is there a term for when youre not really sure of your gender and its kinda vague and youre a little apathetic about it, but you know youre definitely not any percent a boy or a girl, ever? i dont want to use stellarian bc its more of an alignment term and just "non-binary" isnt as specific as i want it to be since its also an umbrella term... i considered cassgender but i dont just, not care at all? and it also feels too vague. id like to know of theres a term specifically for this.
Hmmmmm ok, let’s see if one of these fits you:
Some genders that are unexplainable/undefined:
Arigender/Ariesgender: ‘A complicated gender identity that you cannot explain or is very hard to explain. A gender that does not fit under any labels. An unfathomable gender.’
Atmosgender: ‘Having a gender which is present, but unable to be grasped or firmly defined.‘
Concedogender: ‘When you cannot be defined as questioning because you no longer question, but you never reached a particular identity. You conceded and said “I'm okay with not finding out”.’
Commogender: ‘1) When you know you aren't cis, but you settle with boy or girl for the time being.2) A feeling that one is definitely not cis, but is unable to define what their gender is due to mental exhaustion. May be used as commoboy/commogirl if the person identifies with a binary gender for convenience.’
Gendernull: ‘Being without gender, but it is not agender or neutrois, a term for those to give a “tangibility” to the intangible thing that is their gender. Described by a nullgender individual as thus:’
"Undefinable, intangible, the uncreation of gender. It's taking everything everyone throws at you, saying male, female, pick one, pick this, pick that, and taking it in, only to expel it, poisonous crystals erupting from your skin, armor against those who don't listen. A 'I don't want a label because labels don't fit but they help shut people up sometimes, so here have a label' gender label. A fall-back plan, a red herring to give people who can't conceptualize the absence, void, nullification of gender. It is, and is not. All and none. Nonexistant but present."
Genderstrange: ‘When you can't pinpoint one word for your gender, but multiple terms almost fit.‘
Genderweird: ‘A term used to describe those whose gender cannot be described by any existing label, or cannot be pinned down as such.’
Vexgender: ‘When one’s gender is in the non-binary/agender spectrum, but pinpointing it beyond that is impossible because the individual does not understand the concept of gender. Not to be confused with Gendervex.’
Scorpigender: ‘A gender that is a mystery, and very difficult to understand. Lots of labels vaguely fit it, but almost none can fully describe it.’
Errgender: ‘A stray gender, one you can't quite get a hold of (err- stray).‘
Genderblank: ‘A sensation that one’s gender is indescribable, that there are no words to explain it.’
Gendereaux: ‘A feeling of being detached from the concept of gender, but simultaneously identifying with or encompassing many nonbinary experiences or identities.’
Some genders that are weak/vague:
Gossagender: ‘A gender identity that is so weak it feels fragile or barely there.‘
Jellogender: ‘Where you only faintly feel a gender; it's definitely present but you kind of have this vague, dissociated feeling with it, kind of like if you were to encase the gender in jello!! (`cause like it's visible, but its kinda covered in stuff). Not to be confused with Jellygender.’
Levigender: ‘A lightweight, superficial gender you don't feel very much; one you put on in a hurry.’
Vocigender: ‘A gender identity that feels weak or uncertain. Can be combined with relevant genders.’ (You can use vocinonbinary)
Gendervague/Vaguegender: ‘A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.’
Graygender: ‘Describes a person who is ambivalent about their gender identity/expression, but who identifies at least partially with a gender (defined or not) outside of the binary. They may experience a weak sense of gender, or have difficulty defining their gender, or just not be overly involved in gender as a concept.’
If you have trouble differentiating between terms, or want to make a more specific request (for instance, I’ve ruled out most genderfluid and neurodivergent-only identities when compiling this list), feel free to ask!
