#missing mother

[acrylicalchemy]

"Echos of Angels" is dedicated to my friend who disappeared in 2015. Her case has been largely buried, but I'm fighting to bring it back into the light.

-For Deanne Hastings

[mk-wizard]

The Missing Mothers of Transformers Part 2

Hello again, Transformers fans.

This is part two on the fan theory of whatever happened to the two missing mothers of Transformers. Mrs. Witwicky and Mrs. Burns. The first half which discusses what happened to Mrs. Witwicky is here. This half discusses what happened to Mrs. Burns.

I would also like to warn in advance that this fan theory analysis will be sad and I will try to be as sensitive as I can be to all of the people out there whose mothers are not with them anymore.

Now, onto the theory. Unlike Mrs. Witwicky, there are no official records anywhere which states whether Chief Charlie Burns is a widower or a divorcee. It is just very obvious that he is a single dad whose wife is for some reason not in the picture. The Chief seems to have adapted well to this role as he keeps an orderly house, he has raised his kids well and is one heck of a cook. He also seems to be open to meeting someone new as he had a developed a crush on someone at one point. I also have to say from the POV of a wife, Charlie Burns is a catch of a husband and father. With that said, his wife is missing from the family for only two reasons. Either she died sometime when Cody was a baby or she just up and left the family when Cody was a baby.

Considering the kind of guy Chief Burns is like, it is very likely that he was responsible enough to marry a good woman who didn’t leave the picture by choice. However, I doubt she died in a rescue accident because he still allows his own kids to be rescue workers and he is not overly protective of Cody. If Mrs. Burns did die during a rescue operation, I think such trauma would have been addressed in the show or there would have at least been an episode dealing with it. With that said, I think it is more likely that Mrs. Burns died of a sickness she came down with after the birth of Cody. Considering she was around long enough to have four kids, it is very likely that she was forced to leave the picture. Now, as to which disease it was, I have no idea. And as much as I hate to be a downer, this is the more ideal theory as to what happened to Mrs. Burns.

However, if we are going to go by the second theory, I have to say that it is unlikely, but not unheard of for one parent to up and walk out on the family even after so many years together. And considering that Rescue Bots takes place during modern day times in which divorce is not so taboo anymore, that possibility does exist. Plus, with the way Chief Burns speaks so kindly and warmly about all his friends and family, he doesn’t ever bring up his missing wife. I also have to point out that for such a devoted family man with wholesome traditional family values, he doesn’t wear his wedding band. I can understand that Sparkplug didn’t wear his wedding band because his work required him to use his hands a lot, but Charlie Burns is a cop. If he really was a widower, wouldn’t it be more likely that am old fashioned guy like him would still wear his wedding band? It’s tough for me to say this, but when a guy like Charlie isn’t wearing his wedding band anymore, it usually means that the marriage didn’t end well. We never see a single picture of her anywhere and we have seen pictures of the family in home.

I really hate saying this, but considering the evidence, I think it is very likely that Mrs. Burns and him had a divorce in which she just left her family entirely. Like I said, it is not unheard of for a spouse to do that even after having a lot of kids together. While Charlie is as good as they come and probably did his best to choose the right woman to be his wife and the mother of his kids, it doesn’t mean he chose as well as he thought he did. As dark as this sounds, considering how good Charlie is at keeping it all together on his own, the finger is pointing very sharply at the likelihood that he was keeping it together on his own even while his wife was around. Maybe his wife wasn’t such a great person hence why nobody not even the older kids talk about her or show any signs of missing her all that much. In fact, they don’t even have momentos of her. I also want to throw out there that Dani is not very feminine which tells me that even being the only girl, she wasn’t close to her mother. The only girly thing she owns is a pink elephant which we find out wasn’t given to her by her mother. I also should note that the way Kade approaches women is not the way Charlie would which tells me that he deems his father’s way not right after seeing how his parents’ marriage was like. Kade seems to believe he needs to play a dominant role in order for the relationship to be happy.

Unlike Sparkplug’s marriage, I think Charlie’s marriage was problematic and his wife just up and left either because she got tired of everything or perhaps knowing Charlie, he outright threw her out because she became a toxic presence in the family. And honestly, considering how gutsy Chief Burns is like, I honestly wouldn’t put it past him to become fed up and throw her butt out if she really was as awful as the theory suggests. As for what she did to make it get that far and how bad she was, I don’t know. All I can say is that I do think it is more likely that Charlie is most likely divorced and his wife never stayed in touch with the family nor does she seem to be missed.

I have seen divorced families like the Burns family hence why I am drawing this theory up, but I just want to make it clear that even if it is true, it doesn’t mean the Burns family isn’t a happy one now. Like I said, Charlie is a champion single dad. And honestly, I don’t think it is necessarily a bad thing if ex-Mrs. Burns was a bad woman because survivors of bad marriages and families who had a walkaway parent need to be represented in the media. And if the Burns are a family that had a walkway mother, they are positive representation in how they recovered from it. Believe me, some families in their position are left in way worse positions.

At least this is my theory. I want to know what you all think of it and what you think may have happened to Mrs. Burns. I do hope I remained sensitive to the subject.

This fan theory was a request on behalf of @ lolipop192089.

