#ldr is hard

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[ffuckkitall]

I hate long distance

I wish all of this was over. I wish I had you by my side all day and not having to worry about when we will be able to actually spend time together. I miss you more than you can imagine. School and work between the both of us makes our time so limited and I hate it. Although, I know we are only trying to better our future. I am so in love with you and my heart aches every day, hour, minute and even second we are apart. You, without a doubt are the love of my life. I can't explain the love I feel for when I look at you. I can't explain the feeling I get when we are together again. I can't explain what I felt the very first time we met. I just wish we didn't have to do this anymore. I wish I didn't have to look at you through a computer screen all the time. I wish I didn't have to force myself the best I can to stay awake just to see you for 5 minutes. I wish there was more time in a day so I could spend more time with you.

I just hope you know I love you more than anything. You are the one I want to marry and to build a life with. Your face is the face I want to see every morning. I know things get rough, but please never forget I love you to pluto and back forever and ever a million zillion times.

[thebeckdelacruz]

[maouie]

Long Distance Relationship

I'm in a ldr, he lives in Missouri and live in California. I'm 18 about to be 19 and he's 22 about to be 23. We met on this game called imvu back in 2014. I thought he was a catfish when I first met him because weeks before I had found a picture of him under the "emo boy" tag on google. My friend and I convinced him to skype us the day we met him, we were surprised to see that he wasn't a catfish. Since then we had all been friends, sometime at the end of 2014 or very beginning of 2015. I stopped talking to Todd, because of some fight we had. We did date once before but things happened, stuff we're going on for the both of us and we got into a fight which ended our friendship. July of 2016 I finally messaged him. Apologizing for being an asshole, I didn't think he'd reply back to me let alone be my friend again. But he did. During this time I was with someone, it was a confusing and horrible relationship that I was in. Around the time I met him I realized I still had feelings for him, but so didn't tell him because I had feelings for the person I was currently with. I tried pushing my feelings down for Todd. December of 2016. I told him, I was single then when I did. I told him ever since we first went out my feelings haven't gone away, and about all the times I would think about him, missing him and wondering if he was okay when we weren't friends. He rejected me. Not because he didn't like me but because he thinks ldr are stupid. So we stayed as friends, but because we have this strong connection with one another our friendship became into lowkey dating, with the flirting and calling each other "Dear" and "Hun". We soon realized and brought it up on Jan 26, which was our friends Morgan's birthday the same friend we Skyped the first day we met. Once we brought up that we were lowkey dating we started referring each other as boyfriends. Todd and I our very honest with each other. Maybe sometimes in other people's minds you would say "a little too honest" but I always think it's extremely important to be really honest with your S/O. Our deep talks have gone from how we are in person to sexual fantasies or kinks. Currently this year we are planning on meeting, I have a friend named Ashley who also lives in Missouri. I promised her that I would go to warped tour with her and Todd is going to see if he can tag along, if not I'm going over to his place because he still has a promise he needs to keep. Which is play Overwatch with me LOL I know silly promise but he's gonna keep it, I'll make sure of it. Overall, although it's long distance and people give us shit about it. We care too much about each other to care about what people think. We want to be with one another, and we're putting in the effort to make this relationship work. Long distance is hard, I wish I could go see him and give him a ton of kisses or snuggle the fuck out of him. But I can't right now I have to live with just being on imvu together and skyping, but that's perfectly fine with me. As long as I'm getting to talk with him I'm completely and utterly happy ^~^ I love him truly and dearly ♥

[distantbutstrong]

my ldr update

soo my ldr boyfriend and me had a really bad moment after my last visit to him. it all started when he said we have to wait three months before meeting again because he's too busy with other stuff. so I was completely heartbroken and I told him, but it led to fights and doubts about our relationship. we were going to break up. I felt terrible, he did too. then I asked him to try again, with different ways of communication (we started having more videochats, deeper topics, activities together...) and it worked. a lot. I feel now much closer to him despite the physical distance. and the fact that he agreed to work on our relationship instead of giving up made me realise how much he loves me! we still have two months to go but we're both busy with studying and exams so I'm trying to focus on myself to let these two months fly away.

[imsignificantlyinsignificant]

He called me beautiful...

[lt2019]

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