#negativitea

[minthy]

bro can't even have a normal morning

[aro-thoughts]

Today's modern society has much less of a need for guns than it used to - guns are no longer relevant and are instead actively dangerous with how many shootings there are these days. That's why people want gun control today, because times have changed in a way that they're no longer as necessary.

However, I don't think there has been a societal change to require the overturning of Roe vs Wade. The world is overpopulated and becoming more depressing, difficult and expensive to deal with. Children in America grow up to fear dying in a school shooting and if they don't, most go through a poor education system anyway. There's just no reason to overturn Roe vs Wade.

Personally, I don't really care about what your stance on abortion is, whether it's murder or a sin, idc. But whether you support it or not, the fact is that if it is illegal, it will still happen, it just won't happen in a safe way. People will still find a way to do unsafe back street abortions - some will even die from it. It does not matter if it is right or wrong, it will still happen, and will harm so many people if it is not done in a safe way.

[cheritzssebba]

I have some pretty big self-doubt and I'll trick myself into thinking I'm fine when I'm not and everyone around me is saying I'm not but I still feel like I need to find help from Tumblr too-

For at least 2 months now (all of January, all of December, probably part way through November or October) I've had headaches almost everyday. They're not that bad, sometimes they are, but they're just almost always there. They just come and they go as they like. I do sometimes feel a dizziness too.

I don't really want to go to the doctors about it cuz, as I said, crippling self-doubt. I'm probably fine really. But does anyone have any kind of advice, help or even just assurance that I'm not fine? I don't like it :(

I have looked up some stuff and have an idea of what this could be called but I just want more confirmation with this..

[smol-aro-tea]

I am angry about things. I hate things. There are things I hate and am angry about that I know other people are totally allowed to like.

I am angry about both big things and small things. I am angry, I am tired, I am pissed, I am not happy and I mean that in a way that is not sad.

I am angry that people in my life have told me to control my emotions. I am angry that people who call me their friend were initially shocked to discover that I have things I hate and am angry about.

I am not angry that I am small. I am not angry that I was always the weakest in PE, the last in every race and always on the losing team. I am not angry that I am too quiet and don't talk much, if at all. I am not angry that I pass as female. I am not angry that I am emotional and cry in lesson without caring about whether people see or not, because I know emotions don't make you vulnerable and couldn't care less about a 'reputation'. I am not angry that I am optimistic and empathetic. I am not angry that I am asexual.

But I am very angry about the way this makes people view me. They look at all of those things above and think there's no way I could be angry. And that I'm a pure, precious, innocent cinnamon roll that can do no wrong. And that I need to be sheltered from a sexual birthday card. And when I text them, crying and swearing about my homophobic dad, their 1st words aren't of comfort or solidarity, but instead an "I never knew you were like this". And when I call them out on how they infantalise me, they claim they have a protective instinct, as if I need to be protected from harmless things.

I can't fight. But I can feel anger and hate and it manifests through tears.

Fuck off cuz I sure am a smol bean but I don't need your god damn motherfucking protection.

[lesbiaine]

me: hmm.. maybe the duffers ARE going to make gay will canon and give him a happy ending. i mean the show bible, the subtext, even the script itself seem to imply will is gay and has feelings for mike. thats not even talking about all the parallels between mikes relationship with el and his relationship with will. maybe they DO intend to give their lgbt fans representation and are about to give will a coming out arc. mayb-

me back me: hey hey

me: what

me back at me: theyre white cishets

me: fuck. youre right

[thorific]

people trying to justify thorki by saying its ““““““canon”””””” in norse mythology are fucking ridiculous because literally that means tom hiddlestons loki fucked a horse and then got pregnant like. do you know how fucking ridiculous and illogical you sound

[aro-thoughts]

I think I need more friends and I specifically want more queer ones but I never know where to find them?? How do you meet people?? Surely there'd be somewhere around where queer people can meet, ask for help, celebrate, talk about struggles

And I don't mean a gay bar - cuz for 1, I'm sure there's none where I live; I am over 18 but I rlly don't like going to bars to meet people, and I'd really only ever go to a bar if I'm surrounded by people I know; even if I did like bars, most the reason people go there is to get dates/have sex. If you didn't know by now, I'm both aro and ace. So no thank you, I don't think gay bars would really do it for me :/

But where the hell else is there!!!! Do I just go hunting for them out in the wilderness?? Should I don all my pride gear everyday just in the hopes that someone will recognise all my incredibly obscure flags?? Idk my guy :(

[aro-thoughts]

Can people stop describing love as mystical and magical and unexplainable?? Magic is just science that we don't understand yet except we do understand it cuz we know it's chemicals in the brain adapted to survive and reproduce successfully. It makes sense why we love, it's evolution, it's chemicals, it's adaptation. I'm not saying it to ruin the allos' fun, I'm saying it cuz it's just a fact.

I just hate when ppl refer to it as being in love instead of being romantically and/or sexually attracted to someone. The latter makes so much more sense to me and doesn't make me physically cringe upon hearing it. Describing it as attraction is so much better than describing it as love. And the concept of 'true love' and 'the One™' is so bafflingly dumb, like, dude it's oxytocin. Chill.