#multiple positivity

[daydreamers-sys]

Honestly at this point I don’t care.

OSDD-1 system? Shit man us too!

DID system? Yo that’s cool!

UDD system? Fuck dude lit!

Nondisordered? Great!

Disordered but there’s no name for it yet? Glad you figured it out!

Believe your system was caused by a disorder that doesn’t usually cause a system? Hey, you know yourself!

Completely endogenic formed spontaneously? That’s so cool!

Soulbonding? Sounds sweet!

Tulpa? Neat!

Your system has been here for as long as you can remember? Ooh that’s cool!

You only just found out about your system yesterday? Amazing!

Your system only started the other day? That’s rad!

What if they’re faking it? We don’t care.

Do you really not care? YES, REALLY.

How can you not care? You can’t tell if someone is faking being a system no matter what they say unless they outright tell you “I’m faking this.” Even if their claims seem outlandish and unbelievable, just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean they’re lying; it simply means they’re different and that’s okay. Unless someone is actually directly harming another system/their recovery/etc we cannot care less about what they say they are.

[the-family-system-6]

Think of all the amazing things in nature. Think of the butterfly's wings, the mountains' peaks, the soft light of the moon. The world is filled with so many beautiful, tiny miracles, that we don't even notice. We take for granted that the mountains exist, the butterfly beats its wings, even though neither *has* to be true in all possible worlds. We assume that if we've discovered the mountains, the oceans, the frogs and the fish, that surely we've seen and discovered everything. But despite the beautiful miracle of butterflies existing, we doubt certain systems because they don't conform to our assumptions of the world. Beautiful miracles in their own right, and we doubt them because we don't have the technology to record them like we do the butterfly. But camera or not the butterfly still exists. So do systems, all systems.

[dogboysora]

hi i’m a singlet ally

doesn’t matter what kind of system you are, whether you have a diagnosis or not, whatever, if you say you’re plural i believe you and i accept and support you and wish you a very pleasant evening

💕

[multipride]

Hey, should my alters be aging with me? I have younger members of my system that seem to be just staying the same age. Is there anything I can do to help them grow up?

Hi there!

All alters and systems are different, there is no one right or wrong way to be an alter. Some alters are significantly younger than the body’s age, and some may even be significantly older. 

Don’t be concerned if your alters don’t seem to be aging. While some alters may age with the body, and other alters may even age-slide to younger or older, some alters stay at the same age, and that’s okay! You absolutely do not need to do anything to help your alters age. 

Some alters can be stuck at younger ages because of certain events or traumas, and that can be distressing if that alter is emotionally stuck in that space. If this is causing you distress, I’d recommend trying to improve internal communication and, with the assistance of a therapist, work through the trauma or event that is causing distress. 

Much love,

MWS (Magic Wishes System)