Pick A pile: Your future spouse's love language in bed (18+)
About this reading: In this reading, we are going to explore the love language of your future spouse in bed, which is basically how do they exactly express themselves in bed, their overall energy, how do they show you that they want you, and what do they expect from you as well, and their impact on you, like how their intimacy style affects you emotionally and physically, and what their aftercare after intimacy looks like. All these aspects are covered in the respective piles.
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Lordddd pile 1 😭😭 your future spouse is BIG on kissing!!! It's basically their top love language and also their most favourite thing to do with you!!! Every time they want to show affection? Smooch. Every time they want to soften you up? Another smooch. And they’re GOOD at it too. Like dangerously good. Like “why is this so soft and uhfnjfkdajs?? why am I melting??” They literally express their feelings through their mouth lmao 💀✋🏻. they’re obsessed with the feeling of tasting you slowly😏. But this is not some shy little timid lover. PLEASE. Look at the swords in this spread. this person has dominance in their BLOOD. Their vibe in bed is dominance. The type of dominance where they know exactly what they want and exactly how to get it. They know how to warm you up slowly, build you up, tease you, take their sweet time preparing you lmaooo…and then when they feel the moment is right, They take control. And without even raising their voice. It’s just the energy and also the stare. they love hearing you. LOVE it. they want to hear your moans, your breath you whispering “oh my god” because of something they did. Compliments during sex, Oh they EAT THAT SHIT UP. you telling them “that feels so good” and that's an Immediate power boost for them. They get off on knowing they’re blowing your mind. Their desire grows the more YOU respond. This is someone who wants to hear, feel, see EVERYTHING you’re experiencing.
Okay now, you know how I said earlier that they start all soft and sweet? Let me be brutally honest: that sweetness is the BAIT. 😭 Because baby once the real desire hits, oh they’re not soft anymore. They’re not shy at all. They WANT to see you melt into their touch. They want to see your body respond to them. But the best this here is that they NEVER rush you. Like EVER. Even if they’re dying inside, even if they're imagining 10 different ways to take you right now, they will wait. Even years into the relationship, they won’t push. They’ll let you set the pace until you open up. And that’s when THEIR wild side comes out. They have a loooooot of desire for you, but they hide it behind. You’re gonna FEEL it though. Oh trust me you will absolutely feel it in their stare. and them being skilled? Goosebumps. I literally got goosebumps. Because even if some of yall fs might not have a ton of experience but they still know how to handle you. They know where to touch. They know when to slow down, when to speed up, when to grip your waist, when to grab your neck, how to hold your waist, like they read your body like a language. (Godd this image looks SOOO MICH BETTER IN MY MIND TRUST MEEE😭✋🏻✨)
Now what turns them on the MOST, they’re turned on by DOMINANCE. Their dominance. THEM getting what they want. And by “getting what they want,” I mean YOU reacting. You responding. You giving in. You becoming a little shy, a little (or a lot) breathless, a little “oh my god I can’t handle you.” If you think you're dominant, wait until you meet this person lmaooooo your dominance will literally glitch out. Their energy is just stronger. f you crave them, if you reach for them, if you look at them with that “please” in your eyes… THEY’RE DONE. That’s it.
Emotion matters SO MUCH here too. Sex is not just sex for them, it’s much MUCH more than that. Something they put effort, time, devotion, and presence into. This is the kind of sex that changes your perception of sex. goshhh their Tongue skills, Hand skills, Stamina, Multiple rounds. Multiple orgasms. Shaking, shivering, weak legs, holding onto them for balance… the whole thing. They LOVE pushing you to the brink. Not in an uncomfortable way, just in a “I want to see how much pleasure your body can handle” way.
Their REAL love language reveals itself AFTER sex. This is someone who might be all composed, teasing, during sex, but afterwards they get soft. SOFT. Like suddenly the sword energy melts into water energy and they’re wrapping their arms around you, pulling you into their chest, kissing your forehead, rubbing your back. They show love by holding you gently after.
The queen of cups earlier hinted that you’d feel deeply emotional, and the 4 of wands confirms that this person’s AFTERCARE is their biggest love language. This is where they show the emotion they hid during sex. They’ll check in on you. They’ll stroke your hair. They’ll pull you closer unconsciously. They might not say “I love you” but their body language screams it. after sex is the ONLY time they fully open up.
