i don't know if this is helpful when it comes to oral sex and hiv, but i know blowjobs (and handjobs, i assume) were quite popular in the 80s during the aids crisis bc it's considered more "safe"
Thanks for your input!
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i don't know if this is helpful when it comes to oral sex and hiv, but i know blowjobs (and handjobs, i assume) were quite popular in the 80s during the aids crisis bc it's considered more "safe"
Thanks for your input!
grey, coral (again bc i want more tips), violet and fawn
thank you!!Grey: Favourite movie?have you totally missed the fact that i don’t watch movies, why do i have to admit it again. but??? känn ingen sorgViolet: Favourite song? kent - midvh. or låt dom komma. or idioter. or svart snö. idk i just love kent a lotFawn: Favourite word in your first language?i can’t think of one sO i’m just gonna say this: i’ve started saying dretunge as a swearword it’s super weirdCoral: Favourite book?i honestly haven’t read that much??? but?? throne of glass, carry on, fangirl, pjo??? ready player one???
all q's with 4 in 'em!
4: If you had a warning label, what would yours say? I’m brutally honest. I don’t sugar coat or bullshit. I’m not trying to be rude or mean, or offend anyone. Sometimes my filter is just loose.
14: If you had to change your name, what would you change it to? Um... wow this one is tough. Nothing wrong with my name, but I’ve always liked names that begin with R... Rory, Ryan (for a girl), and Reign.
24: Talk about your crush, if you have one! No crush in real life. So I’m going with Jack Falahee. What can’t I say about him? He’s absolute perfection.
34: What is your MBTI personality type? ISTJ-A
40: Someone you look up to: Erm this is awkward but... my boss’s wife. She’s totally badass. Younger, more accomplished/successful than him, makes more money than him, and she’s like the head of everything.
41: What color do you wish the sky was? Purple or green. Or both, that’d be cool.
42: Something you hate about Tumblr: They need to hire better programmers. Literally there are so many issues with this site’s functionality.
43: Something you love about Tumblr: Being able to meet people all over the world with the same interests as me.
44: Name three people you would like to talk to right now in person. My boyfriend who currently lives in a different state, @jean-jehan-prouvaire, and I’d love to have a convo with Jack :)
45: How many people are you following? 224.
fuckingn all of them just answer them all if I have to do does everyone else
Tbh I should have seen this coming
Imma do my best to answer these haha
1: when you have cereal, do you have more milk than cereal or more cereal than milk?Uhh I think my cereal usually end up with more milk for some reason. Maybe because I put it in before the cereal but whatever
2: do you like the feeling of cold air on your cheeks on a wintery day?Yes!! As long as it’s one of those nice winter days and there’s no wind and such, otherwise: n o p e3: what random objects do you use to bookmark your books?Basically anything I have nearby that is not too big to use as a bookmark. Though that’s usually just a temporary solution until I can find a proper bookmark aka a random small post-it or something4: how do you take your coffee/tea?I take my coffee with some milk, and my tea with just the tea
5: are you self-conscious of your smile?Not sure what this means exactly but I don’t think so
6: do you keep plants?I always keep a plant in one of my windows. Have no idea how good I am at keeping them though
7: do you name your plants?Nope. Besides, they only live for a couple of weeks so what’s the use naming them?
8: what artistic medium do you use to express your feelings?I usually don’t express my feelings in anything, but if I had to choose one I’d probably write
9: do you like singing/humming to yourself?Yea occasionally? I usually just sing stuff in my head or under my breath though, but sometimes I like to sing out loud
10: do you sleep on your back, side, or stomach?I honestly have no idea because I always twist and turn a lot before falling asleep (I must be a nightmare to share beds with tbh) so I don’t know which position I fall asleep in/wake up in. But if I had to guess: back or side maybe?? Sleeping on your stomach is really nice too though.
11: what’s an inner joke you have with your friends?The only thing that comes to mind right now is that one time I meant to write “duck face” but autocorrect changed it to “fuck face” and I didn’t notice it until it was pointed out to me. So basically every time we make duckfaces in selfies or snapchat pictures we just go “fuckface”
12: what’s your favorite planet?I have no idea what answer I should give because I don’t know shit about planets. But I’m gonna go with Saturn because of the rings. They’re pretty
13: what’s something that made you smile today?Idk. Probably something I saw on tumblr or some conversation with a friend or something like that
14: if you were to live with your best friend in an old flat in a big city, what would it look like?Holy shit I don’t even know. Hopefully it would be pretty though
15: go google a weird space fact and tell us what it is!I don’t know if it’s weird but: Glowing nebulae are named so because they give off a dim, red light, as the hydrogen gas in them is heated by radiation from the nearby stars.
