this blog. I will still be tagging ‘personal’ tags, though.

That being said, non-con is pretty much this guy’s MO (not that it is portrayed as desirable), so if you are uncomfortable with that please do not follow.

[rubygoldberg]

((Reminder: I am an anime-based blog (as are all of my other RP blogs). I primarily pull from the anime, and that’s sort of where me and my characters are emotionally.

But that being said, I’ve never avoided spoilers, lol. I know a lot of things from the manga, and have no trouble doing RPs from that time if specified. I might need a bit more OOC communication so I know what the heck is going on, but I can def write in that timeframe.

I really should add a note about that somewhere in all my RP blogs tho.))

[rubygoldberg]

((Yet another rules update! I’ve reorganized the whole rules page so it isn’t just one big list. I’ve also added some things! There’s an ‘About Mun’ section now, which also lists my other blogs, and I’ve added the following rules:

Please tag pictures of spiders.

If you want to drop an RP, then I'm cool with that. But please, tell me if you want to drop a thread so I don’t get anxious or start to think my reply wasn’t good enough.

I'm also fine with having multiple threads with the same person and putting a thread on hold to come back to it later. But again, please tell me if you want to put a thread on hold.

Miyako tends to get crushes easily, but never feel like your muse needs to return the favour! I’m happy to write one-sided pining!

That’s about it! I’d appreciate if you give this post a like so I know you’ve seen it, but that’s not required!))