[This is a queer-centric sideblog, discourse ahead most definitely.]
Probably worth a disclaimer here that I am a system and have other cognitive issues effecting memory, recall and information processing. Sometimes I am poorly articulated or cannot properly get my point across, sometimes I may misunderstand what is said to me. Please try to be kind:')
Hyaena / Hyena / Yaena
It/Its, They/Them
If you use gendered pronouns for me I will bite.
Adult ✦ 20
✦ Transunitist ✦ Radical Inclusionist ✦
Include all, Aid all, Fight for all.
To anyone who needs to hear it, you are loved, and the world is better with you in it.
It is very easy to become overwhelmed when exposed to hateful and threatening content, but I remind that there has, is, and will always be a community who thinks you are better alive and that you deserve to thrive.
The majority of our community stand united and protect one another, please, do not lose sight of the community that is real, that loves you, and will fight for you.
[DNI: Queerphobic, Transphobic, Intersexist, Exorsexist, Transandrophobic, Transmisogynistic, Transmeds, Gender/Bio Essentialists, Exclusionists, Aphobes, Radqueers. I don't like TME/TMA users.]
If you walk and talk like a bigot, I will treat you like one.
Questions? Send an ask, maybe I'll answer.
Various things to note about me
LABELS!
✦ Nonbinary
✦ Altersex
(Desire for mixed sex characteristics.)
✦ Transmasculine
(Physical transitioning, been on testosterone since 2024.)
✦ Transgender
✦ Hyenagender
(They are so me. In a literal sense.)
✦ Plurine
(Gender affected by systemhood.)
✦ Pluromual
(Orientation affected by systemhood.)
✦ Queer
✦ Physical & mental disability
(Fibromyalgia and ME/CFS among plenty other issues.)
✦ Plural / System
(OSDD, traumagenic.)
✦ Alterhuman
(Suntherian and otherhearted, plurality aside.)
OPINIONS!
✦ AGAB is not a helpful replacement for describing sex characteristics. Anatomy is not dirty, say what you mean.
AGAB does not tell you what characteristics someone has. It is an event that happens.
✦ Intersex is and will always be part of the queer community, people who shit on the intersex-inclusive progress pride flag need to rethink some things about why that flag exists. (LGBTQIA+ for a reason!)
✦ TME/TMA is another binary recreation riddled with exorsexist & intersexist issues.
Extremely separatist and fails to recognize the way various presentations of transphobia interact as well as misogyny itself, and the engagement between transphobia and misogyny.
✦ Bioessentialism is bad. Judging people based on their sex and/or gender is bad. Assigning inherent traits to a sex and/or gender is bad.
✦ "non-man" and "non-woman" need to fall out of use, and I am dead serious. Too many people do not know the racist roots of using this language.
✦ Its still misogyny if the target isn't a woman or feminine. I do not care what you think, stop using bigoted and hate filled speech. I do not care who the target is, you are no better than anyone else who uses it.
✦ STOP MAKING MORE FUCKING BINARIES.
✦ Identity does not, and will never, fit into easily categorized boxes.
Identity is complex, peoples expressions and feelings towards identity are complex.
There is no way to simplify the idea of identity and that which revolves around it without harming others.
✦ Love people who are hurt more than you hate those who have hurt them.
Hate does not absolve or aid the suffering. You can hate an abuser but it does not help to abused to heal.
✦ All bigotry and oppressive tactics are bad and people need to stop justify wanting to use them. Using them makes you an objectively shitty person.
Hyenas are really cool, they're my favorite animal, spotted hyenas specifically.
You should look at more hyenas, good for the soul.