16: what’s your favorite pasta dish?
Maybe that pasta with salmon and spinach and parmesam cheese. It’s fucking delicious
17: what color do you really want to dye your hair?
I really want to dye my hair red some time again, but a deeper red this time. Some kind of bubblegum pink would be cool too but I think red would suit me better tbh
18: tell us about something dumb/funny you did that has since gone down in history between you and your friends and is always brought up.The one thing that comes to mind at the moment is when we hitch-hiked with a stranger in a white van after getting on the wrong bus. That was an adventure
19: do you keep a journal? what do you write/draw/ in it?I do keep a journal! My idea is to have it as a diary from my years at the university but I suck at writing in it (seriously. Weeks can pass between my entries)
20: what’s your favorite eye color?I don’t think I have one. All eye colours are pretty tbh
21: talk about your favorite bag, the one that’s been to hell and back with you and that you love to pieces.Hmm I’m gonna have to go with my Kånken backpack. I got it for Christmas a few years ago, and I’ve used it as my schoolbag (and hand luggage for trips etc) ever since. Also it’s dark red (you can kinda tell my fav colour is red, can’t you?) and it’s practical and I’m really happy with it
22: are you a morning person?I think so? That really depends but I kinda like being up early. Also I usually get really tired in the evenings so by logic I guess that would make me a morning person??
23: what’s your favorite thing to do on lazy days where you have 0 obligations?Chill with some TV show or movie maybe. Or going for a walk. Or colouring. Baking is nice too. Idk man there are so many good things to do
24: is there someone out there you would trust with every single one of your secrets?Hmm there is one friend I think I can share a lot of things with, but every single one? I’m not sure but maybe
25: what’s the weirdest place you’ve ever broken into?I don’t think I’ve ever broken into any place tbh
26: what are the shoes you’ve had for forever and wear with every single outfit?That really depends on whether it’s winter or spring/summer. In the winter I usually wear my doc martens with everything since I use them as my winter shoes (haven’t had them forever though, they are a year or two old). In spring or summer, I usually wear a pair of converse or some black ballerina shoes (most of my converse shoes are quite old, and I think I took the ballerina ones from my mom and I don’t know how old they are)
27: what’s your favorite bubblegum flavor?Uhh I don’t really like chewing gum tbh. But if I had to choose, maybe some mint for regular gum, for bubble gum I quite like apple flavours and such
28: sunrise or sunset?I really like both tbh
29: what’s something really cute that one of your friends does and is totally endearing?I can’t really come up with anything right now, sorry
30: think of it: have you ever been truly scared?Probably?? Can’t think of a specific situation so I am not exactly sure
31: what is your opinion of socks? do you like wearing weird socks? do you sleep with socks? do you confine yourself to white sock hell? really, just talk about socks.I usually only wear socks during the colder parts of the year, but I love getting pretty socks! I think I own very few plain white/black ones tbh, most of my socks have colours and some pattern or cute animals or something on them. For Christmas I got some kind of big knitted socks with fluffy material on the inside (also if you look closely: they kind of sparkle!!), but they are too big to wear outside because they don’t even fit into my shoes, but they are lovely for walking around in the house and just being cosy
32: tell us a story of something that happened to you after 3AM when you were with friends.I don’t know if this happened after 3 AM but I am thinking of when we walked home from a night out and we took a certain route so we would go past this street where they had some kind of statue of a yellow horse in the traffic circle, because one friend had absolutely set her mind on getting onto that horse. In the end, it turned out to be too big to get onto (luckily they didn’t get into any trouble. I think a police car rode by as they were trying to get on the horse), so we just carried on home. Perhaps not the wildest of stories but it was quite amusing
33: what’s your fave pastry?I don’t know if it counts as a pastry but I really like donuts. With any topping except chocolate probably
34: tell us about the stuffed animal you kept as a kid. what is it called? what does it look like? do you still keep it?Hmm I had quite a few stuffed animals as a kid so I don’t really know which one was my all time favourite. But I remember one of my favourites was a brown bunny I had. It had the name Hoppe (Jumpy basically), and it’s still in quite good condition so I think we have kept it somewhere. I have a box at home with some of the stuffed animals and toys I had as a kid so it’s probably there
