only you can save yourself. get the fuck up and persist.
some tough love/wake up call for all the shifters/manifestors out there.
there is nothing. no one that can save you. you wake up everyday, scroll through tumblr/tiktok/pinterest/whatever the fuck and then go back to sleep thinking 'oh maybe i'll find a good enough method'. you keep hoping for some random miracle while still thinking of the same old sob story. you keep looking for new bloggers, new information, new method to try. well? you're still here aren't you? i don't see your desires around you.
you treat persistence as if it's a suggestion. then you're in people's askbox sending them messages like "WHY CAN'T I PERSIST?" you tell me. why can't you? why is it so hard for you to actually stay consistent with the thing YOU want. why is it so hard for you to stay thinking in YOUR favor?
no blogger, no tiktoker, no youtuber can shift or manifest for you. NO ONE. no one is coming to save your sorry ass. they're fucking lying if they say otherwise. ONLY YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF. how hard is it to actually stay firm in your mindset. you have the cheat code, you have the methods, you have your affirmations. how hard is it for you to stand the fuck up and decide? decide that you are getting the thing you want. decide that you are NOT taking ANYTHING else.
why do you keep waking up and repeating the loop? how much time has it been? weeks? months? years? and you've combed the entire internet for the SAME. DAMN. INFORMATION. again and again.
how many times are you going to think 'this time i'll get it' only to turn back around and waver. only to repeat this entire process. how hard is it for you to persist in what you want. you have had no trouble persisting in your negative thoughts all these years. do you truly want your desires or is thinking in your favor too much for you?
i get it, with someone who had ab*sive parents previously, persisting is hard. it takes strong determination to do so. but staying here? is that fucking sunshine and rainbows? why are you asking people how to persist. persisting is literally staying firm in your thoughts and NOT giving into your 3d or whatever bullshit you term it. as long as you keep reacting to the world around you, you will keep failing. when know that you have it and not take a no for example? that is when you get what you want. people have changed their lives so much. because they got off of other people's blogs and actually applied stuff into their lives. you want it that bad? get it. it's literally yours to grab. no one else will take it and hand it over to you.
In this blog i'm going to do my best to explain the mechanism behind shifting that i mentioned in this blog, while also keeping it relatively simple and easy to understand (gonna avoid any complex terminology). Then i'm going to give you my two cents on how to implement this knowledge in your journey yay.
Your subconscious dictates your reality, meaning that whatever your subconscious expects and considers as true is what you are able to become aware of.
The collection of ‘truths’ (assumptions) that your subconscious holds create (subconscious) expectations, which are essentially what make you shift from reality to reality. The reason why it is correct to say that we shift all the time without being conscious of it, is because our subconscious holds plenty of expectations (about pretty much everything)that we don't know of (they're subconscious for a reason) .
So to make sure this is easy to understand:
Subconscious -> has expectations that we don’t necessarily know.
Expectations -> are what determines the realities that we become aware of.
Therefore, by not knowing which expectations we subconsciously hold, we don’t pay attention to these shifts, because we are not consciously intending them. It seems as if stuff just 'casually happens’.
Now, if you're reading this, you may or may not be the kind of person who tries to shift, wakes up, sees their cr, and (consciously) assumes that they cannot shift/ or that they are having trouble shifting. This happens because your subconscious expects you to wake up in your cr, despite trying to shift elsewhere.
Assuming that you can't shift and similar stuff on a conscious level once is not an issue per se, because as I said earlier, subconscious assumptions and expectations are the ones to dictate your reality.
However these subconscious expectations are built and maintained through patterns and repetition. Meaning that if everytime this scenarios happens, you go and repeat things like ''i can't shift' or ''shifting is hard for me'' you're only strenghtening the assumption that is preventing you from waking up in your dr in the first place.
It's also important to know that subconscious beliefs(or assumptions) and conscious ones are two separate things and that they can (and will) differ.
So if it ever happened to you to be very excited and convinced that you were going to shift to your desired reality on a specific day(or should i say night?), and you still woke up in your cr, you didn't do anything wrong during your method. Your subconscious simply didn't expect you to wake up in your desired reality.
Now luckily it's totally possible to change these expectations in your favor:
If you want to shift to your desired reality you must build subconscious assumptions and expectations that 'make you shift' in the same way: through patterns and repetition.
