Also, I really like that your kinkshame, isn’t really shaming the kink or the people who have the kink. You see the aspects of why people are into it. Which I think is a good thing! For me, I don’t like feet lmao. But that doesn’t mean I should hate on people who do y’know. And I know there’s some aspects to why people like them. Feet just are not my thing and that’s ok. Also how do people get kinks lmao. For me I just knew I liked hands ever since I was in high school and that’s quite awhile ago.
To be honest, I think every kink a person has is valid. Like you said, just because I am not into it, doesn’t mean I have the right to shame it or the people that do. I can only think about their point of view, and honestly? I’ll try everything once. How am I going to know if I like it if I don’t try it? (except scat, I don’t think I’ll ever try that. sorry. no shame to people that enjoy it)
As for how people get kinks? NO CLUE.
I’ve got kinks that I’m like ... ???? (like feet. I was born with a love of feet) but then, there are kinks that arrived either because of something that happened in my childhood (like, my bf at one time moving too quickly and touching me where I didn’t want has turned into a noncon kink for me [gives me power so ya]) or the person you’re with has a kink and you try it out with them and end up liking it. There’s a myriad of ways!
And hands? *chefs kiss* a beautiful kink. Well-manicured fingers are the best thing in the world!
