What are safer alternatives to binding?
K-tape is much safer in my opinion. It can damage your skin but since it doesn’t compress your rib cage it’s not going to cause the type of damage a traditional binder does. It can be easy to apply it wrong though, so do your research before attempting to. I used to have a guide on it but I’m not really comfortable linking that anymore.
The tape should never be applied all the way around your chest (it should never go past your armpit) and shouldn’t be pulled too tight. If you feel it affecting your breathing at all, it’s too tight. If you can physically feel it pulling on your skin, it’s too tight. If you applied it wrong you need to take it off right away, and you need to soak it in oil first so you can loosen the adhesive. K-tape isn’t removed the way you remove a band-aid, you need to pull it off REALLY slowly so you don’t damage your skin. If it hurts at all, you’re pulling it off too fast or haven’t applied enough oil to it (any type of skin-safe oil works, like baby oil or cooking oil. Oils specifically developed for “transtape” are a scam, don’t waste your money on them). You also have to cover your nipples somehow (with bandaids, gauze, kleenex or even toilet paper but I wouldn’t recommend the last one as it dissolves when wet) to protect them from the tape.
Like I said, damage to your skin is the biggest risk with k-tape. That’s a considerable step up from warped and/or broken ribs, but it’s not as benign as it seems. Damaged skin can end up getting infected, and on a long-term scale it’s possible that constantly pulling on your skin can make it lose elasticity, which can affect top surgery results if you ever plan on getting it. To minimise direct damage you need to be very careful when removing k-tape (again, by using oil) and make sure that your skin stays clean and dry. K-tape can be worn for several days at a time (~3-5) so you generally do shower with it, but after doing so you need to make sure the tape dries properly. You need to pat it down with a towel to remove as much moisture as possible, and then not wear a shirt until it’s dry. If it’s winter or you live in a very humid environment, you generally can’t use k-tape as it won’t dry fast enough.
Other, even safer options would be to disguise your chest through clothing. Hoodies, stiff jackets, graphic tees with distracting patterns, etc. I have a relatively small chest but if I’m layering a zip-up hoodie with a (fake) leather jacket, the fact that it’s not flat isn’t visible at all. A lot of people recommend sports bras but those can actually cause the same type of damage to your ribs as binders do, so I’d stay clear of them.
So I’ve been over the physical risks, but there’s a mental downside too. Continuing to compress or otherwise disguise your chest does get you accustomed to it, which in the long-term can make your dysphoria worse. It completely goes against what the trans community recommends, but you need to know that not binding and not using “binding alternatives” is an option. I had to stop using regular binders because of the damage to my ribs, and had to take a break from k-tape too for other reasons. My dysphoria isn’t cured but I have gotten more used to my chest being there, or at least gotten better at ignoring it without “help”. Every time I put on a binder for even just a few minutes, I feel so much worse once I take it off because I’m changing my standards for what my body looks like. If you’re interested in harm reduction that’s really great and I’ll give you all the advice I can, but you need to know that it’s only harm reduction. The only way to completely stop doing harm to your body is to stop binding* completely, and that might just be less horrible than you think.