But how do you do that concretely?
From the way i see it, there’s two ways to go about it, and one of them is the most ‘promoted’ within the shifting community ( but funnily enough I think it’s the least efficient LOL).
The first way (the 'classic') you can shift knowing this is by directly creating the subconscious assumption that you already are in your dr. This usually looks like repeating affirmations like ‘’I am currently in my desired reality’’ back to back during an attempt, most of the time while you’re in an altered state of consciousness( theta state, ‘void’ state etc). If this sounds familiar it’s because that’s what most shifting methods are designed to do.
My ‘’issue’’ with this approach is that in order to shift you are supposed to "impress your subconscious on a time crunch" (during your method/attempt) and if that doesn’t happen, the already existing expectations will ‘prevail’. For example, up to this point your subconscious knew that you were in your cr and/or that you always wake up in your cr after an attempt. -> if a new assumption contradicting and erasing the previous one is not formed, you’re gonna keep on be aware of your previous reality ( in other words still be in your cr).
This leads us to the second (and imo better) way to go about things, which is, forming and engraving the assumption that you shift to your dr whenever you intend/attempt to. The reason I like this more is because it, so to say, kills all the birds with one stone.
Instead of trying to get your subconscious believe that you are in your dr every single time you want to shift there, you build up the subconscious belief/knowledge that whenever you intend to shift to a desired reality, you do. Whether it’s by falling asleep here and waking up there, or ‘meditating’ your way there etc. In a way, this technique is the shortest of cuts.
And unlike the previous one, it’s not ‘limited’ to the duration of your attempt.You can affirm this at any given moment, without it being weird (you could affirm that you’re in your dr outside of your attempt, but that could feel as if u were just lying to yourself LOL).
This is also what most ‘experienced shifters’ do without even necessarily knowing it:
-> As they shift to their drs more and more frequently, they start to affirm and believe (consciously and/or subconsciously) that shifting is easy for them (or if they’re used to using a specific method, they start to believe that they are able to shift using X method whenever they want).
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I hope this was clear and useful to some of you, if u have any questions feel so free to comment or send me an ask!
1. I can't read fanfics without feeling uncomfortable or getting second hand embarrassment because I've actually met these people so I just feel weird 😭
2. After I shifted and came back especially the first couple of times, I genuinely started questioning everything about life. The fact that I could live different lives made me appreciate my cr life and learned to see beauty in the bad parts. I started to not takes things too seriously or too personal because this place is temporary.
3. Watching content abt my dr sometimes gives me a strong sense deja vu like "I remember fliming that but im not there"
4. My perspective of certain people changed, not in a bad way tho. I have a kpop dr and i became a fan of bts when I was still in middle school. Being a child i definitely saw bts as these beautiful perfect people but actually living with them made me realize that they're far from perfect and thats okay. If anything it makes me love them more.
5. The memories you get when you shift. When I shifted to my bts dr, I called my mom and we were talking abt stuff I did as a kid and immediately knew what she was talking about and the imagine of the memory popped up in my head like it does here. Its one of those things that make you realize how real shifting is.
okay, okay, I’m still all over the place but I’ll try and reiterate what happened. I was sleeping restlessly (like I usually do, but I’m injured so it was a lot more difficult to become comfortable). it was early morning and fuckass light was sneaking under my equally fuckass blinds and I WANTED that cookie — shifting and my s/o being that cookie. so I released my predisposed and typical shifting routine with music and focus and visualisation and said FUCK ITTT. I turned over and imagined it was early morning in my dr too (my bed isn’t even close to the window there but god forbid a girl takes some creative liberties) and then I visualised my s/o’s arms around my waist, his breath on the back of my neck. it made me feel better and after a few seconds, i lowk forgot about my beef with the light and then I FELT IT. his breath. I WENT RIGID. I turned and felt him KISS MY CHEEK. TWICE. mind you WE ARE NOT TOGETHER YET. his mouth was so so very soft and I thought maybe I was in my cr and it was my mom?? sometimes she wakes me up with kisses, but why the fuck would she be awake now and THIS gentle?? I heard him murmur something to me, (I think it was my name??) and so so much adrenaline was rushing me that I shifted back because WHAT IS HAPPENING. it feels less startling now, and when I shifted back I was FRUSTRATED but OH MYYY. earlier in the evening, I’d started thinking of my routine and schedule in my dr, and affirming lightly that I would wake up there (this schedule included my ‘best friend’ staying over and waking up with him!!) drowsy, fuck it, visualise guys!!
