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When I’m gone from this beautiful planet what is the legacy I want to leave behind? It’s funny. I didn’t even know I needed or wanted to leave a legacy. I just panicked that I didn’t want to leave my kids. It used to fuel my anxiety terribly. While I’ve done a lot of work, there is always more to do. Life is a bit like that ya know, While I could do a million piles of laundry (or sometimes it feels like it anyway) there is always more to do. The past couple of weeks almost had me back in the cycle of those bad habits. While yes I thought a lump was more than it was, this time instead of being frozen in fear I felt proactive about the legacy I want to leave behind. How do I want to be remembered. What do I want people to think about when they hear my name? Because it’s not the victim of life I want to be known for, I don’t want people to feel sorry that I drowned by #mumlife Or that I was so overwhelmed and burnt out. I want people to be inspired by what I achieved because of my struggles, I want my kids to know how much they are lived, how much Inspiration they gave me. I want family & friends to remember the fun adventures we had. So, do you choose victim or inspiration? The destination is your choice regardless of what is on our path to get there. Don’t sit in the overwhelm take action get clear on your goals and dreams. Have bloody fun and laughs along the way. #dontbeavictim #mumof4 #mumlife #muminoverwhelm #motherhood #mumoftwins #placentapercretasurvivor #adversityisagift #motherhoodjourney https://www.instagram.com/p/Cd7fwsksloF/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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*****🔥 Burnout 🔥 ***** What do you think burnout looks like? For me it was being frozen, too overwhelmed to even load the washer, it was not having the energy to fight, not having the energy to help my kids grow. Not taking care of mine and my children’s basic needs. We sometimes see memes and posts about mums having messy hair, running around overwhelmed sorting the kids, doing chores, working etc. At what point does the overwhelm turn into burnout though? Overwhelm is where we still have the energy to fight but we just don’t know how. Burn out the energy is gone. Overwhelm is where you know there is a way. Burnout is where you have lost all hope of a way out. I’ve been in the later. I’ve been the one who thought the only way out was to no longer be a mum! Imagine that. You waited 5 years, blood, sweat & endless amounts of tears were shed to get pregnant. Then reality hit, your a mum, the mum load creeps in, you have babies to care for, a home to run, and all the other things that press out time. And so all you can see is maybe you have made a terrible mistake, maybe those kids would be better in a different home. Sometimes I’ve felt selfish for saying this. Because I wanted to get back the life I had pre kids. But then when I hit burnout and finally got over the other side I could see those kids, those moments, the rock bottom had been sent to me, those shitey times had been given to me to learn. And. Learn I Did. I learnt how to love, how to be a good mum, how to stop getting overwhelmed with the overwhelm, how to let go of perfect, how to live better, for me and my family. Don’t let that overwhelm turn to burnout there is a way. There is a solution. #overwhelmedmum #muminoverwhelm #mumssupportingmums #mumlife #mumvillage #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodoverwhelm #parentsofinstagram #parentalburnout https://www.instagram.com/p/CT6btjVMiBv/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Whatever you do just hang in there. Better times are on there way. Storms don’t last forever. That’s all it is. That moment you are in. Its not going to last forever. That stage of motherhood that feels like you are drowning. That rough patch of behaviour. That transition, that dip in mental health. That messy house that fills you with dread when you get home. Hang in there. I saw this on a card a while back took a photo to share with whoever needs it. Today I was drawn to posting it. So whoever you are that needed to hear this. It’s for you! Hang in there. #hanginthere #mumlife #mumsinoverwhelm #muminoverwhelm #muminchaos #mychaoticlife #overwhelmed #mumload #motherhoodunplugged #mumsofinstagram #mumssupportingmums #mumlifeuk #momentsofmine https://www.instagram.com/p/CTyu-tRsftI/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Well the summer Groove is on! I’ve done my first Facebook live for the event and I’m feeling buzzing at helping some amazing mums & carers enter the summer holidays minus the overwhelm & mumguilt. This week is going to be exciting to see what comes out of the tasks I’ve set. Hands up who has a little ounce of FOMO because they didn’t sign up? If you don’t want to miss out anymore go check out the links in my profile and join the mailing list. To find out first what events, challenges, freebies and programs are coming next! #mumlife #summergroove #muminoverwhelm #overwhelm #summeroverwhelm #summertime #mumssupportingmums #mumsofinstagram #mumvillage https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ8EK32Mjc9/?utm_medium=tumblr

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That’s it. The countdown is over. The doors are closed to the summer Groove Launchpad for this year. But keep your eyes peeled for exciting announcements coming next week. I’m excited to get started tomorrow morning with those that took that step to a more memorable summer. But for now. Early night ready for a crazy exciting week ahead. Night folks. I hope you’ve had a great weekend. #mumlife #summergroove #muminoverwhelm https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ6rG-RM7zV/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Are you ready to create Your own Summer Groove? This 5 day event - no more than an hour a day - will banish your overwhelm & mum guilt and help you create the most memorable summer for your family this year. Doors to this FREE event close at 8pm on Sunday 4th of July. That’s less than a week away I’m going to hold your hands through getting your family summer ready! No more last minute panics. The link to register is in my profile. Honestly this is going to change your summers. #mumlife #summervibe #summergroove #summerplanning #muminoverwhelm #mumsofinstagram #mumssupportingmums #mumsnetparents https://www.instagram.com/p/CQrH3vws0eb/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Nothing changes until something changes Right? We’ve all heard this time and tine again yet we still keep feeding our day to day with the same fuel! What happens then is our passions don’t ignite and instead our day to day starts to grind us down. I know I’ve been there. Overwhelmed by the very motherhood that I do longed for. Feeling stuck in a never ending cycle. Take a stand, make a change. I’m here to help you but you have to put in the work. Now The grind to groove program - creating your own motherhood & life blueprint is opening soon. I want you to be on it lovely friend. Don’t keep going around in circles expecting things to change. I’m here for you. Let’s get you loving your motherhood groove instead of being ground down by it! Head over to my profile download a tips to combat overwhelm printable and get ready to start taking some action that will change your life! #mumlife #muminoverwhelm #overwhelmed #overwhelmedbylife #overwhelmedmum #mumstress #mumssupportingmums #laundrypile #slowliving #simplelife https://www.instagram.com/p/CPCzI8NF2Hi/?utm_medium=tumblr