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Thank you for reading and please, stay safe.

[quinncupine]

Ch.299 spoilers (maybe?) Ahead

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Okay so I know the chapter was all about hawks and whatnot, but once I saw this

All I could think about was this

That is all. have a nice day

[recsbylotte]

❊⚹* We’ll get her back dad, I promise. *⚹❊

[acrylicalchemy]

Seeing these stories of missing women like Gabby Petito and Maya Millete, amongst so many others, always hits me hard. Is it happening more and more, or am I just seeing it more because I've experienced it first hand? 

It has been almost six years since Deanne Hastings disappeared. Deanne was my best friend and muse. Because of her struggles with mental health, it seems like her story was grossly overlooked and quickly forgotten...but I haven't forgotten. I have, however, grown tired of waiting and have lost my patience with a system that forgets and brushes off women that are deemed "troubled" or "asking for it." 

Since Deanne's bizarre disappearance in 2015, I have collected what sources and information I could. That information, some of which is shocking to say the least, has continued to be overlooked despite being presented to the authorities. That information from nearly half a dozen sources close to Deanne or her investigation/search, most of which is new, point in a very specific direction and it's a direction that seems to be deliberately avoided. 

Generally when someone disappears, you have a very short window to find them. To this date, nearly six years later, her car, phone, and the "letter" she left behind have never been looked at. One source advised me that when they called to provide helpful information about Deanne's case, they were told to "Leave it the F&$! alone." 

This painting is "Midnight Dancer (Take Me Away)." It was the first pieces Deanne inspired dating back to 2010.You can read more of my stories about Deanne at CariniArts.com and there will be more to come, because those that loved her deserve peace, and so does Deanne. 

[acrylicalchemy]

I woke up this morning knowing that it's a sad day, but not knowing what story I wanted to tell. Today marks the six year anniversary of the disappearance of Deanne Hastings, my best friend and the person I loved above all else. Six years ago, Deanne vanished. Today, six years later, there are still no answers and we seem to be no closer to having them. This picture of Deanne shows her the last time she visited me in my studio with the last painting of mine she saw me working on in person.

If I'm being honest, I don't believe Deanne is still a part of this world and I believe that was already the case at the time she was listed a missing person. I personally believe she was murdered and I have very strong and substantiated reasons why, reasons that haven't been brought to public light and were not touched upon by the media. I think the media painted a picture like the media always does...to capture views and interest. In doing so, not only do I think they didn't help her, I think they may have hurt her chances of being found. I also don't believe that the men that were arrested had anything to do with her disappearance based up what I know about Deanne and her situation at that point in time. 

Deanne is always on my mind, but even more so in recent months as I watched the stories of the disappearances of Gabby Petito and Maya Millete. The first mystery was solved before our eyes almost immediately. The second, though not yet solved, finally had an arrest around 9 months later. In both cases, who was responsible? Who is the usual suspect? The media portrayed Deanne as someone that had turned her life around and was happily in love. I knew a different story. I know that at the time Deanne disappeared, she was trying to escape and felt like she was in danger. She had planted a seed with me that she was going to leave and either come to see me, or have me come see her. I think she was denied that chance. When I emailed her to check on her around the time of her disappearance, I received a response from her email address, but it wasn't from Deanne. 

Over the years I have collected a variety of sources, information, and what I believe to be substantial evidence. That information, which all points in one very specific direction, has been presented to the authorities. Nothing has been done. Deanne deserves better. Her family deserves better. Those that loved her deserve better. We have all failed Deanne in failing to bring what little justice may be brought to her disappearance and what I believe wholeheartedly was the taking of a beautiful but troubled soul.I have several stories on my blog talking about what Deanne meant to me. Please feel free to share any stories about Deanne in the hopes of bringing light back to her story and putting it in front of the eyes of someone that can and will do something. Unless her story can somehow get national attention all these years later, it's hard to believe anything will happen. 

Here is one of my stories sharing what Deanne meant to me: Deanne Hastings

[acrylicalchemy]

It has been almost six years since Deanne Hastings disappeared. That doesn't stop me from trying to keep the fight to find her alive. Since Deanne's disappearance in 2015, I have quietly collected and presented what information I could (information from almost half a dozen sources that I believe to be quite valuable) to the authorities, only to watch it be buried in what at time feels like a deliberate cover up. One thing I can tell you is that around the time of her disappearance, I emailed Deanne, knowing full well that she was trying to escape a bad situation. The bizarre response I received from her email wasn't from her. 

You can read more of my stories about Deanne on my blog at CariniArts.com

[acrylicalchemy]

Today marks what would be Deanne's Birthday. Over 5 years ago Deanne Hastings disappeared and today there are more questions than answers. Deanne was my closest friend, my muse, and so much more. Deanne was a major influence on the man and artist I am today and I will continue to use whatever platform I may have to keep her story alive. My hope is that it will one day cross the path of someone that can help bring closure for her children, her family, and those that loved her. I can still vividly recall this picture, the last time she was with me in the studio. The painting on the wall in the top of the photo was one of many she inspired. 

Please contact me if you have more information and please help me in sharing her story, because she deserves better and so do those that loved her. I have several blog posts and podcasts about Deanne, but there is more of what she meant to me HERE