35: do you like stationary and pretty pens and so on? do you use them often?Ooh yes I like them! Though I don’t use them much, I don’t think I own a lot of “pretty pens”. I remember seeing these really pretty Hogwarts house pens at this Harry Potter exhibition we were at and I was seriously considering buying one until I saw how expensive they were haha
36: which band’s sound would fit your mood right now?Shit I don’t know. I’m not very good with bands tbh. I can’t think of a song either, but probably something nice and slow beause I’m starting to feel kind of tired
37: do you like keeping your room messy or clean?CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN I hate it when my room is messy so I usually just put stuff away where they should be so it’s hardly ever messy anyway. Though I am probably more tidy than clean tbh, because I always want my room in order but I am terrible at remembering to dust and vacuum and such
38: tell us about your pet peeves!Probably when people are being unnecessarily rude about others? Like, judging and trashtalking other people? Idk it really makes me uncomfortable when that happens because I don’t like talking negatively about other people. This answer is probably really cliché but whatever
39: what color do you wear the most?Black probably. At least in the winter
40: think of a piece of jewelry you own: what’s it’s story? does it have any meaning to you?I own quite a few pieces of jewelry, but I think I’ll choose to talk about this ring of mine, which I wear almost every day. I found it when we were going through a box of some of my grandmother’s old jewelry. It’s a silver ring with a kind of braid pattern on it, and the inside is engraved with my grandmother’s name, some initials I don’t know what they stand for, and the years 1948-49. I don’t really know where my grandmother got the ring originally though.
I wear this ring so often that I sometimes forget that it once belonged to my grandmother, but I like knowing that it did. I never really got to know my grandmother since she had a stroke when I was a few months old and she never spoke during the years I grew up, so I would say that the ring means quite a lot to me. It is probably my favourite piece of jewelry, both because I have become quite comfortable with having it on my finger, and because it belonged to a relative I never got a chance to get to know, but someone I think I would get along with really well if I did.
41: what’s the last book you remember really, really loving?Shit I don’t really know. I have read a lot of books I really liked, but *loved*… I’m not sure. The only ones I can think of are the Harry Potter or perhaps Hunger Games series haha
42: do you have a favorite coffee shop? describe it!I’m going to go with Espresso House. They have super nice interior (I don’t know how to describe it. It’s a lot of wood furnitures and plants and it looks modern in a nice way) and good coffee and lots of good pastries such as caramel cheesecake! It’s basically the go-to place or what to call it when you want to go for a fika. I need to try some other coffee shops here in Kalmar though, we have this place called Kullzenska which has this nice and old-fashioned interior and they seem to have good pastries. We have this one café where they sell Ben & Jerry’s too. I have only had breakfast and coffee here though, but that was all good.
43: who was the last person you gazed at the stars with?Myself probably
44: when was the last time you remember feeling completely serene and at peace with everything?Hmm I don’t know. Maybe during Christmas break right after I had sent in that exam I had to rewrite. Just the feeling of being home without any more obligations for a little while
45: do you trust your instincts a lot?I really don’t know
46: tell us the worst pun you can think of.Does it have to be a pun I came up with myself? I am terrible at coming up with jokes. Most of the ones I can remember are in swedish/swenglish as well
47: what food do you think should be banned from the universe?Fish balls probably. Honestly, it’s like eating small rubber balls. I’d probably say blood pudding too, but I can’t really say anything about it since I’ve never had it, and never will since I’m a vegetarian. I can’t come up with any more right now except sundried tomatoes. They’re just disgusting
48: what was your biggest fear as a kid? is it the same today?Tbh I was scared of a lot of things as a kid, but I don’t really know about my biggest fear. I do remember being quite scared of those people in the big suits at Disneyland and such. (I have this one memory when we were at some restaurant there and I hid under my jacket when Pluto arrived at our table. I was terrified that he would lift it off of me.) That was mostly when I was like three or four though, I think I was okay with them after that.