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Okay so for my pile 2s… listen… your person is NOT the type who’s going to sit there and describe every fantasy in a paragraph. They’re not super vocal about what they want, but omg they KNOW what they’re doing. Like this is someone who may not give you words, but they’ll give you results 😭 I can’t even pinpoint their exact sexual style right now because every pile 2 person’s person comes with their own flavor, BUT the vibe is literally: whatever you personally love, they HAVE it. Like your specific turn ons, your specific preferences… they just naturally match that. It’s kinda eerie honestly. I’m also getting that you might not be super experienced when you meet them, or at least not as experienced as other people your age. And it won’t matter at all because they’re naturally good at making you feel comfortable + insanely satisfied. This person is low key fertile as hell though 💀 so if you’re a female expecting a male partner… yeah just be careful in the early stages unless you want a sudden “surprise.” protection, besties, PLEASE. Also, this person is NOT a casual hookup type. They’re not the “yeah let’s just do it for fun” kind. They need some real emotional connection or at least a clear label before they go into anything sexual. They’re a little traditional like that. Passionate af, but still traditional.
Now the Death card in sexual readings… omg… big indicator that this person is actually very intense and very deep in bed. Like not chaotic or crazy, but the kind who builds everything up so slowly you’re literally vibrating. Foreplay is their KINK. They love the slow teasing, the touching, the eye contact, the warming-up stage, that’s their favorite part. They’re not the “straight to the point” kind. They love to savour everything, take their sweet time, and they make it so worth it. And honestly slow sex with someone like this, that’s where the real fire starts. They’re huge on eye contact too, like they “stare into your soul while doing things” kind of eye contact. And sometimes they might lose control because your confidence turns them on a LOOOOT. When you take the lead sometimes, Oh they’re done for. Completely melted. It’s hilarioussss AND ORAL. OMG oral. They’re obsessed with it. Like this person is very tongue active 💀🔥. Mischievous energy, teasing energy, using their mouth everywhere they can type of vibe. For some of you this person might be into threesomes, Or at least the idea of exploring sexually in that way. BUT if you’re not into that, don’t freak out, because for many they just like involving toys, tools, things to make it fun and playful. They love experimenting. Trying new stuff. Keeping the spark alive ALWAYS. Sex is not “activity” for them… it’s like a whole ritual. They take it seriously but also playfully.
They like leaving a mark… not necessarily literally every time (though maybeeeee hehehehe) but they want each experience to feel memorable, special and just different. And this person is VERY private about all this. They’re not the PDA type. But in private, Yeah. The playfulness, the intimacy, the eye contact, the teasing, it’s all there in them. They won’t say everything out loud but they’ll communicate with their expression and their touch. And they read you SO well. Like they know your body better than YOU know your body. They can literally tell what you’re feeling by one breath. It’s insane. This person loves seeing you surrender, (why do each pile have this kink 😭) not in a disrespectful way, like crossing boundaries or anything, but they love guiding you into pleasure you didn’t even know existed. Death + Devil together in a sexual reading, Bro that combo is CRAZY. This person is super smooth too. Nothing feels abrupt with them. They’re kind of skilled, honestly. They either learned or practiced or studied what they’re doing because they genuinely want to pleasure you as much as possible. Seeing you actually enjoy yourself is what turns them on the most.
And omg the teasing you and actually testing your patience, THEY LOVE IT. The flirting in bed, the whispering, the “I know what I’m doing to you” smirk. If you tease them back, Yeah, they’re going to lose their composure so fast. They’ll grab you like they don’t want you going anywhere. They’re very affectionate bed, lots of kissing, lots of closeness. After being with them, You’re gonna feel boneless but still wanting more 😭 crazzyyyy. Like shaking, overwhelmed, emotional, but also craving them again immediately. They open you up emotionally too, not just physically. You’ll feel… revealed. In a good way. Like you can’t and don’t want to walk away from them afterward.
And honestly, every time you two do it, it might be very spontaneous. Like you didn’t plan it, you weren’t expecting it that day, and then suddenly all the bottled-up tension turns into something crazy. Especially the first time between you both might not be planned, just “ When it happens, it’s going to consume both of you. The orgasm is going to feel like releasing everything you’ve been holding emotionally + physically. Eye contact is going to be insane, like you’re saying things to each other without even speaking.
