#internal transphobia

[justabirdy]

I'm so tired of dysphoria. I want to just wake up with my body matching my brains perception of me.

I keep having to push away the thought of "I wish I was a woman". It's stupid because it's internally transphobic. I am a woman, but it doesn't keep the thought from worming back into my head.

Anyway asks are open, I'd love to chat with people about this or other stuff.

[geekyowlet]

hey uhh . idk bout yall but. i had a dream once where a boy was flirting with me and i kept saying no no no until he really tried to kiss me and i told him i was trans and it doesnt matter what happened after but. do i really think im that unlovable just cause im happy to accept myself? do i think being trans is a dealbreaker for everyone wholl ever be attracted to me? fuck. ugh

[captainjackscoat]

Gotta love having to explain to one of your best friends that trans people like you deserve to be able to transition younger than 18. And that we aren't the problem, the fucking government is.

She has Internal Potterhead, which is obviously difficult. She's getting better, she now agrees that Rowling has gone too far and that we deserve the right to be openly trans, but it's still irritating

[sevenyearsdead]

internal transphobia is literally the worst because it’s this voice inside your head that whispers degrading comments about your existence and validation and no matter how hard you try to will it away you can’t because it’s your voice 

[lgbtqi-support-equality]

Cis people need to stop being surprised when they find a trans person attractive. 

[nexttoflowers]

I feel like I don't belong at the masculinity seminar because I'm crying

[lilikoi--boy-blog]

Trigger warning: internal transphobia

I’m severely disappointed with the internal transphobia of some trans men. What I have in my pants is what I consider my dick. Doesn’t matter what it’s size, it’s still a part of my body and I don’t need anyone let alone trans men shaming me. I totally get preferences, and it can be nice to have sex with a cis gendered guy…but really? I’m so sick of people’s internal transphobic bullshit and not seeing others equally as men. The last person I dated - a cis gendered male… Was far more respectful and accepting of my body than the shit I’ve heard come out of some trans guys’ mouthes.

[okles]

I honestly don't understand why I can't know what it feels like to have a dick.

and the worst part is that I feel like I can't talk about that with anyone.