#mind elevation

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Truth: You are allowed to outgrow people.

Hey Besties,

We talked about the inner & outer work that happens when you choose to heal and become the best version of yourself ( femininity + level up journey ) but we haven’t touched on what happens when you out grow people in your life.

When you choose to elevate, you will mostly leave people behind who don’t want to do the same or aren’t on the same frequency that you are now on. This can be bittersweet, especially when you thought the same people who were with you at the beginning will be there with you in the end.

Today we want to discuss how it’s okay to outgrow, separate and even cut ties with people who aren’t living the life you are aspiring to live. We will also breakdown how to differentiate when to loving someone from afar and when to let go for the sake of your own happiness, peace and even safety.

✨🌱 Recognizing Growth and Change

Growth is part of life, and as we evolve, our priorities and goals shift. This can lead to a disconnect with people in our lives who don’t share our vision or support our journey. It’s essential to feel empowered to seek out relationships that truly uplift us.

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Loving from Afar vs. Letting Go 🥀

Figuring out when to love someone from a distance or when to cut ties entirely can be tough.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

1. Support vs. Negativity: Think about whether the person lifts you up or drags you down. Supportive people help us grow, while toxic relationships can hold us back.

2. Emotional Drain: Notice how you feel after spending time with someone, whether it’s in person or over the phone. If you constantly feel exhausted or unsupported, it might be time to reconsider that connection.

3. Your Safety Matters: Your emotional and physical safety should always come first. If a relationship feels harmful, prioritize your peace by stepping away. Sometimes this could even be when you see people start to be shady or judgmental about how you move now. Slowly pull back from this relationship, share less and guard your heart more. We don’t mean be rude and aggressive. Move with grace, you once adore this relationship so just accept it and deal with the accordingly.

The Art of Letting Go ⛓️‍💥

Letting go doesn’t mean you have to be bitter or resentful. It can be a graceful step back that acknowledges the good times you shared but recognizes it’s time to move on.

Here’s how to do it:

Speak Your Truth: If it feels right, share how you feel with the person. This might not be possible in every situation, but when it is, it can help both of you find closure. There doesn’t have to be bad blood, it’s just life pulling you on different paths.

Set Boundaries: If you want to keep some level of connection, make sure to set boundaries that protect your happiness and peace.

Be Kind to Yourself: Allow yourself to feel whatever emotions come up when you let go. It’s a process, and it’s okay to take your time.

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[soulprettier]

peace is not external or to be sought after or attained. living mindfully, slowing down and enjoying each step and each breath is enough. peace is already present in each step, and if we walk in this way, a flower will bloom under our feet with every step. in fact the flowers will smile at us and wish us well on our way.

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Master your mind so it won’t master you. This is how you master your energy.

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