What comes once a year covered in pink hearts and candy, with companies pushing their romantic, overpriced activities to couples (and singles)? Or rather, I should ask, what holiday doesn’t come once a year with commercialization taking a free reign over our lives? With the overwhelming advertisements, pressure to put yourself into a box about your relationship status and sometimes, even thoughts about how maybe we should just do away with the day altogether…
… the cynic in me tended to agree with these views because let’s face it, Valentine’s day ever since Cupid shot his first arrow was intended to celebrate romantic love. But at some point I thought to myself.. wait a minute. “Love is a many splendored thing..” okay, okay, I didn’t think that right away — but it’s true. Love is a spectrum of so many types of love we’ve chosen to overlook celebrating, and maybe it’s time to stop taking them so much for granted. Maybe it’s time to fight back against commercialization and prove that true love really does conquer all — even 50% off on all pink items at Clothing Store XYZ. When we think of classic princess Disney stories, what always pops into our heads are the damsels in distress and the “true love’s kisses” that stem only from romantic relationships. Back in the 1960’s, Barbie had only one ethnicity and one body type (not to mention legs that simply wouldn’t stay upright without heels on).But the world is changing, and with it companies have no choice but to change the way they think too! Frozen depicted how sisterly love can break an evil curse. Disney’s live-action remake of Sleeping Beauty “Maleficent” showed how we take for granted a kind of love that is so close to us: the love of our parents and guardians.A time in which Barbie’s biggest companion was Ken, and her most promising career depended on her outer beauty is coming to a close only because people spoke up about their disdain for the narrow-minded representation of the dolls: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/jan/30/new-barbie-dolls-fashionistas-ripping-off-heads-femininity
By all means, don’t miss the chance to celebrate this day with your significant other. But don’t miss out on the chance to celebrate love in a rainbow of ways either. Here are 3 ways you can beat the heat that will burn your pockets this valentine’s day:1. Do something special for your family — the only people who will definitely stand by your side no matter how much your mascara isn’t “on fleek”. But no, seriously. Plan an outing with your family, it doesn’t even have to cost any money:
http://traveltriangle.com/blog/free-things-to-do-in-dubai/.
There’s nothing better than feeling like no matter what, you’re not alone in this world.2. Away from family? No problem. Take the time to appreciate yourself for all that you’ve done or make a list of all the things you’ve accomplished in life. Sing at the top of your lungs. Dance like nobody’s watching. Show yourself some love, for a change!3. Celebrate friendship. Remember Galentine’s Day that Leslie Knope celebrated on the TV show Parks & Recreation? There’s no rule that says you only have to send clichéd friendship messages on Whatsapp on the umpteen friendship days that exist. Being in the friend zone is sometimes way too underrated if you ask me.If you’re looking at all of this and going *cringe* “I’d rather pretend this day didn’t exist.. hey, that’s alright too! In the words of Rumi:
‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it”*mic drop*