#negative relationships

[mysticalstreamsalutations]

legit, no wonder i struggle to have a healthy relationship.. my parents are the prime example of “stay together for the kids.” and yet i’m that person who will tell you to dump his ass, if your bf so much as looks at you sideways. my parents don’t like to be around each other the majority of the time. they are always bickering... my grandparents did this as well, (but they did it more out of boredom than actual contempt for each other). i gotta know is this normal? when did “awh you guys are fighting like a married couple!” become cute and “the norm.” i do understand everyone has disagreements, but people seem to take that little tidbit and run with it, and it eventually becomes the basis of their marriage. I don’t think that’s right, but i’ve never been married (and don’t plan on it).

[support66269484]

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[kindnessisstillhere]

Please forget who began

Once we were close,

You bothered to listen,

To ask,

And it wasn't just me reaching.

Once we could find balance,

And didn't have arguments.

I'm forgetting that more now,

That past is hurting me,

Causing pain when remembered,

Because I gave up on it returning.

You forgot to ask how I am,

Forgot that work is still work,

Whether it's done from home or not.

I don't think you ever knew that.

I see stories about joy,

People excited their friends sing again,

And try to feel that for myself;

I was happy enough to sign this week,

Fuck I was proud to be feeling better,

To be calm, happy enough to sing.

You complained, criticised, teased,

While demanding my help,

Demanding to be in my space,

Giving me little space to refuse.

So let's forget the people we began as,

Let's forget that connection was there,

Because it'll hurt less to forget,

To never remember you could try,

Never remember that there was balance.

Please forget who began,

You're the one who lost them.

[mykeyung]

Infectious Vibes by Myke Y.U.N.G.

Can no longer deal with people

Who want my voice silent like a bare

Wall only wanting their conversation

To be the center of attention, my mind

Limited only to their needs like a servant

With helping anyone else being seen as

A critical violation, wants to mold my feelings

Into robotic settings like I’m a human remote

For their pleasure, desire to see my limbs in

Poses of despair unless I’m in their presence

And my heart drained of passion and love, but

Instead filled with blind obedience and false hope

Being their vision of perfection. If you try to assert

Your parasitic puppet strings over me or spread radioactive

Syllables to my mentality, I will pull the plug on

Our connection because your benefit is not worth

The price I must constantly pay to have it

[kindnessisstillhere]

Repeating Conversations

The same conversation again.

I’ve stopped trying to argue it,

To get it understood I can’t do it,

Listen for hours to the same thing.

I just speed up my walking,

Get away and end the conversation.

There used to be change to it,

Something new to talk through.

Or at least I could pretend there was.

But it’s just the same conversation,

Muddled a little so she thinks it’s new.

I dread this carrying on longer,

But I know that’s what’ll happen.

It’s my money that keeps our home,

I can’t leave her homeless afterall.

So I am trapped to the same conversation,

And it’s been lasting centuries.

[dreamsforgotten]

Wow. I gotta say I never really understood the idea of ‘letting negative relationships go’. But now I do. When someone is constantly putting you down, telling you what to do, cursing at you, making you feel like you aren’t worth anything, making you feel stupid, making you feel anything but awesome, and just generally being a bully, then that’s a negative relationship. And it can be anyone! Significant others, family, friends, even best friends. I finally get that. I’m finally going to try and get rid of my negative relationships.

[cartoonaesthetic99]

Reblog if you had an abusive relationship before No matter if it's verbal, emotional or physical abuse.

[princessskayy]

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