49: do you like buying CDs and records? what was the last one you bought?I quite like looking at records and such but I don’t really buy them. I can’t even remember the last CD I bought
50: what’s an odd thing you collect?I don’t really collect anything. I keep tickets from movies and plays I seen but that’s not odd so yeah
51: think of a person. what song do you associate with them?Anything by The Smiths or Bryan Adams. Or maybe that song Ukraine compeated with in Eurovision (you know the one)
52: what are your favorite memes of the year so far?Have there even been any memes this year besides “daaamn, Daniel”? Because then I don’t know
53: have you ever watched the rocky horror picture show? heathers? beetlejuice? pulp fiction? what do you think of them?I’ve seen Rocky Horror and Pulp Fiction. Rocky Horror was quite good (I understood it somewhat better when I saw it a second time) and Pulp Fiction was good I guess but I don’t think it’s something I’d see again
54: who’s the last person you saw with a true look of sadness on their face?Honestly I have no idea
55: what’s the most dramatic thing you’ve ever done to prove a point?I don’t know?? I don’t see myself as particularly dramatic but if I asked my family or friends they would probably come up with a bunch of dramatic stuff I have done
56: what are some things you find endearing in people?I really like when people talk about stuff they are interested in or just generally excites them. Even when it’s about stuff I know very little to nothing about I like knowing what makes them happy, and seeing how happy they look when they talk about it.
57: go listen to bohemian rhapsody. how did it make you feel? did you dramatically reenact the lyrics?I didn’t even have to go listen to the song to know that I can never listen to it without making lots of movements and mimicking/singing the lyrics for the entire song
58: who’s the wine mom and who’s the vodka aunt in your group of friends? why?I don’t know really. I am probably both tbh
59: what’s your favorite myth?I don’t know about a lot of myths so no idea
60: do you like poetry? what are some of your faves?I like poetry but I hardly ever read any so I don’t know of any favourites. I wish I could write poetry but every attempt I make at writing turns out terribly cliché and sucky so oh well
61: what’s the stupidest gift you’ve ever given? the stupidest one you’ve ever received?Can’t really think of any tbh
62: do you drink juice in the morning? which kind?I always drink a glass of some juice from ProViva. I always buy different flavours though, I will just get tired of it if I buy the same every time
63: are you fussy about your books and music? do you keep them meticulously organized or kinda leave them be?I kind of keep my books organized. First, I organize them by size, and then I sort them with similar colours. I organize my school literature after what course they belong to, and then after size.
I don’t own any CD’s or records, but I always keep the playlists on my phone in alphabetical order
64: what color is the sky where you are right now?Dark. It’s almost 1 AM now. I really should go to sleep
65: is there anyone you haven’t seen in a long time who you’d love to hang out with?All my friends who live in another city than me
66: what would your ideal flower crown look like?Some pretty blue or pink colour maybe. Or just some flowers in different colours and organized in some pretty pattern
67: how do gloomy days where the sky is dark and the world is misty make you feel?I really like misty and foggy days! Mostly in the autumn and winter though, but still, they are nice
68: what’s winter like where you live?Cold as fuck usually, some snow if we’re lucky. It’s been gone for months over here though.
69: what are your favorite board games?I haven’t played that many board games, but Monopoly and Rappakalja are quite fun
70: have you ever used a ouija board?N O P E
71: what’s your favorite kind of tea?I had this really good tea which was green tea with lemon macaroon flavour. I had my last bag of it today so I better find some new nice tea
72: are you a person who needs to note everything down or else you’ll forget it?I usually write stuff down in case I forget it. Sometimes I remember even without a note, sometimes I forget even with a note.
73: what are some of your worst habits?Probably that I always need to do something with my hands. Honestly, I can’t count all of the things I have dropped/lost/broken/etc because I wouldn’t stop playing with it
74: describe a good friend of yours without using their name or gendered pronouns.We haven’t been friends for a very long time but I already feel really close to them. We don’t talk to each other every day, but once we do, it’s like no time has passed at all. There is hardly anything we are not comfortable sharing with one another, and we both the other is always willing to listen, no matter what it’s about.
75: tell us about your pets!Sadly I don’t have any pets now. We had a bunny named Zingo for a really long time. He was sweet and playful and loved to eat.
76: is there anything you should be doing right now but aren’t?
SLEEPING it’s almost 1.30 now but I want to finish this
77: pink or yellow lemonade?I have only really had yellow lemonade so I’ll go with that
78: are you in the minion hateclub or fanclub?
