#more info needed

[whimsy-flags]

May I request a series of transneu (the ⚪🟡⚫ intersex inclusive one) emojis :))

I saw this request as it came in and I'm not finding this flag? I found three different four stripe ones in the same order,but no three stripe ones, and nothing labeled as "intersex inclusive". If you don't mind, just send this in again with the flag as an attachment, or tell me where to find it please :3

Edit: I think I have the flag! They're in the queue now, anon~

[yourfriendlyfayeking]

Slept for 12 hours and woke up to some bullshit

For anyone else who's confused, as far as I can tell tumblr user opabinia--regalis (she/her) was posting some insane transmisogynistic bullshit under the guise of fighting transandrophobia, calling trans women/fems "male supremacists." After looking through her blog im pretty sure she deleted the offending reblogs/posts, but i could be wrong and just not seeing it.

Im not sure why this 1 person being a fuck has warranted post after post after post about this bullshit, so maybe I missed something and there was another user spouting similar garbage, or maybe opabinia's comments got a lot of traction or something?

Either way if someone else has more info I would greatly appreciate it.

Source

Edit: it was canis-corpus. I didnt see any of it bc I blocked that fuckwad ages ago. Regular reminder that asshats can be found anywhere, and if we shut that shit down immediately it won't spiral into a bigger problem. Also that a singular, loud, annoying voice very visibly condemned by the community at large does not speak for us.

I am so sorry to everyone who has been hurt by that dick. Please know that the rest of the community loves and supports you.

Source

[macaw-squawks]

hello!! I don’t know if you can do the names and pronouns thingys (I forgot what what they’re called omg) of characters you might not know but could you do one of those based off of Fun Ghoul from The True Lives Of The Fabulous killjoys since I’m a fictionkin of him?/genq/nf

We can indeed! However as we don't know much (if anything lol) about the character, we're need some more info first! Like general themes n stuff! (Like 'base it on [this] aesthetic!' Or 'themed around [this] item!')

- mod macaw 🦜

[theos-safe-space]

Hello hello! May I please have a doctor themed stimboard please?

Hey! I’d love to do this, but before I do, is there a source? Or just like, a medical doctor? Please specify..

[batfamficfind]

Hey I've been looking for this fic for a while that I read (I'm pretty sure on FF.net but it might've been ao3). I read it in the past year but I have no idea when it was written. Basically Dick was avoiding his brothers after they'd found out he was alive after spyral and had gotten mad at him but Tim thought something was suspicious and sent Jason to check on Dick and Jason found out that Bruce had forced Dick into that situation and that Dick had actually died before that. Thank you in advance!!!!

Hi anon!!

This is a pretty common trope for the fics that deal with spyral aftermath and we need more sufficient info to pin down the fic you are looking for We need more info for the fic:

was the fic one shot?

was it multichaptered fic?

do you remeber when you read it?

when was it published?

- Mod Gemini_Baby

[rainbowsky]

While i agree that assigning gender roles ‘wife’ or ‘husband’ in a gay relationship is bad, i do have to add that in terms of culture, it’s a very different thing. I won’t touch on that clip because the interpretation can be subjective. But i just wanted to say that there is a cultural difference and I don’t think it can be considered feminization. While I understand the direct translation of ‘wife’ makes it seem so, in chinese, it’s a different story.

This ask is in reference to a previous post.

The issue I have with BXG calling GG ‘wife’ isn’t just about feminization. And I think it’s important to reflect on why feminization is such a huge issue among some fans, because while there are some good reasons to be bothered by it, the outrage can sometimes come across as a bit hateful.

There are two bigotries - misogyny and homophobia - at play when people paint feminizing a man as a horribly negative, completely unforgivable thing. People who have that attitude are implying that being feminine is undesirable (misogyny) and that being a feminine man is undesirable (homophobia).

There’s also a conformist conventionality at play in those situations. Everything must be divided according to status quo gender roles and expectations, and those roles and expectations should be strictly and often harshly enforced. Such ideas are at the root of so much inequality and so much suffering in the world.

I personally dislike that entire line of thinking. People can and should explore and break down gender roles and stereotypes. Gender bending is a political act. It is an important political act. Gender roles are one of the pillars of supremacy mindsets. The more we can do to break them down and make it safe and free for people to explore various permutations and combinations of gender traits and roles, the better, freer and safer this world will be for everyone.

However, that’s something for the individual to explore or not explore according to their own choice - not something to be imposed by fans.

The issue I have with BXG calling GG ‘wife’ is that it implies and even imposes a gendered role onto someone against their will. Calling GG wife is often an extension of people’s fantasy of him as a subordinate to DD in their relationship. This often runs alongside the top-bottom assumptions that plague the fandom.

Fans who call GG wife are imposing heterosexual ideas (and frankly, in many ways toxic heterosexual ideas) onto a homosexual relationship. They are converting a queer relationship into a het one, often for their own personal comfort or sexual gratification. Which is both heteronormative and homophobic.

One of the great things about being gay is the freedom to escape gender roles and expectations. To have a relationship as equals, with no need to navigate and defuse the gendered BS we’ve all been brainwashed with.

Gay relationships are so liberating, because in a same-sex relationship all that garbage about who you’re supposed to be to the other person goes completely out the window and you just get to decide for yourselves what you want the relationship to be.

The last thing gays need is to have those dynamics and roles reimposed over their liberated relationships.

As for the cultural significance/meaning of the term ‘Lao Po’, I still don’t feel like I understand why it should be treated any differently than ‘wife’. Do women in China ever call their husbands Lao Po? Does Lao Po not imply a role for the person being labeled with it?

And what about the fact that these aren’t Chinese people calling GG Lao Po? These are international fans who aren’t coming from a Chinese cultural context. Isn’t there something messed up about them using Chinese terms in this way?

EDIT: The Anon replied here.

[whimsy-flags]

no fucking idea if i already sent this but can you do pride flags of Alt (Alt: the Story)?

preferably including aroacespec

I can't find what media this is referring to - anon, mind coming back and giving me some direction?

[cooldudes-kinhelp]

I'm curious about the care kits. They seem neat! Can you do one for Jonathan Sims?

-📼

Absolutely and always! Anything in particular you want? I have a few things in mind already, but if there's a specific thing you want focused on (comfort, fashion, etc) please let me know! -Mod Leo🐢