#inxj problems

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INTJ Problems #303

Starting to contemplate actually opening up your vulnerabilities to your friends...only to be emotionally or geographically separated, and you remember why you prefer being guarded. :)

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INxJ Problems

When INxJ gets to the point of wanting to cut someone out of their life, there are two outcomes:

1. The INFJ Brain refuses to block the number and break the news just yet while the INTJ Brain yells to kick them to the curb (social repercussions are the OTHER person’s fault, after all)

2. The INTJ Brain attempts to logically persuade the INFJ Brain to wait just a few more months until the offender has finished their purpose and is no longer useful. The INFJ Brain is honestly just 110% emotionally done.

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INxJ Problems

INTJ being awkward as hell while trying to socialise, followed INFJ detailing exactly why they have at most 3 friends (then slightly exaggerating why they do abysmally in a group of more than 1 friend).

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INTJ-INFJ Dichotomy: Well, actually...

INxJ: *texting a friend about the recent decrease in early March’s stocks*

Friend: It’s likely due to the spread of the virus in China, reducing our trade.

INFJ brain: Technically, they’re not wrong, as that is a partially contributing factor that was only overshadowed over the weekend due to the oil negotiations, which we only know about due to coincidence. So how about we indulge our friend, spare their feelings, and only provide a brief add on to acknowledge their technically correct contribution.

INTJ brain:

INTJ brain: ...

INFJ brain: ...No.

INTJ brain: Well, actually....*30-minute lengthy explanation of the actual problem at hand and how that is the real cause of the current stock market debate*

INFJ brain: Why do I even try with this one...

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INFJ side when greeting a happy friend: I am in a good mood you?

INTJ side when greeting a happy friend: salutations. What did you do today?

INXJ when greeting a happy friend: you look good, how's your day going?

Me: screaming on the inside!!!!

[infjdoodles]

It can be difficult to tell the difference sometimes. It's important to step back and imagine if the problem would need to be solved if you weren't in the equation. I like chasing higher order problems, but those don't always need to be solved.