something that really helped me through my reality shifting journey is the mindset change I've had.
I got into shifting in mid-2021, I started trying in late 2021 and gave up in late 2022. for more than a year, I completely cut off shifting from my life. then, earlier this year, in January, I re-got into it. I've tried to shift last night for the first time since January. and damn, I was closer than I ever was in 2021-2022. I actually almost shifted unintentionally last Saturday too. that's what motivated me even more.
now the thing is, since January I've tried learning more about shifting than I already did, I also started learning about manifesting, the void state and the law of assumption. and I started following many shifter creators that ACTUALLY helped me. I built another type of relationship with reality shifting, as I said in a previous post a much healthier one. now I actually know what I'm doing and I'm fully conscious about my dr and I honestly feel more connected to it than I ever was before. back in 2021 I just thought about shifting as something so hard and difficult to achieve and almost impossible, I used to try literally every night, and honestly the creators used to put so much pressure on the viewers with those "don't move while you're trying to shift", "you need a method to shift", "you have to drink 9294992 litres of water per day to shift" kinda stuff.
now I've acknowledged that shifting is easy. it's literally the easiest thing to exist and we're all master shifters.
the tip that helped me the most is
don't put your DR on a pedestal.
imagine there is a tall building.
let's say you are on the 1st floor.
most shifters tend to put their dr on a pedestal, meaning they see their dr on the top floor of the building.
by doing that, you basically see your dr as something "hard to get to", something almost unachievable.
instead, try to put your cr and your dr on the same level. you'll understand you're already in your dr, you can shift there whenever you want to, and shifting will become even easier than it already is.
of course this is not compulsory to successfully shift, but yeah it helped me A LOT and it changed my mindset so much so I hope it can help you too!