In your opinion(s), what, if any, are valid critiques of anti-fatphobia activism, and what are your responses to them?
I am probably going to give you a much more complicated answer than you were expecting, and I apologize for that.
First, if I may be honest: I have never heard a valid critique against fat acceptance as a whole. Every critique I have ever heard was either based in 1) a hatred of fatness and fat people, 2) an extreme misunderstanding of the point of fat acceptance or what fat acceptance actually is and does, or 3) the feeling that thin people should be included in fat acceptance too or that fat people don’t deserve our own movement. So I can’t take any of those critiques seriously or give them any weight.
However, there are valid critiques of fat acceptance as it currently exists, and I think they are worth exploring. I don’t really disagree with them.
1) Fat acceptance regularly prioritizes white people, able-bodied people, middle to upper-class people, cisgender, perisex, and other privileged people in the movement, and ignores intersections of size with race, class, and other factors.
2) Fat activists sometimes focus so much on debunking the idea that being fat is not unhealthy that they forget to say that being unhealthy is not a bad thing.
2.5) In fact, some even stress that yes, being unhealthy is bad and immoral and awful, but being fat doesn’t mean being unhealthy so if you’re healthy and fat then it’s okay. (Which. Yikes is that ableist.)
3) Fat acceptance prioritizes “acceptable fat” people with hourglass figures, very few stretch marks or other “imperfections,” etc., over fat people who look more like everyday fat people.
4) Fat acceptance often still prioritizes people of smaller weights and sizes over people with larger weights and sizes.
5) Some fat acceptance spaces allow thin people to be involved and prioritize their feelings and voices over fat people’s.
6) Sometimes men in fat acceptance spaces get ignored and their voices silenced, especially if they are otherwise marginalized.
7) There are a lot of people who seem to think fetishizing fat people is the same as being fat positive and pro fat acceptance, and so they treat fat people like a fetish in spaces meant to be safe spaces.
This was left unfinished in our drafts and these issues are still so important and that we as a community still have work to do beyond just fighting fatphobia from outsiders.