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NJs and spatial awareness

INFJ: By the way, did you even notice me almost running you over with my bike yesterday?

ENTJ: What? I didn't even ride my bike yesterday.

INFJ: No, but I did.

ENTJ: Wait, you almost ran me over? Oh, okay, I thought you meant I almost ran you over and didn't even notice. But ... where? When? What? Where did you see me?

INFJ: Yesterday! Like five minutes after we said goodbye. You were walking towards the road while I was approaching from behind on my bike and I remember wanting to say goodbye to you again, but then you suddenly stopped in the middle of the path when I was right behind you, so I had to go around you, which was when you thought it was a good idea to take a step to the right, almost right into my front wheel, while you looked the other way, so I was a bit too preoccupied with not running you over to say anything.

ENTJ: No. No, that can't be right. I was on my way to the bus stop, then realised I didn't want to take the bus and then walked the other way.

INFJ: Yes. That's exactly the moment I'm talking about.

ENTJ: Are you sure it was me?

INFJ: Unlike you, I've got eyes.

#i have literally never seen him more confused than during this conversation #gotta love how he's always making fun of me for my low se adventures when he doesn't even notice being almost run over #(mostly posting this to say i‘m still here (every day actually) and didn‘t really disappear)#low se #high ni #entj #infj #mbti conversations

Being an INTJ is planning several steps ahead and always living in the future, to the extent that one day I tried to close a door as I was leaving a room, thus closing it on my head.

#intj life #intjproblems #intj woman #intj #low Se #ni dom #intj humor

Low Se Problems #3

It’s all so beautiful:

The trees…

The lights…

The soft chirping of birds…

The pure white of the clouds…

The feeling of rocks violently slamming against your forehead as you fall for the 13th time because you can’t pay attention to the environment and to your safety at the same time

#mbti #low se problems #ni #intj #infj #enfj #entj #low se #se

Always that lovely low Se

INFJ: Is it warm outside?

ENTJ (who literally just came in from outside): I don't know. Do you have a new desk?

INFJ: What?

ENTJ: I remember you having a different desk in your office.

INFJ: Yeah, it got replaced like two months ago. Now tell me, how many times have you been in my office since then?

ENTJ: One or two ... hundred times.

INFJ: It's very nice of you to finally notice the change again.

#gotta love how when i tell him about my low se adventures he's always like 'haha that could never happen to me'#like. have you seen yourself?#he's such an idiot i really like him #entj #infj #mbti conversations #low se

INFJ: (struggling hard at opening a box)

ISFP: Are you supposed to do it like that?

INFJ: No. I'm just stupid.

INTJ: Oh, don't bring yourself down like that.

INFJ: No, really. Or as my dad likes to say "INFJ, when it comes to the simple things in life, you're just stupid."

INTJ: That's not a nice thing to say.

INFJ (thinking back to the time she thought it was absolutely logical to write her name in reverse on a name tag because her left is not the other people's left, as if the piece of paper was actually see-through, and then she got confused when people couldn't read her name): Weeeeeell ... he is right though.

#looking back i really cannot fathom just how stupid i can be #you know how when you are half-awake but still kind of dreaming and reality is all weird and you're convinced that you have 3 noses?#that's me when i'm fully awake #i blame it on se #i blame everything on se #infj #low se #se #mbti #mbti conversation

When you are visualizing things, do you find what you see in the mind's eye to be disproportionate? I was wondering if people with low Se have a tendency to visualize things in a less exact way. Thank you.

Hi anon! Sorry for the late response.

That's a very interesting question! I always think that my visualisations are a lot like memories: extremely blurry. It's more like I know where stuff is supposed to be and less that I see where it is. So when I visualise things, my mind's eye kind of glides over everything without really looking at it. Pretty much like in real life, where I always have a singular focus (which is typically directed at a person) and will not notice a single thing happening around me. So that certainly gets carried over into my visualisations. Nothing I visualise is ever really sharp, just one big blur. And concerning the proportions, I wouldn't say that I visualise a chair to be bigger than a table or something like that, but there has always been the strong tendency to space things out too much. For instance, a hallway will be five metres broad instead of two. The distances are too big. I've actually got that same problem with dreams. I often know I'm dreaming because everything is too far apart to be realistic. No idea why I'm doing that.

I'd actually be very interested to know how it works for people with high Se (or Ne/Si, for that matter, since I know that at least my INTP father is very good at visualising things more realistically). So if anyone wants to chime in, please do! :)

#ask #low se