Don’t know much about them but I think they seem kind of annoying
79: what’s one of the cutest things someone has ever done for you?Hmm I don’t know really. Maybe I’m just tired but I can’t come up with anything
80: what color are your bedroom walls? did you choose that color? if so, why?The ones in my room here in Kalmar are just plain white. They were like that when I got here. The ones in my family room are red with small hearts on them. I was eleven or something when I picked them out. I just thought they were pretty idk
81: describe one of your friend’s eyes using the most abstract imagery you can think of.Like the sky on a rainy day, with a hint of sun behind the clouds
82: are/were you good in school?That really depends on the subject but I guess? I’m not one of those straight-A students or whatever but I’d say I am doing quite well at least
83: what’s some of your favorite album art?Can’t think of any, sorry
84: are you planning on getting tattoos? which ones?I really want tattoos but I only have a few ideas. I want pair of small wings on my shoulder blades (haven’t really figured out what design I want though), and maybe some flower lengths on my collarbones. I want something on my wrist and/or forearm as well but I don’t know what
86: do you like concept albums? which ones?Sorry but what are concept albums??
87: what are some movies you think everyone should watch at least once in their lives?Uhh I’ll have to go with classics such as Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings. I’ll say Mean Girls as well: maybe it’s not the best movie to ever have been made, but still, it’s kind of a classic. Idk, I’m really bad with movies so I’ll have to watch some more good ones and I’ll give a more nuanced answer to this question
88: are there any artistic movements you particularly enjoy?I don’t know what is meant by “artistic movements” but I love art in a lot of forms so maybe? Idk
89: are you close to your parents?I guess?? We talk a lot and I feel loved by them and all that, does that count as close?
90: talk about your one of you favorite cities.Holy shit I don’t know what to choose. I quite like it here in Kalmar though. It’s slightly smaller than I am used to, but it has pretty much everything you need. Also it should be really pretty in the summer. Can’t wait for spring to happen around here.
Stockholm is also quite nice: we usually go there some time every summer or something and it’s a really pretty city and it has some nice things to look at and such.
Also I had a lot of fun getting to experience New York again. I had been there once when i was eight, so it was nice to get to see the city as an adult (or well, sort of adult).
Man I really don’t know, there are so many nice cities all over the world but I can’t write about them all because it would take time and I am tired
91: where do you plan on traveling this year?I don’t know? We have talked about sailing the boat somewhere this year, but I am not exactly sure where. It depends on if I manage to get a job for the summer or not but idk
92: are you a person who drowns their pasta in cheese or a person who barely sprinkles a pinch?I like cheese on pasta but I hardly ever put any cheese on when I eat pasta at home
93: what’s the hairstyle you wear the most?I hardly ever do anything with my hair. I just let it fall down like it wants to. Whatever that is called
94: who was the last person you know to have a birthday?Don’t know really
95: what are your plans for this weekend?There is only one day left of the weekend but I am planning on going to the library tomorrow to finish an assignment for school and then in the evening maybe get some tea and chill with some TV show or something
96: do you install your computer updates really quickly or do you procrastinate on them a lot?Usually I procrastinate them. If I get too annoyed with the popups about the update I’ll install them I guess
97: myer briggs type, zodiac sign, and hogwarts house?ISFJ, Taurus, Hufflepuff
98: when’s the last time you went hiking? did you enjoy it?I don’t think I have ever gone hiking tbh
99: list some songs that resonate to your soul whenever you hear them.Idk man I’m tired. Can I get back to it if I figure something out?
100: if you were presented with two buttons, one that allows you to go 5 years into the past, the other 5 years into the future, which one would you press? why?I’d probably be too scared to go into my future so I wouldn’t choose that button. If I pressed the button which takes me five years back, I would be back to myself at about age 15. I can’t really see why I would go back to my 15-year old self, maybe to give some tips for the future or something haha
Aaaand I’m done! It’s about twenty minutes past two in the morning where I am, and now I can finally go to sleep! Goodnight everyone
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i mean i just made the mistake of drinking coffee at 10 so i really appreciate the fact that you’re giving me something to dobut yes!!! you're super cool and extremely nice and keep talking to me even tho i'm awful at holding conversations??? aaaand you made me remember that lars winnerbäck exists a while back