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Hi again!❤️ I'd like to ask for a second opinion, although maybe it's not 100% the style of your blog. I'm writing about a kid from a poor family who got abandoned by their parents and raised in a rich family instead, and so far I realise I'll have to look up what kind of psychological problems abandoned/orphaned kids and their new families have to deal with. But on another note, what do you think it's going to be like for the kid to find themselves, without a warning, in a basically aristocratic home? How would they behave and think and feel? Maybe you can give me an idea of what to google to get information on that? Thank u❤️
This sounds like a cool concept :)
First, I cannot speak from experience, but these are my ideas about what the kid might go through living in a home where they are in a totally different environment than they're used to. If the kid grew up in a neighborhood where violence / war was prevalent, they're going to have a hard time adjusting to a peaceful home without a lot of surrounding threats. It will probably take them a while to learn to sleep through the night and to be comfortable not having an immediate escape plan. They might even struggle with getting used to having a bed to sleep in, enough food to eat, or a safe home to come back to.
If they've been adopted into an aristocratic family, they might struggle with feeling out-of-place and inferior to their adoptive family, especially when it comes to fancy occasions or etiquette. They'll probably get frustrated with themselves when they mess up and feel like they've embarrassed the family. Overall, the culture gap between their upbringing and their adopted family's lifestyle will be a huge barrier that could easily discourage or embarrass them.
Since their family abandoned them, they're probably going to have huge abandonment issues, especially if they were younger when that happened. They're going to be anxious at being left alone and constantly be training themselves to be independent. They'll probably experience a lot of hurt that will hit them slowly and will make it difficult to trust their new family. Definitely don't shy away from the slow process it will take to build new trust and become comfortable in a new environment!
As far as what you can research, I'd look into abandonment issues, displacement issues, and even imposter syndrome. Less specifically, you can research common struggles for orphaned children or children who are adopted into new environments. I hope this is helpful!
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