#ldr stuff

[mattandjez]

Hoping this will all be over. I'm missing my man so bad and I can't wait to be with him.

[awaytotheuk]

Usually around this time of the year we are counting down the days until one of us will be headed in the others direction.

But not this year.

This year I’m pretending like the days aren’t going slower, and I’m pretending that this is how we will always live our lives.

I know I sound so negative but I can’t get my hopes up. I can’t sit here and say that “yes! I will get my visa!”

I have to plan for the worst outcome. In fact Rob is getting tired of me saying “if I get my visa” and “we need to save up for a reapplication in case I get a denial.”

Luckily, he understands completely why I am planning how I’m planning.

Also luckily, if I do get a refusal we will probably be able to apply as soon as my tax return hits my bank account in the new year. So that’s a plus.

I just really hope and pray it doesn’t come down to that.

But we have a plan if it does.

Pray for me.

[ourlove-real--relationships-true]

The biggest struggle of being in an LDR is that you're going around and you see and hear people of things that remind you of them. Like, you see someone that looks like your significant other and it hurts because no matter how much you want it to be them, it's not them. Sometimes you'll see something and wish they were there to experience it with you, having an awesome day you can brag about together. There are days when you just want them right there next to you. Just to feel the affection, to get a hug, a kiss on the cheek, on the lip even just leaning up against their arm. Sometimes you're crying so hard and no one can comfort you like you want them to because no one else can comfort you except for that person that is miles and miles away from you. All you can do is text and have phone calls, don't get me wrong it's great, but I am counting down the days until I can see you. Like really see you, not just a visit that lasts for just a short time, actually be with you and spend the rest of my life with you. Not sitting in the corner of the room crying over songs and things that remind you of them. Loathing all the couples that are so happy together and being disappointed by the ones that do not understand how lucky they are to be with someone but abuse that pleasure and pure honesty a relationship should have. Call me a dreamer sure, but you know I'm right.

[thebeckdelacruz]

Have you ever stayed up late with someone texting or chatting and known as the hours ticked by that you’d be ridiculously tired in the morning but it didnt matter because it was really fun and totally worth losing sleep over just to laugh with someone and enjoy their company maybe and then the next day you keep tiredly recalling how much fun it was while you’re falling asleep in class and that makes it not so bad that you’re tired anymore.

[maouie]

Long Distance Relationship

I'm in a ldr, he lives in Missouri and live in California. I'm 18 about to be 19 and he's 22 about to be 23. We met on this game called imvu back in 2014. I thought he was a catfish when I first met him because weeks before I had found a picture of him under the "emo boy" tag on google. My friend and I convinced him to skype us the day we met him, we were surprised to see that he wasn't a catfish. Since then we had all been friends, sometime at the end of 2014 or very beginning of 2015. I stopped talking to Todd, because of some fight we had. We did date once before but things happened, stuff we're going on for the both of us and we got into a fight which ended our friendship. July of 2016 I finally messaged him. Apologizing for being an asshole, I didn't think he'd reply back to me let alone be my friend again. But he did. During this time I was with someone, it was a confusing and horrible relationship that I was in. Around the time I met him I realized I still had feelings for him, but so didn't tell him because I had feelings for the person I was currently with. I tried pushing my feelings down for Todd. December of 2016. I told him, I was single then when I did. I told him ever since we first went out my feelings haven't gone away, and about all the times I would think about him, missing him and wondering if he was okay when we weren't friends. He rejected me. Not because he didn't like me but because he thinks ldr are stupid. So we stayed as friends, but because we have this strong connection with one another our friendship became into lowkey dating, with the flirting and calling each other "Dear" and "Hun". We soon realized and brought it up on Jan 26, which was our friends Morgan's birthday the same friend we Skyped the first day we met. Once we brought up that we were lowkey dating we started referring each other as boyfriends. Todd and I our very honest with each other. Maybe sometimes in other people's minds you would say "a little too honest" but I always think it's extremely important to be really honest with your S/O. Our deep talks have gone from how we are in person to sexual fantasies or kinks. Currently this year we are planning on meeting, I have a friend named Ashley who also lives in Missouri. I promised her that I would go to warped tour with her and Todd is going to see if he can tag along, if not I'm going over to his place because he still has a promise he needs to keep. Which is play Overwatch with me LOL I know silly promise but he's gonna keep it, I'll make sure of it. Overall, although it's long distance and people give us shit about it. We care too much about each other to care about what people think. We want to be with one another, and we're putting in the effort to make this relationship work. Long distance is hard, I wish I could go see him and give him a ton of kisses or snuggle the fuck out of him. But I can't right now I have to live with just being on imvu together and skyping, but that's perfectly fine with me. As long as I'm getting to talk with him I'm completely and utterly happy ^~^ I love him truly and dearly ♥

[mattandjez]

You're all that I dream about.

[mattandjez]

You're all that I think about.

[mattandjez]

I adore you.