#new situation

[something-not-quite-human]

Lurking anxiously. Munching on abandoned bread. Staring wide eyed at the ghosts.

[ultraviolettae]

Hello everyone!

As you probably already know, Stephanie decided to leave Tumblr, for reasons she explained in this post. I hope everyone understands her decision and respects it. She mentioned that she would give her blog/url if someone expressed interest in it. She decided to give it to me, so that makes me the new owner of this blog :) So here we go:

- Feel free to unfollow the blog now that she doesn’t run it anymore, I won’t mind at all!

- I won’t continue her stories. They are now discontinued.

- I won’t take them down, for one reason: I want everyone to be able to enjoy her work, that’s why her fics will remain untouched. I am a fan of her work and I want people to read it.

- Please note that I won’t answer asks demanding details about her decision, because she already explained herself perfectly; also it’s not my place to answer such questions.

I don’t really know what I want to do with the blog yet. However, I’m sure I won’t change the url for the time being, just because I like it a lot and it’s also easier for people to find her work if they want to re-read it. That being said, the content of the blog will be BTS, just because I stan them myself. 

- M

[rethinker]

"Adaptation to a new situation, whether good or bad, consists in large part of thinking less and less about it."

~ Daniel Kahneman, "Thinking, Fast and Slow"

[daytonawinchester]

Custody Over A Character

I never heard of anyone taking custody over a character that have been written out in books before. 

There is currently a legal battle of such a deal going on 

I didn’t even know that this was a thing. But it had me spooked a bit. I mean I like to think of myself as a good writer and I have two good characters. 

Now will I have to put them down as you would when kids need to go to a family member 

This is the strangest situation I have ever heard of and it gives me something to think about. 

[autism-asks]

Vent/time sensitive(sorta ) I'm going to friends house to play dnd but I'm scared something is gonna go wrong because there are people I don't know, I don't know anything about dnd and how I got invited was kinda awkward and idk what to do cause I wanna go but I'm freaking out so much.

Hey,

what I do in situations similar to the one you describe is try to learn as much about the occasion as I can. For example, you could ask the people you do know (your friends) about anything you are unsure of - who is going to be there? What are they like? What are you all going to do? Any questions you may have about the game itself. Etc.

If you ever encounter a situation where you don’t know anyone you could do research beforehand - look up what kind of event this is and what is generally expected (clothes, behaviour etc.) and what is going to happen. If there has been a similar event before, look for reviews or ask people who may have gone. Once you’re there, if you are unsure, observe what everyone else is doing.

With formal events this may not always be possible, but with things such as your DnD session where you spend time with people in a less formal and more familiar way, it is also generally fine to ask if you have any questions or are unsure of how something is done, especially if you have never done something before.

I’m sorry for the late reply! If you already met up and played I hope it went well and you had fun!

-Kath

[plantsandbreezes]

october 11th, 2017

i don't wanna leave. yesterday evening i had a little breakdown because i had that frightening, drowning feeling of home-sickness even if i haven't even left yet. and the thing with this is, it's all my sister. my sister is my home, leaving her means leaving my home. and i'm so scared to leave her because i know i'm gonna miss her so much. i'm gonna feel alone and what scares me the most is, that i will propably miss her so much more than she misses me. i love her to the bones and i know she loves me a lot, too. we grew together so much during that hard time. but i know she has her boyfriend to got to on the weekends and i know i'm gonna be second after him. and it's right, it's the only right thing. i should get a lot more independent. a have to now. and it scares me. i mean i kinda have to be an adult now. not only on the paper.

the worst thing is that fear that my sister will get along without me and i won't. i know we both will find new routines, ways to cope with the situation we are in. i feel bad for leaving my sister alone with my dad. and she feels like i'm the lucky one because i can get out of that place. but currently i feel like i will miss it so much. not the place but my home: my sister, the nature around, the walks with my sister or listening to a podcast, my cats, my room, the evenings we both spent together and of course my mom. i guess that will be one of the hardest things right now. i always had my mom who listened to me, when i had sth. to tell about uni, my worries, when i was home sick or just feeling happy or sad. we wrote every evening. or just to know that i would go home on the weekend made me feel so much better and safe. i always had sth. to look forward to. now i won't be able to have this to look forward to.

but just thinking negatively won't help as well. i know it's a chance to learn to be more independent. this moment will come anyway so why not use the opportunity to learn to do things on my own right away ? and even during that hard situation, esp. in the beginning when i was alone at home all the time and felt so miserable, i was able to create a routine i actually felt very good in, in the end. it's a routine i will even miss now, not having it anymore. and i will be able to create a routine in my new place as well. it just takes time and effort. and i got the opportunity to grow. meeting new people, learning new stuff, trying new things. i live with people i really like, i'm privileged because i'm able to study what i'm interessted in and i got the benefit that i'mable to create a beautiful atmosphere in many situations. i will be able to feel comfortable where i live now. i just have to give it a chance. accept this whole situation as a chance.

also i got a lot to look forward to. i will look forward to meet my sister even more now that we won't be able to see each other this often. meeting for a coffee/ hot chocolate, making her an advent calendar, going for walks with her when i visit her or when she visits me, baling christmas cookies, going to the christmas market and finally being able to spend two weeks on my christmas break with her. and if everything works out we will go on holiday to the north sea together with her boyfriend in the next semester break. untill then we will both be so busy that even i will be able to cope with that home-sickness-missing-her-feeling. and time will pass to quickly and soon i'm gonna be able to spend a lot of time with her again and make great memories. why not try and make the best out of the situation and instead of blank fear, accepting that chance and try making new memories, even without her but with friends and in a new environment. i will get this. everythibg is ok.

[collected-times]

tuesday night thoughts

There is this boy, I’m very confused about him. He isn’t my type, he isn’t nice. He is not even kind or a boy like everyone. First, I need to say that I know my worth and I truly love myself. I’m my highest priority. This boy makes me feel comfortable, safe and beautiful. But he doesn’t vibe with me. I don’t want to know his friends, I don’t want to know his family. I don’t want to know anything about his past. The thing is.. I’m in love with him, because I hate him so much. I love him, because he sets my body and soul on fire. I love him, because he teases me the way I deserve it after a long work day. I love him, because I melt inside his arms. I love him, because I love how he treats me.

[freedthedark]

🍷 honestly is this even a surprise?? LmaO xD

Send a 🍷 for my muse to show up drunk at your muse’s door. // Not accepting!

His coat was not even buttoned up, nor was the belt closed so the crimson piece of clothing revealed the neat white dress shirt Freed was wearing beneath the jacket.

Complaints about ‘the air being too hot’ had apparently led to such condition and even more obstinate than usual the drunk Captain had objected strongly without leaving a chance to protest and making it impossible for others to convince him to close the damn coat again.

That was before he sneaked out of the almost empty guild hall, at first planning to head home though then noticing an all too familiar bag. He remembered the striking look of it and he decided to be the gentleman in person and stop by at a particular brunette’s house.

It was a miracle he found the way, really. And weirdly enough his intoxiacted self hoped that perhaps she had more of this delicious cocktail.

One thing led to the next and the result was the following: An intoxicated Freed Justine bothering Cana in the middle of the night. Albeit absolutely convinced that he is being very nice he just smirked smugly once the female opened the door.

                                     “‘s yours, isn’t it?

                                                                                   You’re welcome.”~