While in KCS or enjoying media from Korea, you may have heard of “korean age” and “international age”. But what exactly is this?
International age is how we calculate age - you are zero when you are born, and each year on your birthday your age increases by one year.
International age is also referred to as legal age since this is used in courts, hospitals and public offices.
Korean age starts at one on the day you are born, then on the 1st of January every year your age increases by one year.
While Koreans still celebrate their birthday on the day they were born their age does not change until new year.
This means a baby can be born on the 31st of December and turn two the next day despite only being two days old in reality.
In 2019 a change was considered to drop the Korean age system in order to match the rest of the world.
So why does Korea have a different age system to the rest of the world?
The method of Korean age has its origins in China and was at one point used across Asia. However, today South Korea is the only country to use this system.
One theory is that the time a baby spends within their mother's womb is taken into consideration into their overall age and nine months rounds to one year.
Another theory is that some ancient Asian numerical systems did not have a concept of zero and therefore had to start at one.
The concept of everyone aging up at new year is thought to originate from ancient Koreans using the Chinese 60-year calendar cycle but because regular calendars did not exist the exact day of their birth was ignored and one year was added on the first day of the lunar calendar.
This then shifted to January 1st as Korea began to observe the western calendar.
It’s funny that you have to guess someone’s age in order to have to ask them their age.
Age in Korea is spoken about using native Korean numbers (하나, 둘, 셋 / hana, dul, set…).
Asking how old someone is:
Formal : 연세가 어떻게 되십니까? (yeonsega eotteoke doeshimnikka).
Standard (from most formal to least) : 연세가 어떻게 되세요? (yeonsega eotteoke doeseyo), 나이가 어떻게 되세요? (naiga eotteoke doeseyo), 몇 살이에요? (myeot sarieyo).
Informal : 몇 살이야? (myeot sariya).
Replying with your age - in this example I have put the person as being 20 (스무 / seumu) :
Formal : 저는 스무 살입니다 (choneun seumu sarimnida)
Standard : 저는 스무 살이에요. (choneun seumu sarieyo)
Informal : 나는 스무 살이야 (naneun seumu sariya)
Korean Birthday Celebrations
Nowadays birthdays are heavily influenced by the western tradition of cake and a party.
However eating seaweed soup (miyeokguk - 미역국) is a tradition that has remained.
Mothers ate seaweed soup after giving birth as it is rich in nutrients believed to heal and boost milk production and so to eat it on your birthday is a reminder and an appreciation of your mother’s pain and care for you.
A celebration of a baby's first birthday.
Historically important since many babies would die before they reached their birthday and therefore to do so was a cause for celebration
For the celebration babies will wear a hanbok with a traditional hat - jobawi (조바위) or gulle (굴레) for girls and fujin (복건) or hogeon (호건) for boys.
Family members pray and give thanks to the gods Sanshin (mountains) and Samshin (birth) for the child having been born and for the child to have a prosperous life.
Rice, seaweed soup (miyeokguk - 미역국), fruit and rice cakes are placed on a table, stacked high to symbolise a life of prosperity for the baby.
The main part of the celebration is the doljabi (돌자비) ceremony where a variety of objects are placed before the baby and the one they choose foretells their future. There are no set rules for what items are presented, though many parents choose to keep them traditional.
Examples of these items include:
Pencil or book - education
Needle - talent with the hands
This is followed with singing and playing, and often gift giving.
The celebration of someone’s 60th birthday.
A tradition from when life expectancy was much lower makes this a celebration of longevity and it also marks someone entering their second cycle of the Chinese 60-year calendar cycle.
Children of the person celebrating, starting from the eldest, bow and offer wine to their parent.
Gifts and poems may also be presented to them.
It used to be common for the sons/daughters of the person celebrating to dress in children's clothing in order to help them feel younger, though this is rare now.
The celebration itself is also becoming less popular due to medical advances and the widespread use of the western calendar
How to say Happy Birthday!
The basic word for birthday is 생일 (saengil) but if you are referring to the birthday of someone older than yourself you should use 생신 (saengsin).
The word for celebrate or congratulate is 축하하다 (chukahada).
So happy birthday as a whole phrase is:
Formal : 생신을 축하드립니다 (saengsineul chukadeurimnida).
Standard : 생일 축하합니다 (saengil chukahamnida) or 생일 축하해 (saengil chukahaeyo). The first one is slightly more formal although they are very similar. This is also the phrase that best fits the happy birthday song.
Informal : 생일 축하해 (saengil chukahae).
Researched and posted by Leo :)
Please note some of the formal and informal sayings may be inaccurate, the committee only know basic Korean and this is the best we could figure out. If you do know the correct versions please message us and they will be corrected!
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