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Okay WHY does this person try SO HARD to pretend they’re calm?? They’re out here walking around like some smonk, all peaceful, gentle, soft-spoken… but the cards are like “this person is horny as hell but hiding it behind a fake personality” 😭 Like they look unbothered but inside they’re pacing like a wolf in heat. And the funniest part is that they actually think they’re being subtle. They’re not.
And the sex with them Oh. god. This is the “best friend you accidentally start making out with and then suddenly the vibe changes” type of intimacy. like it’s friendly, warm, cooperative, and so balanced that sometimes you’ll literally sit there like, “How is sex THIS cute and THIS hot at the same time??” You two don’t fall into strict roles, you’re not the designated sub, they’re not the designated dom, none of that rigid dynamic stuff. It’s so interchangeable. One day you’re the one taking over and pinning them down, and the next day they’re the one pushing you against the pillows. It’s all about mood, energy, and what feels natural in the moment. That’s the magic of this pile, equal give and take, baby. Both of you get to be the main character.
And foreplay, PLEASE. This person LIVES for it. Like they consider foreplay an entire sport. A hobby. A lifestyle. They are not here for “let’s get straight to it.” No. They want to build the tension so slow and so deep that you’re literally SQUIRMING by the time anything happens. They’re big on kissing, slow, lingering, teasing kisses that make your brain glitch. They’re obsessed with touching the sensitive spots of your body and watching you react. They want to explore every inch before getting into the heated stuff. And the funny thing is… this person has FANTASIES. LOTS of them. Silent ones. Hidden ones. the kind they’d never openly admit in conversation. They keep them locked in, but the moment they’re actually in the mood? Ohhhh baby those fantasies COME OUT. Suddenly you’re seeing a whole different side of them and you’re like, “WAIT A MINUTE, WHO TAUGHT YOU THIS??” They go from “aww soft boy/girl energy” to “I’m about to show you what a starving wild animal looks like.” It’s unhinged in the most attractive way possible lmaooo
But here’s the twist: they’re only like this with YOU. To the outside world, they are the most composed human being imaginable. Calm. No dramatic . They look like someone who doesn’t even think about sex (only if they know our pile 3 person) But behind closed doors they are a whole different creature. And they’re very physically expressive once the privacy kicks in. They’re super open with what they feel, what they want, what hurts, what they need, what they crave. They communicate honestly with you, about problems, feelings, everything. They don’t hide anything and also expect the same from you.
You’ll feel this happy, warm, sunshine type of energy with them. They actually enjoy intimacy. Like they’re not performing, not pretending, not acting sexy for aesthetics, they’re genuinely, wholeheartedly, stupidly happy to be there with you. You’ll notice it in their eyes, especially during sex. They maintain constant eye contact, the kind of eye contact that says “I’m enjoying this more than I can say" and then there’s their face. You know that little smile people have when they’re not actually smiling but their whole aura looks happy? That’s them. Their face glows. They look like someone who’s fully at peace and turned on at the same time.
And oh my GOD, the confidence. They aren't cocky or arrogant, but just this warm, stable, grounding confidence that makes YOU feel even more comfortable and that makes you relax, open up, and enjoy things more intensely. They love knowing what you like, they actually ask, listen, and ADJUST. They’re not the “I’ll do what I want and you’ll deal with it” type. No. They genuinely want to make sure you enjoy every second. They get turned on by YOUR pleasure.
And your reactions?? YOUR reactions are their kink. Babes, they will literally BLUSH if you so much as moan their name with an ounce of sincerity. They love seeing how you touch them, how you treat them, how you appreciate them. They don’t need grand gestures, something small and honest makes them EVAPORATE. They like being treated with affection. They like being seen, they like being valued.
This pile is honestly the cutest mix of sexual tension + gentle softness. It’s spicy, yes, very spicy, but not in a harsh, sharp way. It’s sensual, warm, melty, flowy, communicative. It’s the kind of sex where you feel both horny AND emotionally safe at the same time. Nothing is forced, nothing is rushed, nothing is awkward or performative. It’s two people who genuinely enjoy each other’s bodies and just love each other's presence and want to make every expereice of their life fun without too much stiffness and seriousenss.
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