allison who gets neil to do a bunch of stuff by using Andrew, she sets a picture of Andrew as their convo background so neil will open her messagess, and she picks new clothes that he HAS to wear because Andrew would be very happy witha pretty bf, when she's telling him a story she changes everyone's names to "andrew 1" "andrew 2" "andrew 3" etc to sound more appealing (neil knows hes being manipulated but he doesn't really mind)
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jean who gets andrew to do a bunch of stuff by using Neil's name, so stop smoking. and then "thats your cardio? you might as well go back to smoking, you're just having a nice walk, you don't need lungs. the moryiamas will have a easy time kidnaping Neil", "thats how you eat? after you die of diabetes who's going to protect neil?! i should never have given him to you" (Andrew hates how easy is for jean to keep forcing him to admit that he does care. a lot)
