How to deal with your shy nature?
I remember the time when I used to be a shy girl. I was very reserved and was never comfortable in a group conversation. I would be sitting quietly just with a smile all throughout. But one thing I started doing which helped me immensely in working on my shyness. Along with being shy, I am also observant by nature. I get intrigued by people who possess qualities that sometimes I don’t have. Having great conversation skills and public speaking skills were always in the top of my mind. I always knew it’s an area I want to work on myself. I was always inspired by people who possessed these qualities. Because I wasn’t born very extrovert in nature, I knew I have to work on it and find a way out.
Be less Judgemental: What I learned from some people who talk a lot is they don’t care much about the quality of their conversation. They are less judgmental and analytical about the intelligence of what they are saying. They don’t think much before saying something. They don’t hold back their thoughts or words with the fear of being judged. They say whatever is coming in their mind spontaneously.
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