#nevermoredrama

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Situation in a nutshell:

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Im sure most of you have either heard or know about the situation going on in the nevermore fandom right now, now I am not a tumblr nevermore creator but I do have some insight on the crimson situation. (By insight I mean I have screenshots)

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Hello, I assume some of yall have read red’s new post explaining her side of the story, in that my name was dropped as part of a “harassment clique”. Now I am not good with words but I would like to share my side of that story, now there is a lot that red said over this clique but I can assure you there is even more that she did not cover. Now red was correct that the side server started off as a gaming server for those who met through the fandom, now this side server did not start off with any malicious intents and it also did not end with it. The server is now completely dry and everyone has left although that does not mean we ended our friendships. The “clique” she spoke of were merely just the most active of the server members that spoke and hung out together more frequently. Red also mentioned that the server became a place where everyone could just be toxic and shit talk fellow readers when this was not the case, the server stayed following its main purpose to chat and play games, the only time anything about other readers or “shit” was discussed was when it came into our friends lives.Now red talked about banning said members of the clique due to “evidence” she had been shown of our “toxicity” when in reality she had maybe one or two screenshots that were taken out of context and given to her by spies she planted in the server for the sole purpose on finding proof of us being “toxic”. The screenshots of “proof” incriminated maybe 1 or 2 people and banned the rest of the “clique” by association. I heard that moments before everyone was banned a fight emerged in a common room channel of the nevercord, I cannot tell you the details of said fight as I was asleep at the moment of all this unraveling, and woke up to already being banned as I was getting ready for school. Now usually when someone is banned in the nevercord they are given a warning telling them that they are about to be and why, now I did not receive anything like this and as far as I am aware neither did the other members of the “clique”. I will admit I foolishly did message red and other mods on an alt that i already had (It was made for joke purposes long before any of the alt harassment allegations were made and I only used it once.) asking frantically as to why I was banned, I was confused and scared thinking i had done something horrible that I wasn’t aware of. I guess what I’m trying to say is that in the end we were not a group of monsters who only spoke to eachother to hate on other people for no reason but instead a group of friends who were wrongly and harshly accused of heinous acts of which we did not commit.

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I'm sorry for everything that happened on discord and getting ur name put out like that. As another minor myself ik I would be incredibly stressed so I hope ur doing okay and focusing well on school and stuff.

Thank you, it was stressful at the time but after it really happened I learned to move on but now that it’s been brought up again for no reason it’s brought back that same feeling of “why am I being blamed again? What did I do?” Although the feeling yet still being there is a bit more muffled because the first time around I really admired red and looked up to her a lot but since then she’s really lost that part of me. For now I’m on summer vacation waiting to become a freshman next year! Thank you for your concern and I really appreciate people like you 🫶