having to put paraphiles in my dni is sad because i genuinely dont have a problem with it (literally i am technically one) but it he fact that the paraphile community on tumblr is too accepting of disgusting paraphilias (ageplay zoophiles, abdl, necrophillia) into ther community, no its not the fucking same thing to be a pedophile than somone who believes they are connected abd have an interpersonal and emotional relationship with their car.
if you are encouraging fantasizing sexually about children and things children do (wear diapers, use pacis, ect) in the same way you encourage yumeshipping or objectum you need to go to hell.
if you wear diapers and get off on it it doesnt matter if its about the sensory experience, the humiliation, or literally just like to pee in them, ANYTHING find an outlet for that feeling that has nothing to do with children and disability aid in some cases, Something babies and people with medical incontinence use should not be sexualized, it is a private and necessary tool for parents and sick people.
it doesnt matter if you are anti contact,you can be anti murder and its still disgusting to post about fantasizing desicrating a corpse.
maybe i just think sex shouldnt be publically posted about as much as it is in general on here. more of the yumeshipping community just feels like genuinely appreciating their f/o and loving them in every aspect, sure its technically a paraphillia to be a fictophile but the paraphile community is seriously mostly about sex and not the romantic or interpersonal aspect of their affliction for these things. i wish there was sfw objectum and such communities. i just want to talk about meg fluff or how gorgeous i think some cars and architecture is. buwithout tumblr putting proshippers on my screen.
i experience sexual and romantic feelings about non typical things the same way i experience atypical gender euphoria, i use xenogenders and have otherkin/nonhuman alters. im literally in love with EVERY part of the ocean, and meg griffin But even mentioning this publically to the internet feels embarrassing and private like how those feelings should be, sex isnt meant to be public.
i also experience symptoms of csa trauma and i do not think entering communities where acting on those feelings is encouraged is safe in any way, because hurt can people hurt people especially with this. Many criminals have also been traumatized in their past.
In no universe has a therapist incouraged Fictional CSAM or fantasizing/reinacting trauma as a coping mechanism, yes it can be coping mechanism but it is not healthy or safe one, like Sh or drug use.
Ok im done thx bye.
