#infj problems

[fatimazainab]

vibes are off. gonna lay face down on the floor until further notice.

[callmesamx]

How many boxes do you tick off?👀

[messedupinfjthoughts]

choose what chooses me

If I like you, you will know,

If I don’t, I won’t show.

People I don’t choose to keep

Are never mine to lose or weep.

All my energy, you’ll see,

Is mine alone

And stays with me.

If you like me, let it show,

If you don’t, feel free to go.

Don’t say yes when you mean no,

My mind won’t ever let that go.

If you're loyal, prove it true,

Words are cheap and I’ve heard them too.

Every liar swore the same

...let me get this queer.

I am too old to play that game.

So, If you're tired, talk to me.

Let’s not drown in misery.

Let’s choose truth and empathy

Before we lose what we could be.

I want to choose what chooses me.

My one and true philosophy.

I want to be the soul you know.

The place your restless thoughts can go.

I want to be like gravity,

A pull that brings you back to me.

[its-all-down-hill]

[infinite-infj]

Are other infjs angry like me? Is it an infj thing? It wasn't always this way. I remember being happy or at least less angry. A lot less angry. But over time the anger grew and grew, almost imperceptibly, until one day it just became my default mood. And that, despite all the appropriate self care, sobriety and years of therapy.

I'm not writing this because I want or need a diagnosis. It's not pathological. The anger is just a response to an environment that crushes everyone but a few; the few who do the crushing. And that social justice component makes me wonder, are other infjs angry too? Is it an infj thing?

[infj-hearts-entp]

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[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #119

The main reason I am so nice is because people leave me alone faster when the socializing is smooth

[guavagyal]

no one ever talks about how if you're a woman who:

• has an earthy or bohemian style

• have down to earth hobbies & pursuits (gardening, hiking, crocheting, collecting rocks, etc)

• have a demure personality & good at listening

people (romantically & platonically) think you're like some manic pixie dream girl who is supposed to heal them and be their therapist. and when you can't be all of that for them (because you're not a therapist & sometimes have bad days), they get mad or disappointed at you and want to treat you like you're defected and ditch you quickly.