#intergenderless

[intervex]

Miscellaneous headcanons (some mine, some from others)

Deadpool from the MCU as varsex (since he has all the cancers). Photo credit. Inspired by this ask to @consciousexe.

Paul Atreides from Dune as intersex and interexpressive-masculine (i.e. his masculine gender expression is connected to / reflective of being intersex). Photo credit. Submission by @goingrampant.

Brienne of Tarth from Games of Thrones as intersex and having interexpressive-neutral gender expression. Image source. Inspired by this post by @thehmn.

Chummy Browne from Call the Midwife as intersex and interexpressive-androgynous (while also being a woman). Inspired by the same post by @thehmn. Image source.

Bobbie Draper from The Expanse as intersex and interexpressive-feminine. Her femininity (especially in the books) is always described in reference to her large stature and musculature, but it's always understood as feminine. Very feminine in a specifically intersex way. Photo source. Inspired by this post by @intertrek.

Camina Drummer from The Expanse as extersex, because what kind of beltalowda has access to medical testing? This one's from me, I headcanon most of the Belters in the TV show as hypogonadally intersex to explain why they're not as tall as they should be per the books 😂. And I think Drummer wouldn't be bothered to figure out if she is intersex or not.

Ahsoka Tano from Star Wars as intersex AFAB transfeminine with the intertransgender flag. Source image. Inspired by this poll by @aretheyqueer.

Fiona from Shrek as PCOS-intersex (i.e. intersex on the basis of having PCOS hyperandrogenism). Suggested by @scifimagpie. Image source.

Harth Fray from the Buffy comics as XTM intersex, having access to feminine powers that are shared with his twin sister. Suggested by @goingrampant. Image source.

Joan Lambert from Alien is XTF intersex! Photo from here. I've seen a bunch of people list Lambert as an intersex headcanon but I personally think the reveal she was medically assigned from male to female at birth is pretty canonically intersex. 🤷

Tedd Verres from El Goonish Shive is intersex and interfluid! Picture source. Submission by @goingrampant.

Azi Nareen from Scavenger's Reign is intersex and inter-agender/intergenderless. Picture from from here. Another headcanon of mine.

Note on copyright: all of these flags include copyrighted images. They are not public domain. Feel free to use/share within the norms of using material derived from popular media on social media.

[ipso-faculty]

Agender in an intersex way: which term do you prefer?

There are a bunch of terms for being agender in a way that is specifically tied/connected to being intersex: ingender, intergenderless, interagender, and vacagender.

I'm not sure which one to title the relevant Intersex Wiki article. Thought I'd do a poll. (edit: sorry for no option for they're all the same, tumblr only gives so many poll options ☹️)

Which do you prefer? And are you this gender?

I prefer ingender. And I am this gender.

I prefer intergenderless. And I am this gender.

I prefer interagender. And I am this gender.

I prefer vacagender. And I am this gender.

I prefer ingender. And I am intersex or agender, but not this specific gender.

I prefer intergenderless. And I am intersex or agender, but not this way

I prefer interagender. And I am intersex or agender, but not this specific kind.

I prefer vacagender. And I am intersex or agender, but not this specific kind.

I prefer ingender. And I am neither intersex nor agender.

I prefer intergenderless. And I am neither intersex nor agender.

I prefer interagender. And I am neither intersex nor agender.

I prefer vacagender. And I am neither intersex nor agender.

Voting ended onApr 25, 2025

[boywithbear]

So I've struggled to find a term to come up with that explains my gender identity, so I've decided to just come up with my own, and it's counterpart, with flags to match.

Intergenderless Guy/Intergenderless Gal

Terms to fall under the intergenderless/vacagender umbrella (where you feel genderless due to being intersex), meaning for when you feel a connection to the male/female (depending on the term) gender but also feel genderless, and your gender identity can be described as being from, intertwined with, or due to being intersex.

It can be simutaneously, you can switch between being genderless and male/female, or it can vary between the two, but you have a connection to both male/female and being genderless in some form.

I chose the term guy and gal because I wanted a term that isn't male or female since we aren't necessarily fully connected to those, and also I didn't want to use man/boy or woman/girl because I wanted terms easy and comfortable to use for all ages.

The flags are meant to be close to the trans flag but with intersex colors (note: you do not have to identify as trans to use these terms), and then with the added "guy color" (blue) for the intergenderless guy flag and added "gal color" (pink) for the intergenderless gal flag. There is a circle like the one on the OII intersex flag added, but in grey, to help symbolize the ties to being genderless.

If anybody relates to these identities in anyway but with a different gender, please feel free to make your own variation with the term and flag if you want!!!

Edit: I switched this to Intergenderless Guy and Intergenderless Gal, under the Intergenderless/Vacagender umbrella! Everything else still fits, I just prefer the terminology. (Was interaguy and interagal under the interagender umbrella.)