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More on MBTI from NFGeeks

If you’re looking on more on MBTI check out the NFGeeks youtube channel, what makes ths channel different from others is that NFGeeks are qualified MBTI practitioners. For those wondering, Dr.Mike is an ENFP. These are only a few videos from them:

You can also check out if you wish some other non-qualified, but well-informed MBTI practitioners. These are only a few videos, their channels have a lot more videos.

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ENFP and INFJ ending relationships.

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An NF dream.

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Yet another great ENFP psychologist. 

So true. (esp ~15 min when he talks about how INFJs experience loneliness). My friend and mum who are also ENFPs are constantly complaining about being "alone" and not just loneliness. My ENFP friend explicitly expresses her fear of being alone. 

For INFJs, loneliness comes from not being understood. ENFPs seem to have this Fi thing where they think: "People like me, but they don't LOVE me."

I don't feeeeel like I have this problem. Being liked is a pretty big compliment to me, because you've obviously attracted someone for a REASON. 

The ENFP's problem is probably due to Fi. Esp if you want an Fe user to fall in love with you. Fe does so much better at cultivating positive feelings than Fi, which is... idk, kind of too explicitly "me me meee" all the time. Fe is very clearly sacrificial. A sacrificial nature seems to be a big one when it comes to relationships, which Fi is usually not well known for (they want people to be like them; they don't readily change for people).

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I very much agree with Dr. Mike (of NFgeeks) on NF "landmines"* in the "Love Maps" segment of his recent vid on relationships.

This one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4Dn6Xh723A

*landmines - basically memories you don't want to evoke. 

NF land-mines: memories of heartbreak.

I'm usually very open about my feelings to people (the Fe), but I haven't spoken to anyone about my feelings on the aftermath of a failed relationship/heartbreak. I hope to open up to people who can relate, because the last thing I want is to have my painful experiences undermined/misunderstood. Usually I am able to talk about the reasoning behind failed relationships with people (even just friends I can trust), the cause and effect component, but rarely the emotional component. The most I'll ever extravert is a very loose utterance of pain or discomfort such as "Oh my life is miserable!"

Talking about an unhappy experience in terms of reason and logic is far more therapeutic than being all emotional about it. Sure, crying helps but it doesn't help to change any situation! Being rational really helps to put things into perspective, as to help me get my life back together A.S.A.P. Most of the time I know exactly what to do in order to turn things around, but at the end of the day, my feelings always seem to take the upper hand, as irrational as they are, and as assertive I was initially about my rationality.

The emotions surrounding heartbreak never truly fade away for good. They say that time heals all wounds, so maybe I simply haven't lived long enough to know for sure.

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NFGeeks - Love: Going through the Temperaments!

Featuring Mike (ENFP) and Dave (INFJ)

(Can't get enough of the ENFP x INFJ chemistry here!)

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SP Love Episode - NFGeeks x SPspazz

Mike (ENFP) & Jeff (ESFP) talk about SP vs. NF love. 

Gosh, this episode makes me feel so sad, but it's so true at the same time. OH well, what can I say? Reality bites doesn't it?