I've never doubted shifting because my dad was a shifter for years.
He told me stories from his one reality all the time, about how he was a warrior that could transform into a giant black cat, called iekkrans.
About all the other clans of wolves and bears and lions, how he made me a princess that knew how to fight any man that tried anything with me. How the warriors fight with music and create it with the clash of their weapons.
He told me about a crazed princess from another kingdom that was so unstable you could probably find her running down a road naked and not be surprised.
He told me how when you married someone in this reality you formed a spiritual bond so strong that if you broke it, it could kill you, and that HE had his bond broken and barely survived it.
He told me about how in courting culture, the only way to win a mate was to prove to the father you loved them. And the magic knew if you were lying. He told me then about 2 brothers that fought for my heart, and how the older one won.
He told me about eternal cities that were created from exoloding worlds, how those cities were permanent and euphoric, and how if you dare entered one you'd never be able to leave again.
He's told me so many stories about the warriors of the universe and how they become stone cold and trained to kill EVERYTHING they're commanded to kill.
My dad is a fucking bad ass, and I'll never doubt reality shifting because of him.
I could live my entire life without proving myself to anyone, I can lay in the ground knowing that nobody knows anything about me and that peace to me.
And yet I want to experience everything.
I want to be a pianist, a witch, a pirate, a princess. I want to wander a world with no rules, no expectations. I would love to be the silent traveler, slipping through realities, leaving tiny marks or none at all. No one will ever know every life I’ve lived, every universe I’ve touched and that’s the beauty of it.
That’s why I love shifting. I can observe. I can participate. I can exist without the weight of permanence and performance.
I wanted to make this story time a while ago, but basically I watched a lot of romance movies with princesses and princes, royalty etc.
So I was really eager to also create my own princess dr and once I finished with my basic script, i tried shifting there.
Once I shifted, I opened my eyes and saw my very big room with lots of decorations- it was so beautiful really! My bed was also very comfortable! I then was surprised to see my own lady-in-waiting, she was very sweet and helped me get dressed and made my hair pretty! Breakfast was also very yummy! There were lots of things I could choose from and there were always some sort of employee like the steward who personally filled my cup again or cut the fruits for me. I was really feeling like having the biggest princess treatment- literally.
I then went to my garden and sat down at a swing I had there and looked at the beautiful landscape. After some time I was informed that me and my family are invited to a ball that evening. So I wondered how’s it gonna be like! I was so excited! My maid and me we talked about some books and then i got my tea served outside. My little brothers also came outside and we played a little together.
The time has come where I needed to prepare myself for the festivity, so I went inside to get a bath and then change. You can’t believe hoe beautiful looking my dress was! It was beige with light blue elements and it glittered so beautifully! My hair was half up half down. We got inside the carriage with very pretty horses pulling us.
When I arrived, I was in awe of how beautiful the location was! Everything was decorated perfectly, the flowers, lights, the entry… I saw lots of beautiful girls with their own beautiful dresses. I went inside and stood somewhere for a while with my mom, and she told me to dance, but I refused to go, because I was a little afraid to mess up accidentally.. so instead I ate some appetizers. A man came to me and introduced himself as the prince Harry the Second, honestly I was not very amused but I gave it a try and danced with him. While dancing I saw another man looking familiar.. it was San from Ateez, i got confused but then it hit me that I scripted my s/o in here too, so I was desperate to find him now- mind you I was not concentrating myself at dancing at all.. so I made some mistakes and stumbled a little which made Harry step on my foot and me tripping into another male. I was so embarrassed help, but the man I bumped into helped me and asked if I was okay and y’all when I tell you I almost pissed my pants, because that man was my s/o SONG MINGI HIMSELF-!
The crowd was silenced as well and after I said everything’s okay the music played again, help I was very embarrassed of myself. I went to my mum again and she just looked at me like aw and smiled.. I began watching Mingi- how he talked and also glanced at me. It was so exciting honestly, I think I fell in love at first sight all over again!
Anyways that’s it for now, lmk if you want a part 2, because I stayed a little longer than that
